did your ex looses her ming?? When you find someone who loves you and you love them back it is a gift!!! Just from your posting, it sounds like you were really interested in building a wonderful life/home for her. Just remember her loss. As Julia Roberts said in Pretty Woman, ' Huge!!! "
Rich, how many women have you asked out? Are you only looking for women who think "they're all that?" I read you profile and you seem like a perfect catch. Maybe you could get some good head & shoulders shots of yourself for your profile instead of your little "ant people" pics. lol
Are you only interested in major babes? Are you willing to fly to other cities to meet other members? Maybe there's nobody suitable in Calif. but your souldmate might be a country away!
Tell us a little more about yourself and I guarantee you'll get some answers.