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  • View author's info Posted on Jul 17, 2006 at 08:15 AM


    bobsthename write:
    I don't believe age is an issue. As we all age, we all weather differently. it is much more difficult to find an attractive women in their 40's than it is in their 30's or 20's. Same goes for men. the older we get, the more we have to work at it. this weekend, at the local bar, I managed to meet a very attractive 19 year old Friday night and an attractive 43 year old Saturday night. I have to work at it to look good, and looking good gives you the confidence to make a move on someone else who is attractive. I'm mid 40's, looking good and moving with confidence gives me the ability to attract women of all ages...as any woman in their 40's who takes care of themselves and looks good can get any guy. I'll take a good looking 40 year old over something younger any day. They are just harder to find.


    Hey Bob. Just wait until you hit 60. Then they all look young. LMAO.
  • View author's info Posted on Jul 17, 2006 at 07:55 AM


    I don't believe age is an issue. As we all age, we all weather differently. it is much more difficult to find an attractive women in their 40's than it is in their 30's or 20's. Same goes for men. the older we get, the more we have to work at it. this weekend, at the local bar, I managed to meet a very attractive 19 year old Friday night and an attractive 43 year old Saturday night. I have to work at it to look good, and looking good gives you the confidence to make a move on someone else who is attractive. I'm mid 40's, looking good and moving with confidence gives me the ability to attract women of all ages...as any woman in their 40's who takes care of themselves and looks good can get any guy. I'll take a good looking 40 year old over something younger any day. They are just harder to find.
  • View author's info Posted on Jul 17, 2006 at 07:26 AM


    so are there any uk people on here at all?!
  • View author's info Posted on Jul 17, 2006 at 07:09 AM


    Not every guy is like that. Some start out that way and the smart ones realize they have nothing in common after a while. That is why I went on this site to find someone smart. I am 37 and when I go out I get just as much attention as some girls in their 20's. I do think however there may be the occasional man that thinks he deserves someone younger if he has money. But then he is not very smart because he should realize that she in ONLY with him for his money and would never look his way if he was driving say the ice cream truck. So then it is a business deal. I am not judging that at all. Everyone is different.
  • View author's info Posted on Oct 05, 2005 at 04:13 AM



    wwwww123 write:
    Yes, She looks like she could take care of two golf bags at least. I sure hope she is as sweet as she looks.


    lol



    Looks like you will be the bongo and she will do the bongoing..
  • View author's info Posted on Oct 05, 2005 at 01:10 AM


    Yes, She looks like she could take care of two golf bags at least. I sure hope she is as sweet as she looks.


    lol
  • View author's info Posted on Oct 04, 2005 at 04:21 PM


    Hi Sharon,

    In my last email to you and the FWB, I stated that I do not have any of those either and I prefer my friendships that way. No expectations, no disappointments, just fun and good times!

    And 5 W's,

    Your lady looks very hot my friend! One thing for sure, she can bench press you and me both, lol. As for anything else, I take the fifth bro!
  • View author's info Posted on Oct 04, 2005 at 10:56 AM


    5w's...I thought you have better taste than that! lol What are you looking for someone who can carry you around shopping when you get older? You can say, "Forget the wheelchair, I've got personal human caddy! I'm the golf bag!" lol
  • View author's info Posted on Oct 04, 2005 at 10:19 AM


    I really don't care how old a woman is -- as long as she is sweet and nice and can bench press 400 lbs.

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  • View author's info Posted on Oct 03, 2005 at 06:08 PM



    BlondeLightning write:
    Hello Everyone!
    FYI- I myself like both my older and younger female friend's.



    Me too Blonde with respect to male friends...of course they are platonic friends w/o benefits! And your female friends??? lol
    Moi..je suis un 'brat'! lol
  • View author's info Posted on Oct 03, 2005 at 03:14 PM


    I would prefer a woman my age or older. that's it.

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  • View author's info Posted on Oct 01, 2005 at 12:43 PM


    Hello Everyone!

