How to tell if he's MARRIED Dating Wealthy Men / Women

  • View author's info posted on Dec 02, 2005 16:13


    LopinSlow write:
    The author also mentioned that many men won't report abuse from a spouse because he is a man. You know the pride thing and keeping silent.

    There are many women who do not report abuse also. You have to remember that women tend to blame themselves when things happen.

    Similar to r*pe, the police and anyone trying to take statistics have only a TIP of the iceburg so to speak. Yes, men can be abused and they can even be r*ped *gasp*, but the ratio of men being abused to women being abused is very small indeed.


    It is a sticky issue at the most that is all I can really say, some researchers only look to prove what they are interested to prove and include border line deceptive information data to make it look there theory is right..I have read some research in science,political,socialogical which were proven to have been fabricated for there political agenda they wanted to influence the mass with there ideology.

    There was a police report about crime in Vancouver and also in Toronto...the report was very clear that ethnic minorities were the one mostly commiting the most violent crime in Canada but when it was to be publicized it was swept under the rug, too politically sensitive for Canada open door policy for immigrants; as they knew there would be demand to tighten immigration and set up a tighter screening process. The way the report was publicized it was made too look it was the generational Canadians who were at fault but the report was very specific at who was at the center of the problem.

    A cop who was brave enough came forward and talked to the newspaper about it. There was an article about it on the Time Colonist in Victoria some time ago. It is just one example how they twist things for there political views.

    BQ
  • View author's info posted on Nov 20, 2005 10:42


    pureheartedlady write:
    Tell the men you want them to cook dinner for you at their house!! Make sure your cell is charged and car with a full tank!!

    if i offer to cook you going to show up
  • View author's info posted on Nov 19, 2005 18:40


    LittleBlondeTexas,

    You have a way more violent society than in Canada, I have 5 American friends in B.C. and Alberta and those are University buddies. I asked all 5 what they thought about living in Canada and the first answer from the women was it is way more safe or felt way safer that the U.S. I agree with them as I have lived in the U.S. 4 years, I wouldn't have wanted to stay there as I find your society violent to compare ours.

    The guys said what they liked about here was the beer ha! but they also said it was less violent and you could mostly walk in big cities without being mugged etc.. In Montreal you could walk at 3 a.m. and you could feel as safe as if you would be walking in broad daylight.

    Just a passing thought.

    BQ
  • View author's info posted on Nov 18, 2005 19:47


    The author also mentioned that many men won't report abuse from a spouse because he is a man. You know the pride thing and keeping silent.

    There are many women who do not report abuse also. You have to remember that women tend to blame themselves when things happen.

    Similar to r*pe, the police and anyone trying to take statistics have only a TIP of the iceburg so to speak. Yes, men can be abused and they can even be r*ped *gasp*, but the ratio of men being abused to women being abused is very small indeed.
  • View author's info posted on Nov 17, 2005 23:04


    Ford8366 write:
    Sacredscientist:

    No offense to you, but if you actually believe any police agency's crime statistics, you're a fool.

    I am foolish? You claim that your intention is not to offend me, but then you call me a fool. How ironic.

    Of course I could say all of the standard trite phrases; you havent even finished your college education and yet you assume to judge a person that has? How do you based your judgement of my foolishness if you havent accomplished the same level of learning? or another would be you have 10 years less experience in life than I do so by what assumption do you reckon you are wiser? But truthfully all those are tired so here is what I will go with.

    Show me just cause to disbelieve the statistics that come from the US Justice Department. I mean show me something that has been reviewed by more than one person who at least have the credentials to comment on the validity of it, that supports your position of my foolishness.

    Cause as it stands for the moment, you have only stated your opinion, and while that is your right, it most certainly isnt very scientific.

    If your post was designed purely as an attention getting device, I think that you will find most of the ladies in this forum arent real keen on men who do that.

    Aside from that, I hope that everyone has a good weekend. I am looking forward to seeing what material our young sociologist brings forward.

