katie grl,let's see if i understand you, your saying that if a man is fat and bold, then he has problems, however, if a woman is fat and bold it is ok, because they go to the spa and make their hair or make up no????
then you mention that there is an attraction by some men for bbw's. Where i come from, people call this a Fetish. A fetish is recognized by professionals as a mental disorder. Further more a bbw IN MOST CASES is attracted to this type of guy because she finds a denial support . So at the end of the day who are you kidding????You know i agree that there are a lot of men out there that are slobs and could do a better job of taking care of themselves but i assure you there are just as many women that do the same....
finally ur comment on the beauty is the eye of the beholder, all i can say is that you better hope that someone's eye finds you beautiful or you might have to go to that gorilla cage......and he might not find you attractive either
Hahaha! I was watching "The Wedding Singer" with my daughter...starring Adam Sandler. One of the lines caught my attention and was so fitting for this topic. Adam's friend tells him about another friend "his show got cancelled, because no one wants to see a 50 yr old man dating some 20yr old who is old enough to be his daughter!"
This movie was made in 1998...have things changed that much? Or when we see it, we don't like it, but we turn a blind eye to it...OR...those 50+ men dating 20 yo's live to please themselves and just don't give a rat's a$$ about what the rest of society thinks?
Age..shmage...sheesh! It's only a number. What's important is your health, attitude, activeness, self respect and the same for others. Numbers are a non-starter when feelings & emotions soar, and it's off the hook! That's it..2 cents.
lioncourt, Thank You, for bringing to my attention, that my chat line dialogue, is in approiate for the forum. I will do my best to adhere to the correct protocol, as the information gathered here is very valuable. Thank you as well, for the compliment.
harmony & tranquility has escaped your age group...well when I'm 70 I'll look forward to tranquillity...until then I'd like to live life & enjoy what's left...as for harmony...I interpret that to no dissention & conflicts...if you surround yourself with fun-loving positive people how can you not have harmony?
OH by the way,.... .... I don't want to rule out dating older men, because I do date older too.... as long as you have your hair, or a shaved head is ok too, just no wigs PLEASE!, and as long as you can still be very sexually active WITHOUT Viagra, and, have all your teeth, and no big guts, thats not too much to ask for is it?, you must admit: that men in their late 40's to 50's are much older looking than women of the same age, as long as they take care of theirselves then its different. But it seems like the ones that age have worked hard, let themselves go, and have left their wives, only to look for a younger woman, when the woman who is single or divorced of the same age has taken care of herself, and is very independent, smarter, and knows what she wants, and knows how to get it, and doesnt have to depend on someone else to take care of her. sorry guys, we cant help it if the young hot guys want to date us older girls,guess they know something you dont! And us girls ova 40, who do date younger, we know we got it goin on, dont we girls!!!
azzag ,speaking for the early 40 male age group; we are not necessarily looking for trophy but simply for some harmony and tranquillity that unfortunately has escaped most of the ladies of my age group.
what's wrong with fat and bold???? or just fat or just bold???? you got all ur hair and you don't look fat and i would rather date a goat.......the moral of the story...beauty is in the eye of the beholder. don't forget it
Thanks Mas... WOW you are a Hottie!!! You know Im right, LOL, Strawberry, sorry, but I am also desired by older men, I jusy dont date them, Younger guys seem to be a lot more fun, I can be my silly stupid self, and I dont have to act like something I am not, I dont need them to put me through college, as I have already been there, and so have both of my kids,
I really cant help laughing at the comment that they are also better lovers, LOL,
you must have gotten lucky!
But then, I havent gotten around enough to know, all I know is that I was married to an older and a Younger, and I cant seem to go back to an older guy,
Somehow riding on the back of a harley., and running around the house like a kid with my lover chasing me and tickling me, and playing around is so much more fun than discussing what is going on in the board room, or in the gov., Oh well, maybe Im wrong but I am older and a little wiser, and when you get a little older I know you will see my side, as I have already been on yours before!
Have fun honey, thats the secret to staying young, is loving life and dont be, or take it so serious, Laugh, its food for the soul!
What brought that 'tude on? I never figured you for a "bioche," but that was a really "catty" post to Tomi! What's up with that ? Men are in a "No Fly Zone" if they're thinking of using PMS, Menopause and estrogen to slap somebody out. with! How would you feel if Tomi did a "back at ya," using shrinkage, Viagra and ED as weapons?
OMG, well Tomi, I have to get my 2 cents in on this one. I agree with you, and I would know as I dated for 7 years off and on a beautiful Hunk of 6' body builder, who I might add could not get enough of me,and ... girls he is 18 years younger,. even now he calls me and wants to get back together, as for me I have my own reasons why I wont, but younger men chase me all the time, and I have found that men our age, are usually fat, bald, and out of shape, so what if they have $$$,!!! but why do they think a young girl would want them! And FYI as an Older Woman, I can say I am never menepausal, always sensual, and still desired by men almost half my age, so , you old guys, have fun chasing the younger girls, just remember, PMS!!!! need I say anything more?