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Posted on Fri, Sep 29, 2006 12:58

bombshelldiva write:
I think she just cut you off from the beginning....she doesn't date black men....you winked at her apparently trying to connect with her because let's face it, no one's on here to just say "hi" to people and she cut you short without B.S.....at least she's honest and open-minded probably not...but everyone's not open-minded.

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I agree,,move on!!



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Posted on Wed, Sep 27, 2006 06:22

Are you still moaning about this? You'll never find ANYONE if you don't just get over it!



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Posted on Sat, Sep 23, 2006 05:47

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my comment was not that of anger, it was a statement from someone that has had the race card pulled many times and laughs at it. I was trying to make fun of the fact that you and so many others are so offended buy who they are.
Personal opinion, each person should be judged on his/her own merit. I don't fear differences i enjoy the color of life they bring and i only discriminate against ignorance in people that read things that are not there.
If you are going to start a blog please see what is typed and read it carefully, winks and lol are not angry terms.
Oh and why is it that everyone on here is racist except the one that pulls the race card....lol.... what a question to be answered. anyone have any idea...lol


If your comments were not in anger why are they directed at "me" alone.



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Posted on Fri, Sep 22, 2006 06:31

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my comment was not that of anger, it was a statement from someone that has had the race card pulled many times and laughs at it. I was trying to make fun of the fact that you and so many others are so offended buy who they are.
Personal opinion, each person should be judged on his/her own merit. I don't fear differences i enjoy the color of life they bring and i only discriminate against ignorance in people that read things that are not there.
If you are going to start a blog please see what is typed and read it carefully, winks and lol are not angry terms.
Oh and is why is it that everyone on here racist except the one that pulls the race card....lol.... what a question to be answered. anyone have any idea...lol

Well darling,I am not sure if your comments are addressing me or the general audience on the forum. perhaps you can make your comments more clear: example: "why is it that everyone on here" that is a direct quote from you.



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Posted on Wed, Sep 20, 2006 13:58

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well, i don't date ignorant men, does that make me racist? i am a firm believer that ignorance is just as genetically inclined as the color of your skin, (or just in the water). lol

Freedom of choice is something we all have, and no one should pull any CARD to make anyone else feel bad about a personal choice. If Not into Black bothers you than i think you are a racist. I am not into Italian men, just because i know to much of the way most treat women after the new is gone. But most of them are extremely hot. I also don't date black men that pull race card when the world throws them a curve ball and i don't date anyone i can not understand. Hence, my dating is very limited... winks...
And is it racist when someone will not date you because you are a blond and they want someone intelligent?????lol.

Sorry, just questions that make as much sense as being offended by who you are and how others see you. If they don't like something about you, then don't worry about it. It is just one less profile to look at.


Well dear intelligence is not one of your strong points.



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Posted on Tue, Sep 19, 2006 17:13

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well, i don't date ignorant men, does that make me racist? i am a firm believer that ignorance is just as genetically inclined as the color of your skin, (or just in the water). lol

Freedom of choice is something we all have, and no one should pull any CARD to make anyone else feel bad about a personal choice. If Not into Black bothers you than i think you are a racist. I am not into Italian men, just because i know to much of the way most treat women after the new is gone. But most of them are extremely hot. I also don't date black men that pull race card when the world throws them a curve ball and i don't date anyone i can not understand. Hence, my dating is very limited... winks...
And is it racist when someone will not date you because you are a blond and they want someone intelligent?????lol.

Sorry, just questions that make as much sense as being offended by who you are and how others see you. If they don't like something about you, then don't worry about it. It is just one less profile to look at.


Your comments are clearly very much in anger and not in any calm reply. First you need to look in the diciotinary for the term and secondly you need to know the difference between prejudice and racism. As I mentioned prejudice is not a preference its a BELIEF that one group is better than another.

Racism is a belief in the moral or biological superiority of one race or ethnic group over another or others.[1] The term racism is also sometimes used to refer to preference for one's own ethnic group (ethnocentrism)[2], fear of difference (xenophobia)[citation needed], views or preferences against interbreeding of the races (miscegenation)[3], and nationalism[4], regardless of any explicit belief in superiority or inferiority[citation needed]. Related concepts include prejudice, discrimination and racialism.

Racism has been used to justify social discrimination, segregation, and violence.



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Posted on Fri, Sep 15, 2006 06:01

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Black men love to pull the race card out as a vehicle to produce guilt in a beautiful lady who deserves the right to make their own choices. "If you dont date me or go to bed with me you must have been raised a racist" That's the crap many beautiful women here from you jerks, then if you do get them you treat them like crap and discard them. Quit whining and find a sista, they might put up with your bull sh-it.

