Does love, or let's say all the feelings before love have boundaries? What I want to ask is how far would you go if you were not 100% sure about the other persons feelings? Would you go to another city, country or would you be willing to switch continents for a while?
You keep talking and sharing until you feel there is something lasting...a real connection. Then you meet, and if it all is there sort something out - one has to relocate. For the right man I would personally move for the right person..though intend moving overseas eventually anyway. If you are not 100% sure why make the commitment, because if cracks are there at the start, the chances are they might get bigger as time goes by. Big contemplation and decisions take place with international relations...but maybe they are worth it in the end!