    And Miss Cal Bunny, Here is a thought to ponder to your Quote:

    "Nothing wrong with wanting eye candy on your arm. And nothing wrong with being eye candy either. If a woman is beautiful enough to be eye candy, then more power to her. And if a man is wealthy enough to have eye candy on his arm, then more power to him. Beauty and wealth go hand in hand".

    What about the gentlemans side of it, Wealth does not have to apply here, what if he is extremely good looking and youthful? Also another point- It can go both ways in age for either the male or female, older or younger! Just a thought! FYI- I myself like both my older and younger female friend's.
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 29, 2005 at 02:13 AM



    sweendogr write:
    Ive been accused of being shallow because my date is younger,attractive or arm candy. I must admit I do like my partner to be attractive and secure with their feelings and se-xuality regardless of their age. Ive met young women who' very mature and older ones who acts like high schoolers.



    who has been acusing you? Other jealous women or men?
    You are a big man with a big mind. Ask yourself:
    'What is mine is my matter. What they mind does it matter? This is mind over matter, that is all that matters.'
    ..new tongue twister
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 26, 2005 at 06:56 PM


    True sweendog, but you can find men who have not grown up either, and behave like high school boys.
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 25, 2005 at 07:25 AM


    Ive been accused of being shallow because my date is younger,attractive or arm candy. I must admit I do like my partner to be attractive and secure with their feelings and se-xuality regardless of their age. Ive met young women who' very mature and older ones who acts like high schoolers.
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 24, 2005 at 10:10 AM



    gonewiththewind write:
    I think its wellknown that age are 3:the age of our look, the age of our feeling, and the age mentioned in our birth certificate.the age of the look depends on our heritage.If many ppl in our family are having an old age, it means the body is getting older slower. The differences can reach 20 years. Added with healty living it could make more. I have seen a 20 years young looks like 30 somethign and a 40 years old woman like 26 or so. F.e:My grandma is 95 and still alive, my mom is 60 and most of the ppl mistaken her to be in her 40 ties. I am almost 40 and thank God, its not uncommon a 20 years college boy asked me what am i Studying? and some girls are surprised when I told them I am married and got babies...(while actually i got one in the college as well).This is just example. But to tell you the truth its risky for a woman to marry someone younger more than 4-5 years. Its the panic that will tire you...that he might find you old, not attractive anymore, and leave you for a younger..believe me I have been there.The diff is 6 years and he still can't accept the fact, asked me to fake my document, which I did. And now we are separated. this age thing is one of the reason, he kept on saying that I am too old(while he himself doesnt look younger than me according to all my friend...), he said he supposed to marry someone 5-8 years younger....and this incidence has killed our relations.Its the main reasons of our misunderstanding and fights...I believe, what our parents and grandparent said in the old time that if the husband is 4 years older than the wife, the marriage has a better chance to survive.the 4 are like the legs of a stable table....

    Very insightful comments and you managed to express your concerns without appearing cynical.
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 18, 2005 at 09:20 PM


    You an't met that old woman Halley Berry yet have you? If you don't want her, send her my way.
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 07, 2005 at 07:45 PM



    thegoodlife2005 write:
    Yes you're a rare exception . . . but admit it now: Your 44+ candidates have good waist-to-hip ratios, great skin, shiny hair . . . etcetera! Meaning, they still LOOK capable of breeding even if it's the LAST THING on both of your minds!!!!!! Meaning, you've chosen your age cutoff, but LOOKS still sell.

    Breeding is certainly the last thing on MY mind . . . but married OR single, I want to appear at least capable of it for as long as I can for as long as I'm interested in having sex with my man.

    And if I never meet my True Love, and too much plastic surgery turns me into a cartoon image of a nubile female, I've already instructed my daughter to fish me out of the dating pool and put me into rehab! Once out of dating rehab, hopefully I won't care anymore what men think. I plan to be a proud, happy free crone someday, married or single, no matter what happens.


