Spoils is a bit like a chronis yeast infection.It's horrible at first but you learn to ignore it and work around it.When people just stop responding to him,he doesn't have anyone to argue withand so will have to talk to himself...Ignore him completely and totally.At least then he won't take up pages of the Forum.One can't argue with someone who refuses to argue back.....
Ladies: This is my first post. After reading all Spoils enchanting discussions on the bible and marriage....I think we all just need to completely ignore his words. He makes no sense and does not deserve our time.
Spoil, this discussion has been discussed till it's worn out. It's become boring to me, so this is my last post on this subject matter with you. I don't care what the bible says. I live by the same law everyone else lives by within our legal system. A divorce is a legal binding thing. You believe what you want to believe, because I could really care less. It's not My belief. Who, when, where, how many times I marry is my business. I don't need any advice on 'invalid divorces.' That law is invalid in our current judicial system. Live your life the way you want, I'll do the same.
Monkeydustbabie, I don't have anything against younger women/older men. I'm talking younger women/old men. Would you consider taking up with Spoil since you like that sort of thing? He's only 59 yrs old. That old enough for you? Maybe it would get him off of MM.
Oh Mandalay u are too good!! I believe oh spoils is divorced as approved by God. Caught his wife with another man. She probably got bible thumped to death. But honey remember he is 58 in awesome condition and the body of a 30 yr old... Don't chastize him to much please!!!!!!!
My dear Spoils, you seem to have misunderstood my post. No one really cares about your (mis)interpretation of the Bible. Regarding your mention of "history", there are many injustices in history that have now been corrected, so don't even go there. And how VERY Christian of you to try and trash those beautiful ladies on this site. These women have been very kind and supportive to one another, but all you can do is say hateful things about them. What happened to "Thou shalt not bear false witness"? Have you actually met these women and know for a fact that they look horrible with no makeup, or that their bodies are as you described? Using the Bible as your way of insulting and hurting people is exactly what I was referring to. Thanks for bringing the point home. I would like to remind you of two words in the man-made legal system: slander and libel. Try acting a BIT more Christian next time, oh Bible-Thumping One.
Here is my take on Spoils. He will not show himself because I believe he is still married and can not divorce his wife because God will not allow him. So, he is on this site trying to find some young chickie to spend some cash on so he can Sew His Old Wild Oats that he has not been able to do. He will not show his face because he is AFFRAID someone will catch him and break the bad news to his wife. And really Spoils IF you had a million dollars to be stolen, you should really protect your money a little better instead of putting it between your matress and box spring for all the ladies to take when you are finished with them. STOP your negativity toward everyone on this forum and STOP pretending to be someone you are not. You are making everyone ill.
iN CONT. WHEN PREG. WITH MY SON 11#, LOST 15#.wITH MY DAUGHTER 18# LOST 20#. WORE ONE SIZE UP IN PANTS AT 9 MOS. SO SORRY NO STRETCH MARKS AND NO SAGGY BOOBS. TRY AGAIN!
Better hope you dont get stopped by the police and your makeup is running, you would get arrested for false advertising.I sure dont need comments from a harlot that has such a filthy mouth.I hope you dont call yourself a lady - that, honey, you arent
WELL THAT REMINDS ME OF A STORY.i WAS PREGNANT, GOT STOPPED MY THE COPS. i CRIED AND OH BOY WAS MY MAKEUP RUNNING. THE DAYS BEFORE WATERPROOF!!!MICHAEL TOLD HIM I WAS HAVING A BABY AND HE ESCORTED US ALMOST TO THE HOSPITAL. WE SCADOODLED OF COURSE. NO TICKET!YIPEE. THAT WAS A STORY TO REMEMBER.
ok spoils agreed i have not seen you so we will let that one go. you can tell me till doomsday you look good but i do not know that as i have not seen you. But in answer to your question not one thing sagging here
you just dont learn do you?WHAT IS THERE TO LEARN FROM YOU??? You just cant keep that big mouth shut. When are you goping to learn to just leave me alone? WELL I DID FOR A VERY LONG TIME. YOU ARE BEING A NUISANCE. Are you really that hard headed? NO NOT REALLY BUT I DO HAVE MY MOMENTS!!
