what is a player and who is this guy who wants to be a one woman man??
The one woman man or the one man woman ..is a myth..they exist only in Utopia.or at the beginning of time when there was only Adam and EVe..and that is for want of any choice...
Today looking for a soulmate is.just like going to the supermart, this sort of MM site is a sort of super mart for searching and hunting...you need to try various brands before you decide on the right one to fit your bill..so I find it hard to understand this open declaration that so many of you out there proclaim..
MOnogamy is a scenario that is post-marital and not pre-marital..so why proclaim a state of mind that may or may not happen..or promise something that you possibly can't keep?It is not a selling point at all , in fact it is like one of those tongue in cheek advert that promises durability and guarantee our money back representation..that is bound to backfire..so be realistic guys and gals...even marriage vows are broken so why declare undying devotion and exclusivity when you have not even found that someone
marriage halves your sorrow
doubles your joy and quadruples your expenditure..
it is certainly not a bed of roses..if it is then you will have to live with all the thorns that come with it..so girls out there, take your time..love can't be rushed..and cupid have a way of being scared by those who only want to jump the gun and get to marriage and by the way babies come with morning sickness, night feeds, dirty nappies..and husbands are also high maintenance pets who need constant care and feeding..so you need to think real hard before you say 'yes'...I am not cynical in fact I was happily married for 20 years..so this merger call marriage need to be taken with lots of health warning to make it a success...
And all you need is a good man to fill the position of husband? Do you seriously think there are men looking for the job of husband?
The only good reason for wanting to get married is that you have met the one. I understand you crave a vision that you have about how things will be when married. That's ot a selling point, it applies to pretty much every woman, keep it to yourself.
You are getting ahead of yourself. First you need to meet a man, then get to know him, then fall in love, decide he is your one and only and want to begin life forever with him, and only then is marriage a good thing.
So, stick with step 1. Meeting a man. You'll scare him off if you reveal your agenda. Concentrate on what kind of man you want to meet and why that kind of man will want you vs. other women.