    I won't deny that I am attracted to women who are attractive to me, and as I have posted here or elsewhere in these pages this does include bright eyes, clear skin and lustrous hair, but that's a biological thing, entirely beyond my control. What is within my control is to ignore women under a certain age, or rather politely suggest I am not a good candidate. And as I think I put in my profile itself (but may not, as I have had ads on multiple sites and they are not all worded the same), I had a vasectomy (in 1991) so I have zero intention of further propagation.

    I suspect you could retain your beauty well into your 50s without plastic surgery, but as I am on record elsewhere advocating whatever it takes to make a person feel good about themself, I won't contradict myself here. And by the way, my desired age range is based entirely upon Chinese astrology. I am most compatible with someone either 4 or 8 years older or younger than myself (or 8 & 16, theoretically), and ok with most others. Considering that a) a woman may not have had her birthday yet and b) at least some admit in their profiles they have fudged on their ages, I'm allowing a little wiggle room. I am absolutely NOT compatible with someone 1 year older or 11 years younger, and were it to come out in the early stages that she fit that category, no matter how much I liked her it would go no further. So in a couple of months, when I'm 55, I'll change my age criteria as well. I still have some qualms about going past 59 in my search range, but were I to find someone born in the year of the dog or horse who liked me, age would not be a large barrier. Except today I got a wink from a 28 year-old! What a weird situation to be in...
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 07, 2005 at 06:11 PM


    Yes you're a rare exception . . . but admit it now: Your 44+ candidates have good waist-to-hip ratios, great skin, shiny hair . . . etcetera! Meaning, they still LOOK capable of breeding even if it's the LAST THING on both of your minds!!!!!! Meaning, you've chosen your age cutoff, but LOOKS still sell.

    Breeding is certainly the last thing on MY mind . . . but married OR single, I want to appear at least capable of it for as long as I can for as long as I'm interested in having sex with my man.

    And if I never meet my True Love, and too much plastic surgery turns me into a cartoon image of a nubile female, I've already instructed my daughter to fish me out of the dating pool and put me into rehab! Once out of dating rehab, hopefully I won't care anymore what men think. I plan to be a proud, happy free crone someday, married or single, no matter what happens.
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 07, 2005 at 02:04 PM



    thegoodlife2005 write:
    This is the third time I've posted on this same topic - - it just keeps coming up, so here goes. There is no getting around it: Unless a man is blind and/or under the age of 18, he's a visual creature, and generally needs visual stimulation for sexual enjoyment(if he's under 18, a stiff wind will probably do).

    Men everywhere - - - rich and poor - - - want the most beautiful, sexy woman they can afford, to maximize their sexual enjoyment for as long as it suits them. A poor man can only afford so much, but a rich man is like a kid with a trust fund (and no nanny to slap his hand) in a candy store. And blonde, brunette or redhead (he really doesn't care) he'll only chose women who look nubile enough to breed - - - whether or not he actually wants children. The more nubile, the better.

    If you want to play this game well, you need to know the rules and make shrewd choices about which rules to follow and which ones to break. You can't break the "nubile" rule and win this game; you just can't, so whatever your age, do everything in your power to appear as nubile as possible; i.e., a good waist-to-hip ratio, a pretty face,
    shiny hair (preferably long), and
    great skin.

    If you nail these things down, men won't care about your actual "age" so much. In fact, in the early stage of attraction they won't even care about your brains, your character, or anything that really matters in the long haul, because in the initial stage of attraction they don't care about the long haul.

    It really is all about looks, no matter what they tell you. Your brains and good character are your ace-in-the-hole: what will keep him around AFTER he's gotten his hands on you.

    good luck, ladies!



    I may only be the exception that proves the rule you express above, but my cutoff is about 44. When you're older, you may understand, and I hope you don't take that as a criticism, for it is not. Case in point is the 22 year-old who wrote to me last month. She was, judging by her photo, very nubile indeed. And gorgeous, and even seemed pretty intelligent. But these things cannot replace shared experiences. I'll have someone from my own generation or I'll find something else to do with my time. No offense meant to you younger gasls, but at present you don't have what it takes. Ain't that a switch? Be well.
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