Now, now Ed, isnt this fun?I am disappointed in you. I thought you had a sense of humor - oh, that is, until its done to you huh? Not too funny any more? Tough old boy. I have 5 more ready when you get the latest one deleted and will keep on until you do what you said at first and your slut does - LEAVE ME ALONE. You and her stop, i will stop.
I posted against you first? Is that your answer for everything?
No I disagreed with your statements and methods, that was all. You took that as a personal attack or smart mouthing as you put it. They weren't. They were a difference of opinion as far as I'm concerned. And nothing more.
Emailing with you recently under the truce, let me see the gentler side of you, which would be nice if you let others see, instead of this hostility and anger all the time.
I don't like you? I don't know you so have no opinion on you either way.
I don't like some of your ideas on women, children and gays or other religions.
And I don't like to see you attacking other members of MM. Why can't they have their opinion and you yours. No attacks, just a debate.
I don't like to see anyone attacked whether it's HM and Ed, who I think are hysterical, or you, whose ideas I do have problems with.
Let's all just have civilized debates, and no personal attacks, then this would be an interesting forum, vs an attack base.
Hottie, I have no idea how things got started between me and 'Spoil.' I don't recall the posts that far back, and don't have time to read back that far. He can plainly see that I am offering a truce and an end to my part of the mudslinging. Can't he at least meet me halfway and do the same? These are forums made up of debates. Some remain friendly debates, while others get off track and turn a little ugly sometiimes. It's because everyone is different with differing opinions, and for some of us, it's hard to read something we don't agree with and still remain silent. I'm guilty of that myself, but I'm trying to change. It's okay to disagree, but in a nice way. One last time, I offer my apologies for my childish posts to him. It doesn't matter anymore who started it. When you forgive and move on, you don't dig up the past. It's the past. Do we finally have a truce, and does this end right here right now?
Mr.Legalbriefs42, below, i presented and rest my case. Tell me your professional and honest opinion as to what any judge would rule as to whose fault all the fighting was caused by - "Spoils" or those listed? Doesnt the law allow one to defend themselves when attacked?
HairyBalls, "Spoils" never said one word to you - did he? He never made one post to or about you - did he? My post to your friend says it all as to her character.Just maybe you should consider that people like you and those i listed had behaved themselves, all that fighting would have never happened.
HeartOfFire, in your case, you also posted aginst "Spoils" on the old message borad without him saying one word to you or against you - didnt you? You came to this forum and did the very same thing - didnt you? If he didnt attack you first then, how did you determine you didnt like him and just came to this forum for the purpose of attacking him? What did i say that isnt the truth?
Bikerking, in your case, you also posted on the old message board against "spoils" first without him saying one word to you- didnt you? You also came here to this forum and did the very same thing - didnt you? He never said one word to you or posted against you first - did he? Again, since you did the attacking first, which one of you is the jerk here?
lioncourt, your post yesterday takes a very big person to admit wrong. I guess you can see that others made fun of you for that, showing the real character they have. You too jumped to conclusions and made a post to him and now, you have made the effort to mend that. Not many would do that. Now, i hope you can see by the others i addressed, why he gave back to them, what they gave to him first and they couldnt stand it so, they all ganged up on himand told lies to get him removed but, today, you will read, person by person, why he gave it back to them. He reacted just like any of you would if he attacked you first - didnt he?
intelligentblonde, you got on this forum and made the statement that you just couldnt keep quiet and posted against "Spoils" - didnt you.You also posted against him on the old message board first - didnt you? You also deceided you didnt like him and that is why you posted against him on this forum without him saying one word to you - isnt it? Tell me which one of you started trouble - you or him?
Steelmagnolia, in your case, you stated that you posted against "Spoils" because you just couldnt keep quiet - didnt you? You also posted on the old message board without him saying one word to you - didnt you? You posted on this forum without him saying one word to you or against you - didnt you? Now, you tell me truthfully, which one of you started things here - you or him?
fun4two, in your case, you posted against "spoils" on the old message board without him ever saying a word to you - didnt you? You came to this forum only because you had already decided you didnt like him - didnt you? You posted against him on Jan.30th, 05 and called him names ( its still there) - didnt you? He never said one word to you first - did he? Yet, you get on here and start in on him - didnt you? You got a response you didnt like - wonder why? Yet, you accuse him of name calling and he is the bad guy.Go figure.The real truth here is, you should have never made one post against him - should you? Tell me what i said isnt the truth.
Edtarboosh, in your case, "Spoils" never said one word to you - had he? You leashed an all out attack on him without knowing a thing about him - didnt you? You just went by recent posts and got the idea he was just a jerk that attacked women without any research of the why - didnt you. Therefore, you just jumped to conclusions - didnt you? As to you personally, tell me what he ever did to you or say about you first? Nothing? Then, if i am to judge which one is the jerk that attacked the other first and which one between the two of you is in the wrong, how do you figure it is him? Have you ever considered that just maybe others did what you did that caused a reaction from him? You also got on this forum and showed no respect for yourself and others by using curse words and rude, filthy remarks - didnt you? Seems to me that you are sailing a sinking ship if you are trying to blame him - pot calling the kettle black here seems to me.As with the others, tell me what part about what i said is wrong.
