I do agree with you.I m a divorced woman with kids.Is one thing that will make me run from a man,if he try to be a father to my kids!!!They are not is,will never be!!My kids have a father and only one!!!He can be a friend to them and don't like it if he tries to hard!!
In my opinion....a mother that had her child as a top priority in her life wouldn't be broadcasting their child's picture on the internet! And do you know if you want your child to be introduced to yet ANOTHER guy that may not be around long? It is unbelievable when I learn about moms letting the guy meet their child right off the bat!! Maybe if these women were financially independent and self assured, they wouldn't be concerned with conducting interviews for the step-dad position.