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  • View author's info Posted on Aug 18, 2009 at 10:24 AM

    Why did YOU choose this site if you feel that way about people here. I guess that your post shows that money cannot buy class. That is IF you have money.

    Most of the women have already posted the reason that I chose the site. Oh yes, it IS just as easy to love a rich man as love a poor one BUT that is not the only reason. If I wanted to settle for a loveless marriage or be married to a jerk etc as long as I lived well......I would have stayed married. I came here hoping to find others similar to men I know who are rich and nice and have class. Usually they are the self-made, hard-working types who got to where they are by themselves. That is why I am here. I want a man with ethics, who knows how to put a sentence together and who won't lie because he doesn't have to lie.

    So AGAIN I ask......WHY are YOU sound like a woman hater anyway.
  • View author's info Posted on Jun 19, 2009 at 03:51 PM

    Definately not a gold digger, I would happily be with 'Mr Right', whoever and wherever he is on whatever income he happens to be on. I joined this site, thinking it would be good to talk to people different to those on other sites that I've joined, as I like getting to know people from all sorts of different backgrounds and cultures/lifestyles.
  • View author's info Posted on May 20, 2009 at 01:04 AM

    Echo what sciencesan said as well. Personally, I want to meet someone that is more of my 'equal' just due to the fact that feelings of emasculation have caused problems with relationships in the past.
  • View author's info Posted on May 20, 2009 at 01:01 AM

    I saw it on television (several, several times), and I am myself not wealthy enough to keep on paying for guys' meals and entertainment. I don't mind doing it 'Dutch'; I just don't want to pay for it all. Point blank.

  • View author's info Posted on May 25, 2008 at 01:26 AM

    I am running a site of my own plus am a members of quite a few more. Too many people want to get to know me for the wrong reason. I turn alot of people away. I'm sad and lonely and would give anything to find that one special person.

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  • View author's info Posted on May 20, 2008 at 06:32 AM

    I signed up for this sight in hopes of meeting someone that has a career & salary equal to or more than mine. It's not a golddigger issue. I'm just really tired of loser computer junkies with no job or life. There are tons of them out there feeding off the vulnerable. I was hoping that by signing up to this site, I would meet someone that is hard working and looking for the same thing.
  • View author's info Posted on Mar 09, 2008 at 03:36 PM

    I'm not a golddigger...

    Im just tired of paying for eveything by myself. Yes, women do that too. Money is extra. I know how to make money. I know how to help other people make money. I can't help (or be with ) someone who doesn't want to help themself.

    I am a go-getter and a hard worker and I desire a man who is that same way.

  • View author's info Posted on Mar 07, 2008 at 03:54 PM

    I can honestly say I'm not a gold-digger. I just want to meet a gentleman who is responsible and has a job with a decent income...not necessarily a millionaire. I have found some real "winners" on the other sites. Apparently, they don't bother read your profile at all and especially not questions when you state what you're looking for as far as education or age.
  • View author's info Posted on Mar 06, 2008 at 12:50 PM

    Well, for me it was because my last relationship was with a millionaire. Aside from the fact that he left me for an exotic dancer, I've learned that having educated yourself and worked very hard to earn that money creates a better quality of person, which should be what any woman, or man, would want in a partner. My ex notwithstanding in the better quality department. :)
  • View author's info Posted on Mar 02, 2008 at 11:38 AM

    I am looking to meet that special guy who has the same interest as I do. I am financially independent & looking for the man who isn't inferior to my success & income level

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  • View author's info Posted on Feb 23, 2008 at 07:28 AM

    I came on to this sight hoping to meet someone that was financial responsible. I support myself and my three kids. Is it hard you bet but I guess I would not have it any other way. Would it be nice to have a true man spoil you not going to lie, absolutely that would be nice but is it required no. You have to be a true financially sound person. whether you make 150,000.00 or 150,000,000. You are what you are and in the end I will be going to bed with you not your money.
  • View author's info Posted on Jan 27, 2008 at 08:17 PM

