l'm new to this site and l have just had a rude awakening with a guy who replied to me - l saw him online and send him a message and got a reply back from his wife saying hello dear l'm his wife and l'm not dead yet so simply F*** OFF . l was so shocked and very surprised to know that married men are using this site for their duty tricks. its quite sad yet funny . l hope all married men on this site reads my message and stay far away from me as possible .l'm a no nonsense type of person but how does one finds out if a man that has replied to you is married . why isn't the site monitoring this situation ? by the way - it's KENAWORK so your warned ladies .
Well, all men cheat at least once in their lives, and maybe the same for women as well. My grandma told me once "Don't worry about where he goes in the day, as long as he comes home an sleeps in your bed every night". Something along those lines, but my grandma's cool and doesn't stress over stuff alot. For me, well, being in a muslim country I have known LOADS of women and men cheating on their spouses because their marriages were arranged or because of pregnancy or whatever. I personally have been with a married man because he takes care of me and I take care of him and his marriage was arranged. We didn't love each other, we just needed someone who cared...
Everyone uses everyone for one reason or another whether its for company, friendship, laughs, parties, drinking partners, sex, money or whatever. If we don't find we get something from a person, we cut them out of our lives.
Even homeless people. Why do I give money to homeless people? Because I get something back. The satisfaction of helping and hoping it will help me go to heaven one day.
Hello everyone! I'm new as well on here. I couldn't resist this topic!
It always amazes me when I see a married man posting a profile..say what? What if their spouse goes checking around and sees it? Really! I have been approached before by married men. I tell them in as polite a way as I can that I am "not interested." It is hard to not let them have it because I have always believed that if you truly love someone you could never even contemplate being with anyone else. But, I guess there are those people that live that way. On another note about this, I worked with a woman years ago who said, "but, it's more challenging to go after the married ones..." I was appalled. So, in a tiny sense if there are women like her "going after" some of the married men, it's somewhat understandable why some make a mistake. But, not over and over again! I'm just adding this because it hit me profoundly when she said it back then. charm2000
DaveForYou write: It's funny----Adult Friend Finder and Big Church (a dating site for Evangelicals) I am fairly certain are owned by the same company.
Supply and demand I guess. I am no angel but it just seems like there is something wrong about that. Oh well, may everyone find their niche.
Computer nerds will sell server bandwidth and storage space to anyone with cash, doesn't matter what race, creed, color, religion or sexual preference. I do believe you are correct that the hosting is the same company.
RomanticLass write: Wow! Two things...I was in no way sterotyping...just making a statement re: my MM experience...and two: I have no idea how to turn that sign...Best of luck.
Understood. I just wanted to make it clear that cheating knows no gender bias. There are plenty of both genders that are married and cheating on their spouses.
I liked Gem's answer to attempting to turn off the sign!
Oh, btw, incase anyone was wondering but hadn't been there, Adultfriendfinder is not a single's site for adults trying to find friends, well maybe it is, but perhaps would be better renamed sexfinders... LOL
Been approached by several married women online. Don't they know there are sites specifically for cheaters? But then again, maybe they wouldn't really want to date a cheater because let's be honest, who would.
And ladies don't start stereotyping and bashing, it doesn't serve you well. There are plenty of both sexes offending...
Myself, I had no interest in other women while I was married, and was offended when approached by both married and single women. But maybe you are right and I am a freak...
LOL, I like the invisible sign on the forehead theory. BTW, how do you turn that off???