What does a man with everything want. Long Term Relationship

  • View author's info posted on Dec 24, 2011 08:10


    Smart man wants happiness. what's going on if sophisticated girl can't find a caring gentleman? How long is finding the one can take?
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  • View author's info Recommended Photo Verified Certified Millionaire in 2013 posted on Dec 15, 2011 16:28


    I we need is love...
                    The Beatles
  • View author's info posted on Aug 08, 2009 10:30


    Genuine, Unconditional Love...
  • View author's info posted on Aug 02, 2009 07:27


    I honestly think they would want a good woman to be faithful to them, love them throughout their triumphs AND their falls. But, some, also take advantage of good women, if given the opportunity.

    Money doesn't buy love.

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  • View author's info posted on Jul 08, 2006 00:19


    sharp1 write:
    For equality sake, how about changing the question to:

    What does a woman with everything want???


    A man with everything..so they could play show and tell..and that could take a lifetime..
  • View author's info Photo Verified Certified Millionaire in 2008 posted on Jun 22, 2006 21:33


    Since "want" means "to lack" I guess a man with everything wants the answer to this riddle (which, honest to God, was answered correctly by almost 95% of kindergarteners and only 25% of college graduates):

    "What's greater than God, more evil than the Devil, poor men have it, rich men need it, and if you eat it, you'll die?" [DON'T SPOIL IT FOR EVERYONE ELSE, E-MAIL ME WITH YOUR ANSWER]
  • View author's info posted on Jun 04, 2006 11:56


    This question would depend on one's perception of 'everything'. A man could be incredibly wealthy in the financial aspect, own a yacht, a Bentley and three houses in different countries, yet have absolutely nothing. On the other hand, a man could be living paycheck to paycheck, scraping by everyday, live in a trailer park and have everything he ever dreamed of. Money may buy material things beyond imagination...but leave you with a profound emptiness in your soul

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  • View author's info posted on Feb 24, 2006 13:44


    beautynbrains4u write:
    BQ write:
    beautynbrains4u write:
    BQ write:
    beautynbrains4u write:
    TamaraT write:
    The thing I find with 'men who have everything' monetary, is the need to have a strong, but caring partner at home to support them.
    Someone who understands and accepts them as they are and also understands that oftimes to be 'successfull in the business world', requires a lot of time/devotion/effort. A person who does not drag them down emotionally, mentally or spiritually. (Just my thoughts)

    tamara,
    I couldn't help but think ...a stepford wife...lol


    beautynbrains4u,

    Since you are in the military, I know your type of training look beyond money, it is all about Team work and special training to look after one another in survival situation etc..and coming out of your assignment alive with as many of your crew member as you can.

    What do you think of all this fuss about money ?

    BQ


    BQ,
    I think one can only call it a "fuss about money" when you have money. It's an arrogance that some wealthy people have. The vast majority of people struggle to make ends meet. And the poor around the world are poorer than the poorest in either of our countries. Money becomes the means of survival.

    What do I think of money in general?
    1. Health first..w/o that nothing matters, it's an equalizing factor.
    2. The old sayings, "money can't buy love or happiness" is true.
    3. Having money or not having money has the potential of ruining any relationship.
    4.Some people are so driven by accumulating wealth that they miss out on a lot in life.
    5.Can't take it with you when you die
    6.Those who have loads of money should give to charitable organizations.
    7.Wealth may give you power, but it won't buy you class, and it won't buy you genuine love.

    What do I think of money in terms of seeking a mate?

    I'll be honest as I have nothing to loose, nothing to gain..
    It would be real nice to have a partner to lean on both emotionally and financially in hard times (and good times). Woman tend to seek security...in these realms...even when they can take care of themselves. Relationships are all about give and take and finding an equalibrium so that both are satisfied. Who is the giver or taker changes as we face the vissisitudes of life.

    I'm a "greedy" woman. I want that love and grand passion. I want to be adored and spoiled. Don't we all? I am not high maintenence in that i want "all the finer things in life" Sure I'd love that '53 T bird convertible to flit about town in ...(aka grace kelly style..ya know scarf around neck, oversized sunglasses...), the ocean side home, the 2 carat princess cut diamond... Do I need it, crave it? NO. More importantly for me, having money would allow me to pursue things I want to EXPERIENCE in life (not obtain)...travel, explore, have a bit more fun, as well as short term volunteering for NGO in a developing country providing child/maternal care to the poorest, perhaps working in refugee camps...a life long dream. Giving and helping others have brought me the greastest riches and joy in life. I am not religious, but spiritual and feel we are all our brothers and sisters keepers...all interconnected.

