I ended a relationship because it was driving me crazy!!The first time,i went to visit him in NC for one week,he took me out 3 times.Didn't realy care... But when i got back to London,he started calling so much!!!he will call me at 2am and then 3 or 4am!!And will call up to 5 time a day at my work!! He will send me 3 e.mails everyday. I went to visit him again for 2 weeks,boy!!oh!!!boy!!!the 2 weeks felt like a year!!!He kept me in the house!! Took me out twice!!he was on my face the all time!!!When i got back to London,i wanted to kiss the ground!! He kept calling every hours!! I m a very independent woman,he couldn't take it.And wanted to get married straight away!! Tell me if you had an experience about obsession What do you think,was he in love or obsessed?
I think you already know the answer, but to validate it, soundslike obsession sprinkled with possessiveness. Run, change your name and lose him!