You make a very profound statment. We seek but we do not find. I suppose some are lucky and find the love of their life. Others seek and seek and find nobody. I don't know the answer. It almost seems random.
I totally agree with your view on this topic, we all seem to looking for love but somehow I think most of us are not wanting to be truthful about who we are, so we join these sites with little or no real information then wonder why its so difficult to find the right person.
Personally I would like to see more information from the guys about who they really are, it seems that being honest and truthful is a hard thing for some guys to do, it is as if they are scared to tell the whole truth, for example many lie about their age, or say they are fit where they maybe a little overweight but saying that some women do the same, so when meeting there is a sense of let down.
So please just be truthful guys, thats all I ask, you may find I would love you more for your honsety.