    Money would allow me more choices, would make my life and loved ones life a bit easier...I don't consider myself a gold digger, a term frequently used in the forums. I have been alone a long time now(by choice). I can take care of myself, will experience the things that are important to me (have experienced much already) either by myself or with a partner. So the "fuss about money" is you need some, but for me and what I want in life....not an exorbitant amount. I don't need a partner to obtain my wants. So you asked and there you have it...for better or worse!!(I edited original post). Anyone else on the same page as me?


    beautynbrains4u,

    I like the way you replied to the question I asked. Fits your Alias.

    BQ

    thank you and I agree...
    beauty is subjective....I believe we are all beautiful...just need to look past the exterior...


    Beauty in an out is desirable for both gender, mostly men that is for sure..they can be so captivated by what they see but God made it this way...men are very visual, women are much more feelers of words and some visualization etc..reason why women love romance novel and fantasies more than men.

    BQ
  • View author's info posted on Feb 22, 2006 12:24


    beautynbrains4u write:
    BQ write:
    beautynbrains4u write:
    TamaraT write:
    The thing I find with 'men who have everything' monetary, is the need to have a strong, but caring partner at home to support them.
    Someone who understands and accepts them as they are and also understands that oftimes to be 'successfull in the business world', requires a lot of time/devotion/effort. A person who does not drag them down emotionally, mentally or spiritually. (Just my thoughts)

    tamara,
    I couldn't help but think ...a stepford wife...lol


    beautynbrains4u,

    Since you are in the military, I know your type of training look beyond money, it is all about Team work and special training to look after one another in survival situation etc..and coming out of your assignment alive with as many of your crew member as you can.

    What do you think of all this fuss about money ?

    BQ


    BQ,
    I think one can only call it a "fuss about money" when you have money. It's an arrogance that some wealthy people have. The vast majority of people struggle to make ends meet. And the poor around the world are poorer than the poorest in either of our countries. Money becomes the means of survival.

    What do I think of money in general?
    1. Health first..w/o that nothing matters, it's an equalizing factor.
    2. The old sayings, "money can't buy love or happiness" is true.
    3. Having money or not having money has the potential of ruining any relationship.
    4.Some people are so driven by accumulating wealth that they miss out on a lot in life.
    5.Can't take it with you when you die
    6.Those who have loads of money should give to charitable organizations.
    7.Wealth may give you power, but it won't buy you class, and it won't buy you genuine love.

    What do I think of money in terms of seeking a mate?

    I'll be honest as I have nothing to loose, nothing to gain..
    It would be real nice to have a partner to lean on both emotionally and financially in hard times (and good times). Woman tend to seek security...in these realms...even when they can take care of themselves. Relationships are all about give and take and finding an equalibrium so that both are satisfied. Who is the giver or taker changes as we face the vissisitudes of life.

    I'm a "greedy" woman. I want that love and grand passion. I want to be adored and spoiled. Don't we all? I am not high maintenence in that i want "all the finer things in life" Sure I'd love that '53 T bird convertible to flit about town in ...(aka grace kelly style..ya know scarf around neck, oversized sunglasses...), the ocean side home, the 2 carat princess cut diamond... Do I need it, crave it? NO. More importantly for me, having money would allow me to pursue things I want to EXPERIENCE in life (not obtain)...travel, explore, have a bit more fun, as well as short term volunteering for NGO in a developing country providing child/maternal care to the poorest, perhaps working in refugee camps...a life long dream. Giving and helping others have brought me the greastest riches and joy in life. I am not religious, but spiritual and feel we are all our brothers and sisters keepers...all interconnected.

    Money would allow me more choices, would make my life and loved ones life a bit easier...I don't consider myself a gold digger, a term frequently used in the forums. I have been alone a long time now(by choice). I can take care of myself, will experience the things that are important to me (have experienced much already) either by myself or with a partner. So the "fuss about money" is you need some, but for me and what I want in life....not an exorbitant amount. I don't need a partner to obtain my wants. So you asked and there you have it...for better or worse!!(I edited original post). Anyone else on the same page as me?


    beautynbrains4u,

    Enjoyed your though out post, I agree with you on most points...even for years I have thought of doing missionary work..have not gotten to it but maybe some day.

    The fuss about money is a rich or poor problem...when you have wealth you have to be deligent to preserve it as it will go out fast if you don't do your Due Deligence.. When you are poor money is a critical factor of surviving.

