It's a crime to want a rich man? Long Distance Relationship

  • View author's info Author posted on Jan 03, 2009 at 00:47


    since world is made, beautiful girls(and the others, not so lucky) wants to merry with the rich guys...because of the power that money gives?...who knows? it's human nature
    maybe it's coming from our childhood...nice stories about prince and princess...
    reality...it's such different:)
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  • View author's info posted on Sep 04, 2011 at 11:58


    Quoting Sugarcane10021:

    I decided when I was a teen that I would not marry for money. This is the age when I first dated a rich boy and realized that he had already realized the power that his money had over girls. He was actually a really nice guy and cute but the money did the talking and girls always praised me for being with him.

    In college, older wealthy men were always hovering around but I thought that was gross. I knew that I was going to be educated and earn my own money so I didn't have to rely on my body alone. As I entered my 20s, I realized that the money that I could earn as a doctor would never make me rich but I also realized that I didn't care. In New York, you have to have at least several million dollars to be rich anyway so it was something that I never thought possible.

    In my 20s, I realized that some of the girls I knew were gold-diggers. But even more surprisingly, I discovered that tons of men (even poor men) were ok with it. Many are willing to "buy" women and lure them in with expensive dates and gifts. Now I know that tons of marriages, even in 2011, are based on the younger more beautiful poor woman and the older, richer guy. Each person knows his/her role and play that part.

    So, no it is not a crime to want a rich guy. Both parties just have to openly acknowledge that they are in the relationship as part of a contract. She gives her body and her looks and he gives material things. To me that sounds like prostitution but it is what it is. As long as both people know what they need to bring to the table then it is okay. Girls should not think that the man really loves her. She can be replaced in 10 years with a newer gold-digger. And guys should not think that the woman loves him. Most of the women that I know in these relationships have young hot broke guys on the side.

    As for me, I can support myself quite well and I just want a guy who is not too poor to enjoy my lifestyle. More importantly, most men are not masculine enough to date a woman who is richer than they are so it is better for middle-class girls like me to date men who are more wealthy. That is why I am here. Right now I am looking for a travel buddy but if something more comes along that would fabulous- as long as it true and based on love.



    All I can say is AMEN !!! :-)
  • View author's info posted on Aug 14, 2011 at 10:50


    why not?? if i deserve it...

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  • View author's info posted on Jul 28, 2011 at 18:52


    i wanna be like a princess,i wanna be with a man who could be my boyfriend,my lover,my best friend,my man,and i wanna be with a loser because i knew that and it was so catastrophic!
    i wanna a funny man,artist,clever,nice,cool,rock'n'roll and honest who love me !i wanna dreamin so why not?
    we can to be nice,good human and the best will!

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  • View author's info posted on Jul 12, 2011 at 13:29


    Very good...but most of the girls really watching this kind of mans.
  • View author's info Recommended posted on Jul 11, 2011 at 11:13


    Everything I have read has shown that wealthy people are no happier in their marraige than poor people. They do divorce less  but they aren't happier.  Wealth doesn't buy relationships.  Relationships involve communication, trust, respect, understanding, etc.  As the Beatles say, "Can't buy me love."

  • View author's info posted on Jul 09, 2011 at 06:24


    I decided when I was a teen that I would not marry for money. This is the age when I first dated a rich boy and realized that he had already realized the power that his money had over girls. He was actually a really nice guy and cute but the money did the talking and girls always praised me for being with him.

    In college, older wealthy men were always hovering around but I thought that was gross. I knew that I was going to be educated and earn my own money so I didn't have to rely on my body alone. As I entered my 20s, I realized that the money that I could earn as a doctor would never make me rich but I also realized that I didn't care. In New York, you have to have at least several million dollars to be rich anyway so it was something that I never thought possible.

    In my 20s, I realized that some of the girls I knew were gold-diggers. But even more surprisingly, I discovered that tons of men (even poor men) were ok with it. Many are willing to "buy" women and lure them in with expensive dates and gifts. Now I know that tons of marriages, even in 2011, are based on the younger more beautiful poor woman and the older, richer guy. Each person knows his/her role and play that part.

    So, no it is not a crime to want a rich guy. Both parties just have to openly acknowledge that they are in the relationship as part of a contract. She gives her body and her looks and he gives material things. To me that sounds like prostitution but it is what it is. As long as both people know what they need to bring to the table then it is okay. Girls should not think that the man really loves her. She can be replaced in 10 years with a newer gold-digger. And guys should not think that the woman loves him. Most of the women that I know in these relationships have young hot broke guys on the side.

    As for me, I can support myself quite well and I just want a guy who is not too poor to enjoy my lifestyle. More importantly, most men are not masculine enough to date a woman who is richer than they are so it is better for middle-class girls like me to date men who are more wealthy. That is why I am here. Right now I am looking for a travel buddy but if something more comes along that would fabulous- as long as it true and based on love.
  • View author's info posted on Jul 04, 2011 at 05:18


    i can't afford otherwise..
  • View author's info posted on May 17, 2011 at 13:27


    To focus on a man because he is rich could be like striving after the wind. You see the effects of it, you feel it, but you can never touch it.
    Would it be wrong to go after one? Give any woman the chance to have one and they won't think twice to accomplish their dream to succeed. Men find it hard also to find a rich women to accept them into their lives.
    If giving the chance they would also take it. Facts about money! some say it cant buy you love.

    A rich person would say they love what it can buy. Some speak that it cant bring you happiness! Their are plenty of people who are unhappy without it.
    Money is not the root of all evil it's the love of money that is.