You know, you crack me up telling guys that they cant keep up. IF YOU COULD READ I STATED THAT OLDER WOMAN HAVE A HIGH SEX DRIVE AND THE MEN AT THAT AGE ARE SLOWING DOWN AND MANY CAN NOT KEEP UP. I SEE IT ALL THE TIME. I HEAR IT ALL THE TIME. BUT I ALSO SAID THAT DOES NOT PERTAIN TO ALL 50+ AS MANY CAN AND DO..
I guess not when all you do is lay on your back and yell, "give it to me baby". i'LL LEAVE THAT COMMENT TO YOU WITH YOUR YOUNG WOMAN. i HAVE NEVER SAID THAT ONE AND DO NOT INTEND TO START..
Try doing all the work THEN, lets see how long you last. SORRY CHARLIE I DO A LOT OF THE WORK AND I CAN LAST LIKE THAT ENERGIZER BUNNIE I SPOKE OF.LET'S SEE MY BEST FANTASY OF HOW MUCH TO MAKE LOVE WOULD BE. TWICE A DAY 3 IF YOU SQUEEZE HARD ENOUGH. EVERYDAY FOR AT LEAST THE NEXT 10 YRS...CARE TO TRY IT. OF COURSE IT IS JUST A FANTASY BECAUSE MOST OF US DON'T HAVE THE TIME...
Overweight? I dont think so.At least, my doctor sure differs with you and says i have the body and endurance of a 30 year old. WELL LETS SEE AT 58 ,I'D HAVE TO SEE THAT ONE TO BELIEVE IT SO LETS MOVE ON AS IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN.Besides, he has seen me, you havent and if i was you,after i took my make up off and looked like a mack truck had hit me, my boobs sagged to my belly button and i had more streach marks that the rock mountains had curves, i sure would say a thing about anyone elses physical appearance. It is very easy to get an airbrushed pic now days. WELL SPOILS SINCE I AM VERY USE TO YOUR DEROGATORY REMARKS AGAINST WOMEN WHEN YOU ARE MAD. IT'S LIKE WATER OFF THE BACK. JUST DISAPPEARS. i PUT EVERY PIC I HAVE UP HERE FRESH OFF THE CAMERA WITH NO ADD ONS. SORRY TO DISAPOINT ...
**bbd, Steel and KatieGrl**.....Thank you Girls for your thoughts. You are all "my kind of people" and may we all hit the proverbial "lady's room" together....just not too soon.
I, for one, don't think I've been so evil that I will be headed south when I die. Neither do I think that of each of you. We all have our so called crosses to bear, but in the end, all things considered, we all end up, bodily, in the ground. Where our souls go from there is anyone's guess, but I refuse to be told by a stranger (Spoils) that just because I didn't divorce according to God's word, that I am going to Hell. Everyone makes their own Heaven or Hell when they're alive.. What's the difference when you're dead, besides the fact that wherever you end up, it's for eternity.....
I would like to contest Steelemagnolia's absolute dismissal of the notion that a younger woman may actually be with an older man out of love and not merely financial reasons. Growing up with an abusive step-father and mentally ill mother who was consistently hospitalised, from a young age I was responsible for looking after my two younger brothers. At age 14 I was cashing my mothers welfare, paying the rent, cooking, cleaning and going to school etc. At 16 I left home and moved to London, rented an apartment, finished my education, worked around and travelled Europe and the U.S for a year and am now studying a BA in Philososhy at a top 3 British university. Everything I have aquired thus far (including financially) has, and will always be, honestly mine.Apoligies for the mini-bio :).. I just think its important to bear in mind that, although age of course denotes experience, youth does not always equate lack of life's lessons. I tend to date older men because (if my exs are anything to go by!) I genuinely feel more of a connection with them. And by them, I mean them, and not their paypackets! Best wishes x
Spoils.....I won't ask for which of God's reasons you are divorced, but if it's because your wife wasn't a Christian and you are, then I'll be truthful and tell you that if it had been me, I'd have walked out on your Bible preachin azz as well.
Like Babydol, I also don't attend church, but I do have my own relationship with God. The reason I don't go to church is because I refuse to have that man standing up on the pulpit telling me how to live my life, when he is probably not living his according to God's word. Not only that, hypocrits abound under that church roof. I don't need to go to church to say my prayers. God hears everyone, no matter where they pray.
I will also add one more statement. If God expects women to be abused, criticized, and have their spirits beaten down by their husbands, then He isn't a very understanding God, and I will be more than happy to follow man's law and be happy that I am divorced according to that piece of paper. As long as man's law says I'm divorced, then I am NOT an adultress and if I chose to sleep with a man, that's MY business. If that makes me a bad person, then so be it.
