Love white men Interracial Relationship

  • View author's info Author posted on Dec 07, 2005 10:09


    Most of my life I have dated white men. My friends call me a traitor sometimes and say I should stick to my own kind. But I feel as long as I'm happy I don't care what my friends have to say about my dating preference. I get annoyed but in the end I stay true to myself.

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  • View author's info posted on Jan 14, 2016 09:52


    I love black women. They seem to be more passionate, sensual, exotic and not to mention the attitude. Although the ebony women I dated didn't care much about race so long as they were treated with love and respect, there was always that one friend or co-worker who showed resentment.  But I say you can't live your life pleasing others.

  • View author's info posted on Jul 10, 2014 14:37


    I think you just like what you like.  I have a girlfriend that feels the same way that your friends feel.  At the end of the day, you are the one that is going to be lying down with this person, sharing your life with this person if it goes that far.  I think everyone should be with whomever they want to be with.  I married a black man for 21 years.  I'm not knocking black men but I want something different.  I'm at a point in my life where I want to explore other nationalities.  I've also dated a white man and enjoyed the experience and would like to continue to date white men.

  • View author's info posted on Apr 13, 2014 13:13


    Color has nothing to do with matters of the heart. I'm just attracted to whitemen period! Guess it just like the saying once you go white, you never black. 

  • View author's info posted on Feb 25, 2014 10:15


    Quoting Lazz131:

    Who cares,,,seems like americans still get a bit hung up on color, if it feels right do it and if it felt good do it again, Love has no color!


    I agree :)

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  • View author's info posted on Oct 20, 2013 16:57


    I really love what this guy wrote. Love the person because of who they are, not because of their race. Well said!

  • View author's info posted on Mar 17, 2011 06:02


    I've had many white men that liked me, but I was never on the market( lol).Thought the word "market" was funny ;0
    But anyways, I don't have a prefrence, although I've never been romatucally involved with a white man I do find some attractive. I've dated, black and latin men... But now that I am on the "Market" I am willing to take my time and find the right man reguardless of race.... Let the adventures begine!

    Smooches :0

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  • View author's info posted on Mar 12, 2011 08:57


    Sweetheart...never mind what anybody says...I love white men too although i havent dated one yet...but i know i will and then invite all them haters to my wedding....colour is nothing when it comes to love...SIMPLE!
  • View author's info posted on Mar 12, 2011 08:16


    I truly agree that white men are much more affectionate, sensual lovers and honest beings.  The attitude of a person comes from their upbringing a lot of times. 

    I wish you luck in your journey of finding true love. I think every woman of substance should find it..

  • View author's info posted on Jul 30, 2010 20:59


    @brownskin91

    hi.  i sense your anger/frustration which could be a turn-off to both black AND white men. nobody wants an angry black woman... it's unfair and unfounded to say that black men prefer blondes with blue eyes. i assure you that is very far from true. i attract both races equally, and i'm obviously far from having blonde hair and blue eyes.  perhaps you feel the need to convince yourself of that so that you don't have to address the real/true reason why you don't attract the black men you want and deserve.  perhaps you are just simply not their type, but that doesn't mean their type is blonde/blue eyes. or, perhaps you expect the worse, and in turn, you subconsciously give off those negative signals to GOOD black men.  

     

    with that said, why would they pursue you if you approach the situation with preconceived notions. hmm, i'm sure you've heard of self-fulfilling prophecy... it's not always exclusively about physical attraction.  with all do respect, it sounds like your issues are from within, and a white man is not the answer.  i say date who makes you happy, but happiness starts from within.  all the best to you!

  • View author's info posted on Jul 21, 2010 20:05


    Don't listen to what these other people have to say I don't give black men the time of day anymore and I don't care what any one thinks about it because I have been treated so bad by them in the past that now I don't look their way. I prefer white men and that's just me. Most black guys now in days think that blonde hair and blue eyes is what's really beautiful so I don't see y they would care who we date...so date who you want, I do.

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  • View author's info posted on Jun 06, 2010 18:39


    Love is blind! You cannot say who you will fall in love with, unless you mistake love for lust. Don't choose a race, open your mind and heart and let him in, regardless of color of skin.
  • View author's info posted on May 30, 2010 10:18


    Quoting honeydipdream69:

    Most of my life I have dated white men. My friends call me a traitor sometimes and say I should stick to my own kind. But I feel as long as I'm happy I don't care what my friends have to say about my dating preference. I get annoyed but in the end I stay true to myself.



    I like men of all races, and some of my friends have a problem with that, so in that instance I understand where you're coming from...On the other hand, it seems as though you just like to date white guys because of their color, and that's not cool...The way a man treats you is what counts, not the color of their skin.

  • View author's info posted on Mar 24, 2010 01:56


    I will give you a trophy for dating white men all your life, is it really that serious, years ago we were fighting to fit in(rights) and know we have abandon our own race. I dont mean dating outside of your race is bad because I do it, but I would never brag about dating a particular race(oppisite) but rather brag about loving my white wife. So grow up or just watch what you say.
  • View author's info posted on Feb 08, 2010 17:31


    One day, when man (and women) discover true LOVE, we would have for the second time discover Fire......Pierre Tiellard Du Chardin....

    What if reincarnation is real and we all return like the thing we most love to hate...lol

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  • View author's info posted on Feb 06, 2010 20:23


    I'm a 41 year old black woman, I've never dated a white man, but would love to date a white man one day. I would love to share life with a white man....
  • View author's info posted on Feb 01, 2010 14:31


    I don't see a problem dating outside one's race. I think if an African-American woman prefers to date a white man than that is her choice and vice versa. People are going to talk about you no matter what you do, you can't please everyone. I personally prefer to date white men but am not close minded to dating my own race. Color is nothing but a color....it all depends on how "he" treats you. 

    So for all black women that do prefer to date white men don't worry about what other people say. It's not important. To each his own!   

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  • View author's info posted on Nov 04, 2009 12:58


    Quoting honeydipdream69:

    Most of my life I have dated white men. My friends call me a traitor sometimes and say I should stick to my own kind. But I feel as long as I'm happy I don't care what my friends have to say about my dating preference. I get annoyed but in the end I stay true to myself.



    Hey, as long as white guys are cool with playing in the dark, I don't mind playing in the snow...and I've dated many a snowman! LOL

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  • View author's info posted on Oct 25, 2009 15:34


    I've dated a white guy before in high school, but it was nothing serious. I wouldn't mind trying to have a serious one with a white guy...especially if his name is Ben Roethlisberger...I effin LOVE him! ok, back to the topic...interracial is beautiful
  • View author's info posted on Sep 22, 2009 02:54


    I like asia, black, mexican. But I have to be carefuly with asia cuz of their parent are very picky about the color. I feel comfortable with mexican and black. I know black woman easy to accept who I am than mexican and asia. I did dating 3 black lady long time ago.
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