    Their are many rags to rich stories: Anyone who go after a man because he is rich should think of the consequences of being rejected.
    A rich man wont find it hard to acquire women the world has plenty of women to offer a rich man.

    The chances of a women going after a rich man and getting him may be slim but can be possible. Sometimes it can bring two people closer together and make one appreciate what they had verse what they have now.

    The woman certainly wont make a mistake to jeopardize loosing what they had gain with a rich man. The man would be please to have a person show them more affection and loving concern in the long run. Bottom line if you are a women desiring to meet a rich man go for it you have nothing to lose.

    Don't expect to gain a rich man on looks alone. You women are beautiful think of what you have to offer besides looks. Beauty don't talk to a rich man he is like most men checking out all women.

    To all women if your heart set on finding a rich may you don't need advice from from others follow your heart and see where it will lead you.
  • View author's info posted on May 15, 2011 at 01:38


    As a man who has worked very hard and amassed a great deal of money, I dont find it to be problematic if a woman appreciates that I have money as long as it is a bonus for them and not the primary reason she is attracted to me. I have no need want or desire to have a woman there not because she loves me, but because I have money. I grew up poor, experienced the joy of a welfare Christmas as a child, and understand the desire many people have to live a better lifestyle, but marrying a man simply because he has money is not the way to go about it. Furthermore if that is what you are all about, most men who have been succesfull, and made the kind of money you are looking for are not stupid. They will see through your attempt to leech off of them, and use you just as you are trying to use them, or they will simply ignore you. The latter would be what the moral ones will do, but many of us surely didnt get where we are by being nice guys all the time. My advice is to seek out men you are attracted too, fall in love, and if you want to live a certain kind of lifestyle, work hard in your career and be successful. If you are somehow unable to make your own money, do all you can to support the man you LOVE in his career to help with his success. Behind every good man is a good woman, BE ONE!!!!
  • View author's info posted on Apr 27, 2011 at 14:43


    very natural. I know now i want a rich man bedly
  • View author's info posted on Jan 24, 2011 at 06:52


    oh god, be or not to be, this is question..lol the point is, have no one man, nor rich nor poor...

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  • View author's info posted on Dec 18, 2010 at 18:19


    Great feedback, Dr.! ;)

  • View author's info posted on Dec 16, 2010 at 07:59


    Of course is not a crime!... I was married to a millionaire and was a bad experience, money was his God and eveything was money. I am not saying that all millonaires are the same but money doesn't bring happines.

    Money can buy great times but if goes together with respect for each other, love and honesty. I love to have money and love expensive things but I work for my money.

    If I find a good man and he has money is a plus.

  • View author's info posted on Dec 12, 2010 at 14:30


    i understand that there are smart and decent people who are not wealthy; I know Paul Farmer of Partners in Health.  But he is a professor at Harvard - as well as a man who is dedicated to helping poor people in Haiti.  Sure, people do not have to be rich to interesting, money is just one metric for deciding whether you are having a real impact on the world. 

    And if i were a young woman, i would want a man who is achieving at a high level.  

  • View author's info posted on Sep 30, 2010 at 09:40


    hELLO

    ITS NOT HUMAN NATURE, AS EXCUSE, IS EGO NATURE, THAT NOTHING TO DO WITH SPIRITUALITY, AND STUPID MEN ARE LESS EVERY DAY. BECAUSE THEY LEARNED TOO WOMEN JOKES.

    IF RICH MAN WANT A WOMAN FOR SEX, EASY, TO PAY.

    AND IF FOR LOVE, WILL NOT SEARCH A GIRL THAT NEED HIM A SUGAR DADDY :)

    STOP LIVE PHANTASY OF FILMS.

  • View author's info posted on Sep 13, 2010 at 15:19


    Quoting SoundOfLight:

    It would be a plain lie to say that women never look for money and always for love and protection (or he opposite). On the other hand we are not animals (although some do act like ones) - it's not just an instinct to look for the most successful male. Money gives more freedom of choice to pursue your goals - simple as that. It's not the goal itself, it's a way to achieve more. Obviously, most people wish to have more opportunities the world gives them.

    It's not a crime, it's quite natural to want a better man - as long as you give something back. The simplest (and most popular) partnership is beaty/money. If the both parties are happy with that, then it works. However, I think that most successful marriage/partnership is responsibility and care for each other - the man loves to spend on his beloved and the woman gives all her tenderness and support, creating the perfect atmosphere at home. She doesn't "use" her man, she takes what he gives, nourishes, developes and gives back - that's the way the nature intended.



    I couldn't of said it better myself. Very well said. I concur. And I adore your mind; your intelligence. Beautiful. :)

  • View author's info posted on Sep 07, 2010 at 02:35


    ITS WONDERFULL WHEN U MEET SOMEBODY AND LOVE HIM,TO FIND OUT THAT HES A MILLIONARE. THOUGH YOU CAN LOVE SOMEONE IF HIS MILLIONS ARE USED TO MAKE YOU HAPPY!!!!!!!!!!!1
  • View author's info posted on Aug 23, 2010 at 10:14


    No, it's certainly not a crime but if it's THE major point of interest, don't be surprised if your email inbox is bare of responses.  No man is going to seriously consider a relationship if all you're interested in is M.O.N.E.Y. (unless he plans to use you for his personal gratification and then shove you aside when he's finished)

  • View author's info posted on Apr 07, 2010 at 16:30


    I am strong person and want to be with a strong man.

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