again i did not attack hm i simply stated that sitting on a funiture may not the most appealing shot for her.. i never said she wasnt a good looking woman- i stated my opinion since i was brought up that u dont sit on tables -- and its fine - it seems to bring on the millionaires who find that attractive - may she find the man of her dreams and they have 2 tables-- one for pictures and the other for eating
sure i accept your apology.. however, my words and how they are interpeted by others, whether they find it rude or just plain ole truth, has no impact on me. I know who i am- i know what kind of person i am.. and i dont dance around an issue - i state what i believe which is simply my opinion-- one has to simply ignore it or maybe not,, but the only changes i make in my life are for me- not for what others want or think i should.. i am not rude i am honest
You are right, you may attract alot more men than me. But you will also attract a different kind of man than I will. And that's good, because you & I are 2 different kinds of people. The kind of men you attract I probably wouldn't want to know. And the kind of man I'd attract, well you might find boring, because they are just not WILD enough for you. We each have our standards. We shouldn't knock someone because their's do not meet our own.
That is a very good point there..u did great up until the part whereby u decided my picture was well a bit differnt then yours.. its is.. i agree u have a set of standards and so do i- and i respect that.. however telling me i have no class-- why isnt that the same kinda statements u find offensive? yet u stated it.. honey i hope u attract the man of your dreams or anyman at least.. so to each is own ok
After months of watching what goes on in the forums, I would like to speak my piece. The first thing I would like to say is that I don't expect anything I write to make a difference. I simply write it for myself.
The forums are simply a reflection of society in general. Always, always there will be cliques, people who have to be number one, controllers, manipulators, fakes, etc. The human race has always gathered together for survival. Strength in numbers. That is simply how people are and you can't control them, only yourself. Does it REALLY matter if a person is rude? What is it in a person that if someone is rude to them that they MUST respond? Which is the stronger person, the one who responds or the one who turns and walks away. Which is the perceived weakness and the true weakness.
There will always be ebbs and flows on the forums. Moments of peace and fun and times of turmoil. No one can change that, that is life. The most you can hope for is to surround yourself with only people who are good for you, and to die in your sleep.
The cat returns to the weeds.
SouthernCougar wrote this. I just wanted to repost it in here because I think it is the best piece of writing in regards to this site. Very philosophical but VERY true. It is NOT judgemental nor is she, it just speaks volumes. If more people would think like her I don't believe there would be so much hostility. I am not aiming this at anyone.
NY, I could never put my picture up. I don't want to scare the other members and I'm afraid MM would delete my whole profile.
College you mentioned,,yes I went to College for 5 years. That is some college
yes!!! u are right-- let me change my pic today to me sitting on dining room table - my god i will send the men insane,, now what do i do again?? ohhh ok sit there with knees drawn up? thats it? seems easy enough.. and millionaires come running?? ok why are u still sitting on the table then? why arent u sitting on a yacht somewhere?/
as for who spoiled me MREd-- everyone including myself.. and its always great to see a happily married person doing research on an online dating site, im sure you spending time talking to and giving advice to others for hours really makes that marriage solid as a rock.. wasnt Dr Phil married like 5x?
hotmamma no i dont recall talkin to u ever sorry i think i would remember -unless u had a prior pic of u not sitting on furniture.. u are right i better change my pic..
the only fake on u that i can see is--hmm hair color- perhaps ya nails-- and thats all -maybe because u are pretty.. who knows? who cares.. dont change ya name -- nonsense the women are always saing how the men are no good - yet the woman do more meow meow talk about other women.. come on ladies relax
fake profiles?/ ok yes that is the answer that may help u land some guy..
the only thing fake on me sister are my bo*bs- i can give u the name of the Dr since u are in need of them ok.. not bashing u at all, simply trying to help u-- u look like u are going to bingo ok.. got it-- toss the sweater.. geesh why do my words have so much power over u that cause u to go into a tizzy?/ think that one over ok.. im not just pretty im also pretty intelligent..
smart enought to know u wont get a bite without some beauty tips..
mo offense taken since this is your favorite thing to do
"like Turbo charged convertibles and taking my dog into town in a beat-up old pick-up truck and cooling off at the Racoon Saloon/Restaurant with my friends and taking money from tourists from bar bets off of dog
NY ...no offence but look at you're pic. You're barefoot ..you're hair looks like you've been in a wind tunnel you look like you've been puking in a fountain. I'm a pretty liberal guy by the standards on here..
"These women are either unbalanced and definetly insecure in themself that they gain a temporary fix in boosting their confidence through bashing another....what a shame
Now that is not what u stated in your ims to me is it? i never bashed anyone - simply suggested a makeover u call that bashing?? no. Insecure? no not an ounce of me is insecure..
You are beautiful and smart and the next one that throws slander your way....I will stand by your side like a true Canadian/Scottish would.
Clearly u dont tell your friends the truth thats not a good friend barbie
a woman who has to state over and over how classy she is makes me wonder who she is tryin to convince-- oh and i love the profile with the sand part .. geesh girls lighten up i am not bashing ya-- im stating my opinion and if includes helpful hints well.. take what u need and leave the rest behind ok
DO NOT waste anymore of your energy in justifying who you are and what you seek. These women are either unbalanced and definetly insecure in themself that they gain a temporary fix in boosting their confidence through bashing another....what a shame
You are beautiful and smart and the next one that throws slander your way....I will stand by your side like a true Canadian/Scottish would. I am also and able to and crush them like a fly through words...lol....do not hit me with a flower. No worries Mate I will back you up
ok let me first reply to mary tyler moore sharp1... mare.. i was simply trying to offer u advice after i answered honestly the question presented.. ok- when i said make over i ment it.. as for the chick who fell off the chair.and is writing from the floor- theres always AA.. did i not mention i am rich-- oh yeah i am.. as for rich women and poor guys-- hmm thats why God invented cabana boys geesh