I agree with Conyersguy, nothing wrong with being picky. I am of the opinion that there is someone with whom you connect on all levels. I think as we get older we are more in tune with both our heart and mind and realize that chemistry and character each have a place in making that connection.
I have to admit with my age and maturity I've gained a greater appreciation for both love and life. While I may not find the 'one' I will endeavor to persevere. My heart will remain open to the possibility.
i m about to give up !! in the real life i dont have time to meet ppl and here no one seems to be serious i just asked for a loyal man and serious relation ..is that toooo much ???pls is there someone for me i m alone for toooo long and i don t want to end up an old lady with a cat !!
@Conyersguy: Your words of wisdom ring very true. I'm picky myself and have always said I will not settle for less than what I want. A couple weeks ago someone suggested that I not lower my standards BUT adjust them!
Hmmm.. What is it with men and women these days? We all look for love but can't connect with each other at any level. How is it that there are so many single women and men and yet we cannot find a partner? What we hope for is only an illusion. Sometimes we must look beyond and try to adapt to what we have. I have to admit that I cannot speak from experience because I am very picky. But reality wise, it should work.