Sween, at 50 you are hot as h*ll,lol..and I hate the race card thing, No I do not date black men, just not my preference...my choice, related not to race, but taste in men..I like tall tan or olive skeined men, black hair, eyes?, just sexy looking, and Italian/Irish a big PLUS

When two individuals have to respond to swearing on the forum. it is a unfortunate and a reflection of their ablity to communicate at a deeper level. It certainly reflects on what is imporant to one of them. We see two individuals discussing a very open topic , one says " she does not date black men , the other says he hates when black men pull the race card, Now you tell me which one is a "racist". Let not resort to name callng. ok. If you have an opinion make sure you know what your talking about



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Posted on Thu, Sep 14, 2006 23:05

Great topic! We need more thought provoking conversations! I grew up in a traditional Irish/Italian family back East and while my Grandmother was probably not the most tolerant (I think "prejudice" is a word too oft misused, to pre-judge is a natural reaction - we think a well dressed man or woman is successful, we think a young person in street clothes may be a challenge, however to "discriminate" is to act on these prejudgments without confirmation and that is totally unnatural, learned and divisive behavior), my parents were the opposite. As a child I was fortunate enough to grow up in a very racially diverse (albeit not the nicest) neighborhood and it taught me that people are the same whatever their race. I've dated black women, white women, asian women and latin women, and they all cried at sad movies, laughed at good jokes, loved, lived and were essentially the same. Upbringing and attitude is far more important than race.

I agree that we should not digress into name calling or accusations when having a good conversation like this.



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Posted on Thu, Sep 14, 2006 09:41

Islands you might think of those two as one person with two different ID's. That is what I suspect. You might ask the MM gods, they would know, -- but they probably don't care as long as it creats a little drama.



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Posted on Tue, Sep 12, 2006 17:00

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Black men love to pull the race card out as a vehicle to produce guilt in a beautiful lady who deserves the right to make their own choices. "If you dont date me or go to bed with me you must have been raised a racist" That's the crap many beautiful women here from you jerks, then if you do get them you treat them like crap and discard them. Quit whining and find a sista, they might put up with your bull sh-it.

Sween, at 50 you are hot as h*ll,lol..and I hate the race card thing, No I do not date black men, just not my preference...my choice, related not to race, but taste in men..I like tall tan or olive skeined men, black hair, eyes?, just sexy looking, and Italian/Irish a big PLUS



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Posted on Sat, Sep 09, 2006 04:11

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If the shoe fits wear it.


What fools these mortals be...William Shakespeare.



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Posted on Sat, Sep 09, 2006 01:13

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islands101 write:
sweendogr write:
Black men love to pull the race card out as a vehicle to produce guilt in a beautiful lady who deserves the right to make their own choices. "If you dont date me or go to bed with me you must have been raised a racist" Thats the crap many beautiful women here from you jerks, then if you do get them you treat them like crap and discard them. Quit whining and find a sista, they might put up with your bull sh-it.


if you can't reply with sensible comments brother don't reply.

Congrats, Sween! The first post of yours in months which makes half sense, but only HALF! Why on earth would any "sista" put up with him?

W's: prepare yourself for a mega "free" wink!


Ms Aparteid you really need to quit:)



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Posted on Fri, Sep 08, 2006 15:48

If the shoe fits wear it.



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Posted on Thu, Sep 07, 2006 05:32

sweendogr write:
Black men love to pull the race card out as a vehicle to produce guilt in a beautiful lady who deserves the right to make their own choices. "If you dont date me or go to bed with me you must have been raised a racist" Thats the crap many beautiful women here from you jerks, then if you do get them you treat them like crap and discard them. Quit whining and find a sista, they might put up with your bull sh-it.


if you can't reply with sensible comments brother don't reply.



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Posted on Wed, Sep 06, 2006 04:35

Black men love to pull the race card out as a vehicle to produce guilt in a beautiful lady who deserves the right to make their own choices. "If you dont date me or go to bed with me you must have been raised a racist" Thats the crap many beautiful women here from you jerks, then if you do get them you treat them like crap and discard them. Quit whining and find a sista, they might put up with your bull sh-it.



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Posted on Tue, Sep 05, 2006 14:49

Beans73 write:
Why don't you perhaps try approaching either mixed or black women instead?
That way at least you won't get this type of racist response!