    :)
  • View author's info Recommended posted on Nov 17, 2005 11:12


    Sacredscientist:

    No offense to you, but if you actually believe any police agency's crime statistics, you're a fool. As with car dealerships having an invoice the customer sees and the real one, the same is true for crime statistics...there's one for the public and there's the real one.
  • View author's info posted on Nov 09, 2005 23:48


    Hello All,

    Not to offend, but since I teach Family Violence, Interpersonal Communication and Law. The actual statistic is 95% of violence is male on female. No one wants to be abused.

    Maybe the author is confusing the women who have to poke and poke before a man will communicate. No one wants to be hit, no sane person wants that at all.

    In the same vein, if women learned to wait, men will communicate when they have sorted out their feelings and thoughts. Women talk to sort out their thoughts and feelings, men talk after they have done so. (That is why women call a girlfriend when they have a problem and they talk and talk and hash it out. Men grunt, grab a beer, watch TV and say, "Ugh", and think about it all to themselves.)

    Hope that helps a bit.
  • View author's info posted on Nov 09, 2005 16:08


    A coin has 2 side as much as men and women has them also.

    BQ
  • View author's info posted on Nov 09, 2005 07:27


    There was a time in my life I was not really looking for someone, just kinda hanging out. For every evil man out there, there is an evil woman. Being one who seeks the truth, I wish there was a way to get them to date each other, and leave a safer world for the rest of us. I used to go out with a group of girls that I had met at the little pub near my house, and became one of the girls... On "girls night out", I was a very handy resource for running off undesirables by playing the BF who appeared out of nowhere at the bar. Fun times...

    But anywho, I will share one of the girl tricks for telling if a man is married. Only works on men that wear a ring but remove it when "on the prowl"... When you meet them, grab them by the left hand. With your thumb on the top and fingers on the bottom, feel their ring finger. They may tan the marks away, but they can't hide that. :o)

    BTW, this trick works on ring taker offer married women too. LOL
  • View author's info posted on Nov 08, 2005 22:39


    BQ write:
    but one thing for sure about game and women, when I got divorced the attorney I choose was a woman as I told her the reason why I chosed her: it was because I knew woman play game and I wanted the divorced sealed so tight there was no recourse to open the settlement again.

    She told me flatly yes, women play games and she would make sure the divorce ssttlement is so tight no air could blow in it ha! it was funny how she said it but it was good having a woman on your side who understood the inner game of their own kind.



    I am certain there are ladies who fit this description, and plenty that dont also.

    I was just interested in that author and finding the title of that book.
    But thanks anyway.

    Robert
  • View author's info posted on Nov 06, 2005 16:18


    sacredscientist,

    I read this some 7 years ago, I am not in possesion of the book as it was not mine in the first place as it was borrowed. I can't remember the name of the attorney or the book as I have read some 350 books over, but one thing for sure about game and women, when I got divorced the attorney I choose was a woman as I told her the reason why I chosed her: it was because I knew woman play game and I wanted the divorced sealed so tight there was no recourse to open the settlement again.

    She told me flatly yes, women play games and she would make sure the divorce ssttlement is so tight no air could blow in it ha! it was funny how she said it but it was good having a woman on your side who understood the inner game of their own kind.

    Now if I have any type of legal agreement with a woman I choose a woman lawyer as they understand each other way of thinking so they know where to draw the line.

    BQ
  • View author's info posted on Nov 05, 2005 08:03


    BQ write:
    Another thing the attorney said was women play games which men have no understanding of it at all, she also wrote women plan revenge and will engineer fights and things like that..it was quite an interesting research she had done.

    BQ


    Please be so kind as to post the name of the author and the title of the work. My interest is piqued. I want to read how she conducted her research.

    Thank You
  • View author's info posted on Nov 04, 2005 14:40


    Another thing the attorney said was women play games which men have no understanding of it at all, she also wrote women plan revenge and will engineer fights and things like that..it was quite an interesting research she had done.

    BQ
  • View author's info posted on Nov 04, 2005 14:39


    I am just sharing information I read and take no position for or against. I am just looking to balance things from one side of the coin to the other side.

    The author also mentioned that many men won't report abuse from a spouse because he is a man. You know the pride thing and keeping silent.