    Lots of wealthy Christian people give around on average 10% to the church, missions or charities etc...

    I like the way you replied to the question I asked. Fits your Alias.

    BQ
  • View author's info posted on Feb 18, 2006 10:15


    beautynbrains4u write:
    TamaraT write:
    The thing I find with 'men who have everything' monetary, is the need to have a strong, but caring partner at home to support them.
    Someone who understands and accepts them as they are and also understands that oftimes to be 'successfull in the business world', requires a lot of time/devotion/effort. A person who does not drag them down emotionally, mentally or spiritually. (Just my thoughts)

    tamara,
    I couldn't help but think ...a stepford wife...lol


    beautynbrains4u,

    Since you are in the military, I know your type of training look beyond money, it is all about Team work and special training to look after one another in survival situation etc..and coming out of your assignment alive with as many of your crew member as you can.

    What do you think of all this fuss about money ?

    BQ
  • View author's info posted on Feb 10, 2006 06:55


    I think men with or without money are all the same. They want something that would complete them. They also want to be challenged (so don't be too eager).
  • View author's info posted on Dec 19, 2005 20:05


    The thing I find with 'men who have everything' monetary, is the need to have a strong, but caring partner at home to support them.
    Someone who understands and accepts them as they are and also understands that oftimes to be 'successfull in the business world', requires a lot of time/devotion/effort. A person who does not drag them down emotionally, mentally or spiritually. (Just my thoughts)
  • View author's info posted on Dec 18, 2005 20:08


    So did you read flash745 profile to get that quote?
  • View author's info posted on Nov 19, 2005 16:00


    thats OK, I'll fight for you anyday
  • View author's info posted on Nov 15, 2005 07:01


    your gonna start a cat fight niceguy.lol
  • View author's info posted on Nov 11, 2005 12:20


    blondeindian write:
    niceguylooking, will you marry me, lol you are the sweetest thang,

    Sure Blonde, when ! LOL
  • View author's info posted on Nov 11, 2005 06:56


    This has been fun....

    but I gotta run....

    TGIF and ya'll have a great one.

    Peaches
  • View author's info posted on Nov 11, 2005 06:55


    niceguylooking write:
    sicilian_angel write:
    I think a man with everything would like something money can not buy. A love note left in his suit pocket, perfume sprayed on the inside of his pocket so he thinks of you all day. A walk along the beach holding hands and talking softly. Time to get to know him, time is priceless. I think my favorite quote says it all........
    "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments it takes our breath away".



    That is excellent answer. I would also like to add a couple of things.

    Emotional support from the woman that he loves. Like if she says sometimes, I understand you have to be away,( on work issues) so go do what you have to do and don't worry, everything will be fine. You know little stuff like that.

    Also, this comes from my kids. There is nothing like when my kids come home
    they come over and give me a kiss, look me in the eyes and say " I love you Dad"


    Oh... wow... that hit the heart with the comment about the kids.
    You're right about the emotional support.. .and it goes both ways. Besides, when he's away on business.. that's the perfect time to prepare for him to return home....

    Peaches
  • View author's info posted on Nov 11, 2005 06:51


    jeby write:
    adventure would be near the top of my list, someone who is willing to jump at captaining a boat, going to paris without luggage, help people in a small village in central america, one who gives more to life than they take,jerry


    Best Fares (little round thing) com....

    has great last minute deals usually posted on Wednesday each week for those last minute getaways or even for long term plans.

    I haven't seen these rates recently, but in '99 flew to Ontario airport in CA for $88 round trip to attend a convention in Anaheim and in 2000 flew to Cancun for $78 for some sun and fun.

    Paris without a suitcase......????? does it get cold at night?

    Peaches
  • View author's info posted on Nov 11, 2005 06:42


    BlondeLightning write:
    Hi Everyone!

    Ok Amanda, Scorpio, Bonnie, Angel, Amber, Lass, and Indian- Nice answers Ladies! For me, I liked all of them. The note is such a romantic jesture. But the one I would want the most is the one Amanda said- "Unconditional Love". And Amber- Loyality and unconditional love would go hand in hand wouldn't you think? I know I would!

    And Blonde Indian, your comment is too funny lil lady. You are too cute darling!

    That is just my two cents worth and opinion, but who am I to state that? I am just "Chopped Liver", LMAO!


    I just replied to your post on the same topic by MatureEnglishRose. You sound like a really nice guy and I hope you find unconditional and everlasting love.
    Isn't that what we all are seeking?????


    Peaches
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