    God rest his soul...
    A longtime friend of mine, who has since passed grew up in a truly wealthy family. He was never "given" anything. In fact, he refused cheese on burgers since it cost extra. His parents expected him to learn the concept of the almighty dollar at a very early age. He educated himself, became successful and enjoyed a life of early luxury. He spent his latter half appearing "poor" infact, I appeared to have more than he. What we learned from eachother was that in the end, a great deal of "spiritual wealth" well spent was what mattered more than material gained. He passed while leaving the Palms Hotel Casino, in Las Vegas (Heart Attack). There were few people at his funeral, all whom were considered financially "Poor" For these people truly were his friends, none of which he gave money too, only his friendship. Yes, we all at one point had fine dinners and perhaps a trip or two to Vegas (Who hasn't been there) yet when it came down to it. It was friends seeking companionship, nothing more. Whose lesson was it to be learned? His, that the poor had wealth to share (more than he could emotionally spare) with only love to give? or ours? Money wasn't everything! Goldigger has never been an option. Success, you bet! All my best to those truly seeking love regardless of finances. For those seeking only money, think twice.
  • View author's info Posted on Jan 07, 2008 at 03:27 PM

    I read about this site and thought I would have a look. I earn my own money, and although I'm still studying, have enough for a reasonable lifestyle! I joined as I would like to have a decent lifesstyle, and although teachers wages are good, you need 2 decent wages for a good lifestyle. Well what I would class as a good lifestyle.
  • View author's info Posted on Jan 06, 2008 at 09:33 PM

    Now I found out about this site through a random link on TMZ (yes strange). I was bored and joined and even bought myself a membership. Why? No idea, I guess I wanted a 60 dollar splurge. Now am I goldigger? Most certainly not. I want to meet people, any type of person: Poor, rich, male, female. I'm looking for friends and penpals. Of course, that doesn't explain why I paid money. I guess I wanted the extra features and I was honestly being dumb. But if I had an older man proposition me, no matter how much he was worth, I would turn him down. I don't go for things like that and I don't go for guys that like to show themselves off and are fairly full of themselves. I like real guys whom I can be friends with and then see how everything goes from there. I, however, also want to be independent and self-made. I really don't like depending on others and certainly don't want to depend on a man. I want to be successful myself and not for who I'm with.
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 24, 2007 at 11:17 PM

    I wouldn't consider myself a golddigger in the least. I actually decided to try this site out in hopes of getting touch with men who are not scared witless by a woman who has goals and something to say. I couldn't help but think that those who've already done something with their life could appreciate and understand someone who is trying to do the same thing.
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 20, 2007 at 03:54 PM

    I joined this site to meet what I believe might be a better class of lady... a combination of intelligence, common sense and values. You can define success in more ways than dollars.... Setting goals and achieving them, wanting to live a better life than most, taking pride in yourself and the things that you do.

    I have been on one other site and was not successful in what I was looking for. I am not even sure how I came across this site. In jest, I would say if I had a choice between "" and other sites.I would certainly choose this one.

    I will say one thing about myself. I live a very comfortable, quality life, but I could be just as happy living in a cabin in the woods as long as I was with the right woman for me. Beyond that, everything else is a plus as far as I am concerned.

    I wish you all well in your own personal search.
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 29, 2007 at 03:58 AM

    Who is to say the "golddiggers" are all female? There are male ones, too! :lol:

    I signed up as a lark - sort of a dare from a friend. Turns out there are more interesting Irish men on this than many others sites. And there are more educated ones, too, from what I can tell.

    Of course, the Irishmen are notorious goddiggers in search of the wealthy American wife... while the American men are in search of the sexy Euroasian woman! :lol:

    Those of us who are neither are truly in a fix.... ;)
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 28, 2007 at 11:30 PM

    I'm sure you'll run into some who are and some who are not.

    I joined here mainly hoping to find those who are not and are in similar place in life as myself...
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 25, 2007 at 02:16 PM

    I have no idea why I joined here, I care to little about money. I really wish I cared more about money haha.
    I just read about this site and I wanted to check what it was like
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 11, 2007 at 03:09 PM

    I like your response... like the movie"Pay it Back"
    I was informed about this site by a friend .... for her own reasons she asked me to see if Chris Angel was a member.... I have not received an email from him !
    Ciao A

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