I think your correct:) I would rather approach a mixed or black woman:), but my preference is open to anyone with sense. I believe the comments by "some" of the non women of color on the post reflect their preferring and prejudice toward men of color. It might indicate that their frame of reference and knowledge of differences is also limited. Being called "racist" is a harsh term, but it simply is an issue they has been denied by many for centuries by non folks of color. Dating someone of color does not mean that you are not prejudice. Prejudice is a belief that one characteristic is common in one group of people. Although some women here might have you to be live they are accepting of differences, the general concept of prejudice exist. They are not. Some are ~ Your suggestion is probably a good one, in view of how few have been to address this post. However, there is someone who I admire and appreciate dearly and they are not in that number. I do not retract my compliment on your beauty by the way. (your very attractive:) I am flattered by your comments. but your comments are more intelligent as that of another in the UK.



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Posted on Tue, Sep 05, 2006 07:45

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Ms Apartheid

Please don't write unless you know Black Hisotry.

How dare you insult me by calling me "Ms Apartheid"!!! I was one of the 1st to expose you as a racist and an anti-semite! Cunningly enough you removed the thread you started, blasting "white" American and Jewish women! I took the time to inform you how ugly bigotry is, since I have 1st hand knowlede, growing up in a facist country where the minority opressed the majority. South Africa has become a democracy 10 and a half years ago, but racism still dwells in many a mind.
So, I beg you, stop making skin pigmentation an issue; not only is it irrelevant, it does no good either, believe me.

Ms Apartheid settle down LOL your not the pioneer of racism. you simply are a victim. you don't need to expose anyone to racism??.... you just have to keep your tan...right???
I never blasted white or jewish women your very mistaken~ dear

Ok, I'll "settle down", since it is pointless debating with you!
If you do not even understand the vast difference between "exposed TO" and "exposed AS", I give up! Furthermore, I have have no regard for someone, such as yourself, who starts a misogynous thread, removes it and thereafter denies that it existed. This demonstrates not only deviousness and dishonesty, but also stupidity!


there is a difference betwen being exposed and "being expose as", but i said NOTHING regarding my being exposed as you did. madame. which really has exposed you~can't you see that?



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Posted on Tue, Sep 05, 2006 00:58

Teresa2084 write:

islands101 write:
Beans73 write:
Why don't you perhaps try approaching either mixed or black women instead?
That way at least you won't get this type of racist response!

I think your correct:) I would rather approach a mixed or black woman:) by the way your very attractive:) I am flattered by your comments. Can we keep a secret:) If you can't I will:)



I guess that rules me out being white but then you approached me lol

No T. it does not rule you out. it was a reply to someone who clearly was making a commeent about how some of the members are rejecting of men of color. clearly you are not in that number. I have changed my post to reflect that.



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Posted on Mon, Sep 04, 2006 16:26

islands101 write:
Beans73 write:
Why don't you perhaps try approaching either mixed or black women instead?
That way at least you won't get this type of racist response!

I think your correct:) I would rather approach a mixed or black woman:) by the way your very attractive:) I am flattered by your comments. Can we keep a secret:) If you can't I will:)


I guess that rules me out being white but then you approached me lol



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Posted on Mon, Sep 04, 2006 13:53

GrapesOfGoodHope write:
islands101 write:
GrapesOfGoodHope write:
islands101 write:

Ms Apartheid

Please don't write unless you know Black Hisotry.

How dare you insult me by calling me "Ms Apartheid"!!! I was one of the 1st to expose you as a racist and an anti-semite! Cunningly enough you removed the thread you started, blasting "white" American and Jewish women! I took the time to inform you how ugly bigotry is, since I have 1st hand knowlede, growing up in a facist country where the minority opressed the majority. South Africa has become a democracy 10 and a half years ago, but racism still dwells in many a mind.
So, I beg you, stop making skin pigmentation an issue; not only is it irrelevant, it does no good either, believe me.

Ms Apartheid settle down LOL your not the pioneer of racism. you simply are a victim. you don't need to expose anyone to racism??.... you just have to keep your tan...right???
I never blasted white or jewish women your very mistaken~ dear

Ok, I'll "settle down", since it is pointless debating with you!
If you do not even understand the vast difference between "exposed TO" and "exposed AS", I give up! Furthermore, I have have no regard for someone, such as yourself, who starts a misogynous thread, removes it and thereafter denies that it existed. This demonstrates not only deviousness and dishonesty, but also stupidity!


ms apatheid

you simply do not get it. I did not remove the thread. It remains in contact. If you want to reply just reply don't worry about the thread. be a simple woman not a complicated one.



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