    BQ
  • View author's info posted on Nov 03, 2005 13:33


    BQ write:

    A woman who was an attorney I believe from Toronto wrote a book and said about 60% of domestic violence is started by women but by what you hear in the main stream media you would never know it. The man is still made to be the scapegoat for many things that go wrong in a relationship because he doesn't stand up for himself: also men are not good at expressing deep feeling emotion in vocal form.

    BQ

    I hate to sound antiquated here but, that is utter hogwash. I have BA in Sociology and I can tell you from personal research into the statistics of domestic violence that the lady attorney is completely wrong in her evaluation. I do not know how she conducted her research, or who she may have interviewed, but I can tell you with complete certainty her statement is wrong. A simple search with google can lead the layman to enough soundly researched statistics to evidence the falsivity of her work. I for one would like to know the name of the author and the title of work you read this rubbish in.

    No offense to you as you are merely relaying what you have read, but misinformation like that is abyssmal and the author should be chastised publicly.

    National crime statistics in both America and Canada are very similiar in regard to who is doing it and what type of crimes are being committed. Plenty of good resources (websites of police, government, and nonprofits that assist victims) are accessible through the net to show you the numbers on everything I just said.

    For example the US Department of Justice issued this information: In 92% of domestic violence incidents, crimes are committed by men against women (Violence Against Women, Bureau of Justice Statistics, US Justice Department, January 1994).

    Again, not trying to beat on you BQ, but that author needs to realize what she wrote is completely absurd based against the numbers seen in the real world.
  • View author's info posted on Oct 30, 2005 13:44


    OK, the subject keeps coming up, and women on this site keep getting burned. So let's talk about it, OK?

    thegoodlife,

    I think you are only looking at one side of the coin, many men I know got burned by women. I for one was being cheated on by my ex, but like you my sixth sense caught it, you know how the field changes inside you and I proved it afterward even though she denied till I gave her the name of the man.

    Women are more open with their feelings and share their emotion with one another and men keep their feeling mostly for themselves and are more aptly to express them through physical contact than by vocally sharing them.

    The problem of getting burned exist in both sexes but men are made to look like they are the bad and the ugly ones but I could say that of women too...some are REAL mean spirited.

    A woman who was an attorney I believe from Toronto wrote a book and said about 60% of domestic violence is started by women but by what you hear in the main stream media you would never know it. The man is still made to be the scapegoat for many things that go wrong in a relationship because he doesn't stand up for himself: also men are not good at expressing deep feeling emotion in vocal form.

    BQ
    OK, the subject keeps coming up, and women on this site keep getting burned. So let's talk about it, OK?

    thegoodlife,

    I think you are only looking at one side of the coin, many men I know got burned by women. I for one was being cheated on by my ex, but like you my sixth sense caught it, you know how the field changes inside you and I proved it afterward even though she denied till I gave her the name of the man.

    Women are more open with their feelings and share their emotion with one another and men keep their feeling mostly for themselves and are more aptly to express them through physical contact than by vocally sharing them.

    The problem of getting burned exist in both sexes but men are made to look like they are the bad and the ugly ones but I could say that of women too...some are REAL mean spirited.

    A woman who was an attorney I believe from Toronto wrote a book and said about 60% of domestic violence is started by women but by what you hear in the main stream media you would never know it. The man is still made to be the scapegoat for many things that go wrong in a relationship because he doesn't stand up for himself: also men are not good at expressing deep feeling emotion in vocal form.

    BQ
  • View author's info posted on Oct 08, 2005 19:07


    People reveal themselves to you early on. It's up to you whether you choose to see or not.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 21, 2005 13:55


    One big clue is he has a long tail hanging from his behind,lol.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 21, 2005 11:12


    GoodLife: Received your note and checked your profile. It does speak for itself as you said but your "on the market comment" on the Trust Fund thread raised an eyebrow. However this is the new millenium where things change in a heartbeat. Best of luck to you. That is if you happen to be the sort to leave anything at all to chance. Anthony
  • View author's info posted on Sep 19, 2005 14:28


    Wow Goodlife do you have all that information at your finger tips in the states?? I cant imagine that we would have anything like that over here in the UK due to data protection.

    Are you able to get information on any one in other countries too or just in the states?

    Curious
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