Most of my life I have dated white men. My friends call me a traitor sometimes and say I should stick to my own kind. But I feel as long as I'm happy I don't care what my friends have to say about my dating preference. I get annoyed but in the end I stay true to myself.
I am not going to put down black men, I just don't want to date them. I am sure there are some good ones out there. I just find it sexy to date out of my race!
I've had many white men that liked me, but I was never on the market( lol).Thought the word "market" was funny ;0
But anyways, I don't have a prefrence, although I've never been romatucally involved with a white man I do find some attractive. I've dated, black and latin men... But now that I am on the "Market" I am willing to take my time and find the right man reguardless of race.... Let the adventures begine!
Sweetheart...never mind what anybody says...I love white men too although i havent dated one yet...but i know i will and then invite all them haters to my wedding....colour is nothing when it comes to love...SIMPLE!
I truly agree that white men are much more affectionate, sensual lovers and honest beings. The attitude of a person comes from their upbringing a lot of times.
I wish you luck in your journey of finding true love. I think every woman of substance should find it..
Most of my life I have dated white men. My friends call me a traitor sometimes and say I should stick to my own kind. But I feel as long as I'm happy I don't care what my friends have to say about my dating preference. I get annoyed but in the end I stay true to myself.
Hey, as long as white guys are cool with playing in the dark, I don't mind playing in the snow...and I've dated many a snowman! LOL
So funny, this is so funny I d*** near fell outta my chair.
hi. i sense your anger/frustration which could be a turn-off to both black AND white men. nobody wants an angry black woman... it's unfair and unfounded to say that black men prefer blondes with blue eyes. i assure you that is very far from true. i attract both races equally, and i'm obviously far from having blonde hair and blue eyes. perhaps you feel the need to convince yourself of that so that you don't have to address the real/true reason why you don't attract the black men you want and deserve. perhaps you are just simply not their type, but that doesn't mean their type is blonde/blue eyes. or, perhaps you expect the worse, and in turn, you subconsciously give off those negative signals to GOOD black men.
with that said, why would they pursue you if you approach the situation with preconceived notions. hmm, i'm sure you've heard of self-fulfilling prophecy... it's not always exclusively about physical attraction. with all do respect, it sounds like your issues are from within, and a white man is not the answer. i say date who makes you happy, but happiness starts from within. all the best to you!
Don't listen to what these other people have to say I don't give black men the time of day anymore and I don't care what any one thinks about it because I have been treated so bad by them in the past that now I don't look their way. I prefer white men and that's just me. Most black guys now in days think that blonde hair and blue eyes is what's really beautiful so I don't see y they would care who we date...so date who you want, I do.
Love is blind! You cannot say who you will fall in love with, unless you mistake love for lust. Don't choose a race, open your mind and heart and let him in, regardless of color of skin.
Most of my life I have dated white men. My friends call me a traitor sometimes and say I should stick to my own kind. But I feel as long as I'm happy I don't care what my friends have to say about my dating preference. I get annoyed but in the end I stay true to myself.
I like men of all races, and some of my friends have a problem with that, so in that instance I understand where you're coming from...On the other hand, it seems as though you just like to date white guys because of their color, and that's not cool...The way a man treats you is what counts, not the color of their skin.
I will give you a trophy for dating white men all your life, is it really that serious, years ago we were fighting to fit in(rights) and know we have abandon our own race. I dont mean dating outside of your race is bad because I do it, but I would never brag about dating a particular race(oppisite) but rather brag about loving my white wife. So grow up or just watch what you say.
I'm a 41 year old black woman, I've never dated a white man, but would love to date a white man one day. I would love to share life with a white man....
I don't see a problem dating outside one's race. I think if an African-American woman prefers to date a white man than that is her choice and vice versa. People are going to talk about you no matter what you do, you can't please everyone. I personally prefer to date white men but am not close minded to dating my own race. Color is nothing but a color....it all depends on how "he" treats you.
So for all black women that do prefer to date white men don't worry about what other people say. It's not important. To each his own!
I was teach in Europa that USA doesn't have anymore skin color issues. I was believer...How ironic!!!...We elected New Black President... How ironic!!! We are the people...we all are the people...we all are only the people:(:(. Love and skin color ???? We live in 2009...ancient time have to be... really only history.
Most of my life I have dated white men. My friends call me a traitor sometimes and say I should stick to my own kind. But I feel as long as I'm happy I don't care what my friends have to say about my dating preference. I get annoyed but in the end I stay true to myself.
Hey, as long as white guys are cool with playing in the dark, I don't mind playing in the snow...and I've dated many a snowman! LOL
I've dated a white guy before in high school, but it was nothing serious. I wouldn't mind trying to have a serious one with a white guy...especially if his name is Ben Roethlisberger...I effin LOVE him! ok, back to the topic...interracial is beautiful
I like asia, black, mexican. But I have to be carefuly with asia cuz of their parent are very picky about the color. I feel comfortable with mexican and black. I know black woman easy to accept who I am than mexican and asia. I did dating 3 black lady long time ago.
I have had the best relationships when involved w/a white man, but dont limit myself to who I can date. I try to stay open minded but must admit that white men really appreciate a beautiful black woman especially if she is natural and not trying to mimic another race. Black men too me have know standards and will be w/a woman 8 to 80 blind crippled, and crazy if she will take care of him and give great head. White men want a woman that they can take anywhere @ anytime and she will be able to mesh.