MillionaireMatch & Luxury Forum > Long term relationship and Love > What the Hell? Previous topic Next topic
Jump to:
What the Hell?
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Thu, Nov 09, 2006 05:35

l'm new to this site and l have just had a rude awakening with a guy who replied to me - l saw him online and send him a message and got a reply back from his wife saying hello dear l'm his wife and l'm not dead yet so simply F*** OFF . l was so shocked and very surprised to know that married men are using this site for their duty tricks. its quite sad yet funny . l hope all married men on this site reads my message and stay far away from me as possible .l'm a no nonsense type of person but how does one finds out if a man that has replied to you is married . why isn't the site monitoring this situation ? by the way - it's KENAWORK so your warned ladies .



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Sun, Jan 15, 2006 07:12

Well, all men cheat at least once in their lives, and maybe the same for women as well. My grandma told me once "Don't worry about where he goes in the day, as long as he comes home an sleeps in your bed every night". Something along those lines, but my grandma's cool and doesn't stress over stuff alot. For me, well, being in a muslim country I have known LOADS of women and men cheating on their spouses because their marriages were arranged or because of pregnancy or whatever. I personally have been with a married man because he takes care of me and I take care of him and his marriage was arranged. We didn't love each other, we just needed someone who cared...
Everyone uses everyone for one reason or another whether its for company, friendship, laughs, parties, drinking partners, sex, money or whatever. If we don't find we get something from a person, we cut them out of our lives.
Even homeless people. Why do I give money to homeless people? Because I get something back. The satisfaction of helping and hoping it will help me go to heaven one day.



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Sun, Dec 25, 2005 17:36

Amen girl! I had a guy on this site ask me if I wanted to have an affair and I never responded. Maybe I should have and thrown in a couple of your witty quotes!



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Tue, Dec 20, 2005 23:59

Tell them you would like to know them better and want to call from time to time and put them on your birthday and Christmas list.then " Whats you phone number and where do I send your card?



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Thu, Dec 15, 2005 17:04

Hello everyone! I'm new as well on here. I couldn't resist this topic!
It always amazes me when I see a married man posting a profile..say what? What if their spouse goes checking around and sees it? Really! I have been approached before by married men. I tell them in as polite a way as I can that I am "not interested." It is hard to not let them have it because I have always believed that if you truly love someone you could never even contemplate being with anyone else. But, I guess there are those people that live that way. On another note about this, I worked with a woman years ago who said, "but, it's more challenging to go after the married ones..." I was appalled. So, in a tiny sense if there are women like her "going after" some of the married men, it's somewhat understandable why some make a mistake. But, not over and over again! I'm just adding this because it hit me profoundly when she said it back then. charm2000

Available only
to logged in members


Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Wed, Nov 30, 2005 17:45

DaveForYou write:
It's funny----Adult Friend Finder and Big Church (a dating site for Evangelicals) I am fairly certain are owned by the same company.

Supply and demand I guess. I am no angel but it just seems like there is something wrong about that. Oh well, may everyone find their niche.


Computer nerds will sell server bandwidth and storage space to anyone with cash, doesn't matter what race, creed, color, religion or sexual preference. I do believe you are correct that the hosting is the same company.



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Wed, Nov 30, 2005 14:33

It's funny----Adult Friend Finder and Big Church (a dating site for Evangelicals) I am fairly certain are owned by the same company.

Supply and demand I guess. I am no angel but it just seems like there is something wrong about that. Oh well, may everyone find their niche.



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Tue, Nov 29, 2005 12:48

RomanticLass write:
Wow! Two things...I was in no way sterotyping...just making a statement re: my MM experience...and two: I have no idea how to turn that sign...Best of luck.


Understood. I just wanted to make it clear that cheating knows no gender bias. There are plenty of both genders that are married and cheating on their spouses.

I liked Gem's answer to attempting to turn off the sign!

Oh, btw, incase anyone was wondering but hadn't been there, Adultfriendfinder is not a single's site for adults trying to find friends, well maybe it is, but perhaps would be better renamed sexfinders... LOL



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Tue, Nov 29, 2005 09:49

Not to implicate an entire state, but maybe it's partially a Texas thing. I say that in part that because I have gotten mail from married women in Texas----

Further, I spent a lot of time in the Dallas Metroplex area, primarily on business, when I was in my twenties.

The smalltown native Texans seemed to be very territorial and protective of their state,(it was like New Yorker go home....to many "real" Texans, NY, Connecticut, anything northeast is/was NEW YORK).

The larger cities are/were very transient and seem to have a much different moral mindset.

I don't advocate cheating on one's spouse under ANY circumstance---but at least they admit it upfront. I've had a couple "surprises" in my life.



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Mon, Nov 28, 2005 20:43

I have exactly the same problem. Married men are a pain but hey they do keep the stripping and internet porn industry alive



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Wed, Nov 09, 2005 23:13

omg, this is a dating site, if your married, i thought that meant no more dating, am i missing something here lass, they need to start there own site, mm, jump on it, married m*les. com,lol



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Wed, Nov 09, 2005 18:32

Been approached by several married women online. Don't they know there are sites specifically for cheaters? But then again, maybe they wouldn't really want to date a cheater because let's be honest, who would.

And ladies don't start stereotyping and bashing, it doesn't serve you well. There are plenty of both sexes offending...

Myself, I had no interest in other women while I was married, and was offended when approached by both married and single women. But maybe you are right and I am a freak...

LOL, I like the invisible sign on the forehead theory. BTW, how do you turn that off???



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Fri, Oct 14, 2005 21:36

LOL!! It's so true it's funny!

  


Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share