Do you get the impression sometimes that these NEW people come in, not knowing anybody OR their style of humour, and just shoot their mouths .... um .... keyboards off without making any sense or making sure their rude behavior is justified? For the sake of peace, I wish the ornery members would take the example of some of the sweet and tolerable new members, and say something NICE instead of slamming people up against the boards with no warning.
Beautiful S4U -
I'm not even sure if he is a legitimate new member. He sounds very much like a covert, undercover guy who is playing games with everybody. I think he should scrap this profile and personality and start a NEW faux profile that isn't so suspicious and offensive.
butterfly...thank you. Somtimes I have a myriad of thoughts, and to express them all...well, I can miss some. Like the advice we both gave to the 20 yo. When I read yours I thought...I was thinking that, how could I have forgotten to mention it? But I could never have said it as clearly & concisely as you did. I think together, we both covered all the bases that young lady needed to hear. Now it's up to her as to what she does with that advice & her life.
Alex2000 - you're getting out of line here. You need to understand that your comments are offensive to the ladies and to me and they need to stop. Now. Everyone here is trying to have some fun and you are taking things too seriously. I suggest you lighten up and have a little fun with everyone. If you don't, you'll simply find yourself being left out. Butterflynjax is a very nice person. She deserves to be treated with respect and hope that you can see that and act appropriately. She meant no harm in her earlier post and if you slow down and read closely you'll see that. We are all friends here and you can feel welcome at any time, okay? Why don't we start over and make things right?
Katie are we sure this man is 42. He is a major defensive issue. A2 it doesnot matter that BFJ said she didn't like fat men and i assure you her word should have been bald not bold. I love bold men i also love bald men if they have a great shaped head. But i do NOT like fat men they are unattractive to me. That is MY preference. Does that make me a bad person. No not in the least. Do you like Fat women. Do you know what 100# of fat looks like brought out in a wheelbarrel. It's something you do not want to see. So we all have our preferences. Respect them as we will respect yours. But i have to really say you sound like my children when something didn't go their way. We all sounded like that in our teen age yrs. but it's time to quit reading things into something that is not there.At 42 i would think you would not be so child like but the world is made up of all kinds of people. Anything you want to say you can say in a much more adult way geared to appease the minds of all of our personalities. You don't have to agree with us but you do need to learn the art of a debate. It's much more civil....S4U
Thank you Sharp1. I really appreciate you for your sharp wit, and integrety. Maybe it will rub off on some people here.
You seem to be a very kind and genuine woman, I hope you have toe best of luck on here.You deserve it.
I also read what you wrote to the 20 yr old on another forum, and it was great . Maybe , there will be some good comming out of these posts, after all there is enough garbage, we have to put up with, and if we can help someone with our life experiences then it will all be worth it.
OK, if you think that I directed that at you then I am sorry, If you are fat then Im sorry about that too.If you are BALD not BOLD then I am sorry about that too, I am sorry that you are even on this site, I am sorry that I am even taking the time to write this sorry little note back to a sorry person, who cant even say sorry to anyone who he has verbally abused, and yet he wants me to say sorry to him when I never directed anything to him except, the respose that he prefered goats to women, I am sorry for that too, because I really feel sorry for you , Hell I will even apologize to katiegirl for you on your behalf because you are too sorry to say sorry to her for your SORRY RUDE comments to her, maybe you are just so sorry that you cant even see that you are one of the sorry abusive men in the world who like to tear down women, you have NO right to say that I didnt apologize, you are not reading, I guess because I took back my statement 2 days ago,. So get over it already, and just say YOU ARE SORRY because you owe everyone here an apology!!!!!!!!!
have I made myself clear..... DUHHHHHH!
Alex, butterfly seems like a very nice lady. She didn't aim her comments at anyone in particular. She doesn't know you, nor know what you look like. She only stated her preferences, that's all. I don't understand why you attacked her for no apparent reason.
The comment from alex2000, I had translated and it means--All of the flavors I am flavors said the cat that licked the bottom? That's way over my head! Sounds to me like he is challenging butterfly in a very flirtatious manner. It almost sounds like animals are a big part of the Italian language, with the constant references.
A2...butterfly is right...people post on forums. As everyone thinks differently, unless posts are written extremely clear, no ambigiuty, then posts can be, will be in the future, and have been in the past interpreted differently then what the writer intended. With the interpretations, sometimes feelings of anger are aroused in some personalities, others may find it hilarious and laugh. Should the reader choose to post themselves their own opinion addressing a particular post...that's exactly what they are doing...expressing their OWN OPINION. It should not be an attack on the individual. We all have our opinions. You should take this into consideration. Express your opinion, but don't personally attack someone else, because you didn't like their opinion which varied from your own. That's crass of you. Butterfly has contributed on various forums in many positive ways. I read one giving advice to a 20 yr old to get an education. Very well written. In another forum she commented to another about being positive on the forums, because as she noted to the individual...alot of men & women read these posts...and all the negative things you reflect your personality. I wouldn't want to know you.
Hey did you guys see the news today, they were talking about how in some areas, not sure where they were talking about, but they paint the goats, and dress them up for Easter, maybe thats where the goat attraction originated from who knows.
I never said that there was anything wrong with dating heavier people , I said that I didnt prefer men who were fat or that let themselves go! I do have a right to my taste, I wasnt speaking of a particular person, just my preferences, as you have yours, which for some reason are goats, SORRY!
And by the way Katie you are very cute, if I was into women I would date you, but sorry about that, I prefer men, and I know you do too, LOL.
Mr. A. , whatever your name is, you are really very amusing, I look forward to your next response. LOL
A2 - you charmer ....
I had to laugh ... after I finished reading your rambling post, (what a delightful gentleman you are!) I went to your profile.
I read, at the top of the page, your question, "Does this really work????"
I chuckled, "Not for you!" lol
If your aim is to find love or romance here at MM, you totally blew it!!! Do you need glasses Alex or have you looked at the beauties who write in this forum? What were you thinking when you decided to show dozens of beautiful MM members just how rude and abusive you can be to 2 other women on this site?
Nice work!!! That'll get you a lot of dates! lol
Now, it says in your profile that you have an athletic build. If that's the truth, why have you got your boxers in a twist over Butterfly's off the cuff remark about fat men? What do you care? I mean, what's your problem with that? Lighten up! Unless you just SAY you're athletic and, in actual fact, you are similar in shape to a melon, back off on the fat thing. Who cares?
And what is your difficulty with the word "bald?" You keep writing "bold!" Which is it? Butterfly was talking about BALD men, not BOLD men. Changes the whole meaning of the discussion if you use one word instead of the other. And Butterfly has already said she didn't mean to mention bald men in her previous post. "Water under the bridge now." That's plain English. Did you get it? If not, look it up!
So now that you have probably alienated all the women who dislike abusive men, and then another bunch of women who are not fond of intolerant, self-righteous jerks who think they're experts on fetishes and mental disorders, (yeah, that will earn you points!) I would suggest you apologize to the people you've been maligning and start fresh. We're a very forgiving group here.
If you find that just too humiliating to manage, I refer you to your last comments on your profile page that reads: ?I
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HAHAHHA... goats, fetishes... Way to go, katiegirl!!!
lioncourt... I noticed the same thing... one day you read stuff, the next day, you've got 10 days between 2 comments, everything in between was erased... what's the story here anyways... that happened last week-end on one thread in particular... Oh, and how about that incredible weather we're having, eh??? ;)