1HotMama, you got on this forum, stated that you liked stirring up Christians and that it was fun - didnt you? Your posts are still there where you said that. You made fun of those who believe in God - didnt you? You mocked God - didnt you. You used curse words on many ocassions - didnt you? Most of those got deleted.One is still there to prove that plus, many have seen the lack of respect you have for your own self as a woman and you clearly showed you had no respect for others. If you call that having a sense of humor then, you have a sick sense of it. Had you not made such posts and behaved yourself and acted like a lady and a decent human being toward others, just maybe you wouldnt have gotten attacked.Everyone has a right to their belief.In your case, if you choose to not believe in God, fine but, the right thing for you to do was to not mock others that do believe and you should have never made a post at all since this is a religious form and you are non-religious- should you? But no,you had to act like a bully and try and have fun with the Christians - didnt you? How do you figure that it was "Spoils" fault when you started it by your posts? You just got a reaction and didnt like the reaction and now, it doesnt seem too funny anymore - does it? What about what i have written isnt the truth about yourself?
Hi there HOTTIE,
As an OB/GYN, I have to correct you on something, it's spelled 'stretch marks'. I don't normally post on these forums, but have been reading them since they started & also used to read the old message board. I felt like I needed to enlighten you a little as your uneducated, misguided naivete was shining through in this post. Apparently you haven't had the pleasure of the abuse dished out by RottenSpoils, but if you post long enough, you will most definitely be on the receiving end. He is very obviously a woman basher and has obviously been so hurt by them in his life, that he borders on psychotic and dangerous. But I guess you didn't research very well, although I know that is more difficult given lots of his abusive posts were removed.
Well, the purpose of my post was because I felt that you were out of line regarding a friend of mine, 1Hotmama. I have to say that anyone that knows her will recognize that your so-called 'research findings' are unfounded and based on the opinion of a person that hasn't obviously had contact with her. You see she is a childhood friend of the woman I am dating, so I have had the pleasure of her company in person and it was a pleasure. Never judge someone until you have walked in their shoes is what my mother used to say. And it is USED TO not "use tio"....must be that poor KY educational system. I am sorry that you obviously had such a miserable & pathetic upbringing.
Speaking of which, although you seem to agree with Rotten that 1HM is 'trash', I have learned that people in glass houses should never throw stones. I see you are from Kentucky & some little Podunk town named Fredonia.....I realize you are probably miserable living in your double-wide, but since I know 1Hotmama owns a beautiful home, I guess the only 'trailer trash' here is you.
I hope others take what you posted as 'trash' as well and ignore it.
Hottie, you're a new name in this forum and yet you speak as if you know Spoil personally. How do you know he's gone? hmm
I deleted many of my posts to Spoil, in an agreement with some other women here to keep the peace and make a truce. But I'll tell you, as aggravating as he was, I felt kinda sorry for him. Maybe Lion was right in his post about Spoil on another religious thread, in that Spoil had some real control issues going on. It must've been very upsetting for him to feel the need to even control the posts that were made to him on these forums, and not totally be able to. It's like a perfectionist who makes themselves sick with worry when everything doesn't run perfectly. Nothing is ever perfect and everyone can't be controlled and made to think the way someone wants them to.
Well Spoil, if you're really still here and just in hiding, I hope you realize that the only behavior you can control is your own. It's not the end of the world.
In 1 Cor. 6 is talking about how Christians, as the administrators of the kingdom under Jesus, will put down all rule that is contradictory to God's. When it speaks of judging angels, it is telling of when we will take place in approving the final destiny of the "bad angels" (aka demons and the sort). I don't think that this verse is meant to give approval to Christians appointing themselves the judges of the human race. God will judge us all and we'll all be punished according to what we've done. Thankfully, God also gave us a "way of escape" when he sent Jesus to die for us.
I applaud that you're standing up for what you believe in, I just didn't particularly like the fact that you were calling people names. No, I'm definately not an advocate for the whole you-don't-hurt-my-feelings-so-I-won't-hurt-yours group of people, but I do think that there is a mature way of dealing with things. There are also some people in this world who it is worthless to fight with. They believe what they want to believe. The facts have been presented and still some have chosen to push them aside so that they can wallow in the muck of this world for the time being. Instead of questioning the important things, they beat around the bush asking useless and aimless questions trying to make up excuses for why they can't or don't believe--all of this because they're heart isn't open to the gospel. You're doing pretty good though (I'm definately not saying that I could do any better).
Spoils! Now seriously there is no excuse for anyone to be rude and mean and spiteful and call others names, no reason whatsoever especially when we are all mature adults or supposed to be, now I saw the movie Passion of the Christ and what they did to him and the way they made him suffer was unbelievable , but what did he say to God, father forgive them they know not what they do, what I am trying to say is that there is nothing we cannot forgive, life is about respecting people and loving one another so that we can be a good example and feel good about ourselves, its simple really . God may be the one that will be the judge of us , but we have no right judging others!
Hellow everyone! I personally wish I had been able to see the spirit world although I know it exists we all come from there my belief anyways............my husband passed away over a year ago and I know that he was around us for a while because of some of the things that had happened and the dreams we have and I love Sylvia Browne she has got to be one of the most amazing people on earth.
No, I do not have a picture of Jesus as a weakling or a coward. However, I do know that Jesus didn't resort to name-calling. Yes, he did call the pharisees hypocrites and sinners--but he didn't do it in a spiteful manner. I don't condone that you've resorted to calling agiftfromheaven things such as agiftfromhell and phoneyballoney. I'm pretty sure that even though Jesus did confront people, he did it in a mature manner.