D*** How many words are 2000?? They cut off my spoils and marriage.
Tomi said it well BS to you.There are too many reasons to leave a marriage some very good. If i was being abused or beaten or sexually assaulted by my husband,kids being abused sexually or otherwise. Those are the best reasons to get out. It involves many lives. It is worse then your spouse F***ing around and that is bad enough. Your Bible which states all of this must have been written by sadistical men. If we are to forfeit happiness with someone else just to live by a book who has ? who wrote it in the first place, then i say BS on that one. I would not just be a doormat the rest of my life just because you don't think i am not divorced from the sorry jerk! Are we in your eyes to be unhappy for the next 50 yrs because you think we should follow whatever is in that bible. I don't think God intended that for us. You and your bible thumping is getting very old and no one wants to hear it anymore but as i know you it will go onanonanonanon. So we must have patience and do our due diligence. It is your way or no way. Too bad i like my way and i am a very good person and i will one day go to heaven or the 4th dimention or wherever we end up. You should practice what you preach wanting those 18 Y/O. Thats disgusting and perverted...Now hopefully this willget posted...
OK BK it's your turn. I have listened to everything you have said and the one thing i can say about your GF, if that is what she is, is that i feel very sorry for her right now. Because of the reasons you stated she will one day move on and so will you. Have you ever sat down and asked her how she feels. Would she tell you if she could. Her emotional state is quite fragile at that age.Falling in love at that age is very emotionally draining and i am sure she will end up very hurt because she does not have the maturity to know how to handle that. So in essense you are doing a very destructive thing to her. She can't keep up with you mentally and if she can then that does not say much for you. But you seem like a very level-headed man. So i presume she is a play thing at this stage.For "Fun" you said. If she has that mindset that you are just a passing fancy then you are "saved by the bell' But then that shows me she is emotional not able to give which in itself will hinder her in her later yrs. with relations. I remember how i was at that age. I fell "in love" with most of my BF. We all did and each knock is a lesson learned on picking a better choice each time.Sometimes one we never learn. One of each of our downfalls is we have all thes certain types of guys in our younger days and it sets the tone for the type of men we continually keep taking. Only when we can sit down see what is happening and work on changing the characteristics we want in our life partner will we all find true happiness. Whether it be that bad boy sydrone or the best lookers, it does not matter. Both have there drawbacks because that is all we look for. Not depth until it sometimes is too late to change. I truly believe that in the back of a mind of a man who only dates women considerably younger is a man who does not want to grow up. In body or mind. But the body does get older and so they get younger and younger. (Spoils this ones for you) Than we have our men wh...
Ok we have had a hell of a good discussion on this one and i have watched from afar. SF i have to say that was an exquisite post that you wrote on this. I concur on older woman dating and marrying younger men. Not too much younger of course. I would not want to date a 25 Y/O or even a 30 Y/O. They have nothing to say of great importance. Experience is the key. As far as sexually you hit it right on the head(no pun intended gents) Over all older men can't hold a candle to older woman. I have met very few men at the 50 mark who can keep up with me as with many of the woman i know in that same situation. I dated a man for 7 yrs on an off and we went from great together as to him getting not so good the older he became. Now mind u there are still 50 Y/O men who can go on and on like the energizer bunny. But where are they. HEY I AM OVER HERE! HERE I AM !!!!
One of the reasons older woman like younger men is because they can be taught how to be better lovers and many younger men will tell you that is why they like being with older woman. You can't mold a 55 yr old he is molded already and melting.(again this is not all 55 Y/O's. Most men no matter what age do not have the ability for intimacy not to be confused with lovemaking. With both it is wonderful.
Spoils i can almost quarantee with certainty that you would never get a women who was close to your age by 10/15 yrs. You are over weight and probably lacking or schrivelled from lack of use. And yes gents the old saying if you don't use it ,you loose it is quite true from a physical standpoint. An 18 -25 or whatever your preference is for the day is too immature to know the difference so will be grateful for the attention along with the pocket change you dish out. Hey it's a freeby. Most of us are aware of your trangressions in that area. There is not an 18 yr. old who would be interested in you as a person. It's like screwing their grandfather. A very gross thought i assure you. Addressing your marriage theory. ...