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Posted on Wed, Apr 05, 2006 07:54

Angyson write:
If you ladies wonder why we are reluctant to meet you, we don't really know what we want. We do know however what we do not want--our ex-wives,other bad relationships,other men's children.
So we are here to see what is available,cautiously.

at our age, almost everyone has been burnt,you move on babe, and don't blame new love on past mistakes...



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Posted on Sat, Aug 16, 2008 15:51

Correct the new love and or interest in your life is not to blame what a past person or marriage has done to you! We all live and learn but, to carry the burnt feeling and walk on egg shells will only make you just miss out on the women of your dreams! Life is too short not to live and be happy! Enjoy each new step and never look back at the past!



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Posted on Sun, May 07, 2006 23:49

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Amen to Katygrl - if we're looking for our perfect match, we'll find him or her by finding the person we're perfect for.


So, handsome Blue, are you a sweeper-offer? Are you a master of the art of flattery? What's your special woman-luring skills?

  


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Posted on Sun, May 07, 2006 19:58

Amen to Katygrl - if we're looking for our perfect match, we'll find him or her by finding the person we're perfect for.



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Posted on Wed, Apr 19, 2006 01:17

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Not with you or maybe 99% of women but 1% of 3 Billion is still 30 Million and that is enough for several lifetimes ...

It's not your finger that 3 billion of THOSE kinds of women are interested in seeing you raise. lol

But, it's a good thing you're rich, Benee. A dozen roses (if you're romantic)or a couple of $10 bills tucked in a G-string (if you're not) still make "getting some" (in the most fundamental understanding of that expression) drain your wallet!



I tip a heck of a lot more than couple of $10 bills (wink, wink)!

And as the song goes "I'm in love with a tipper.."


LOL Then I'm sure you're quite popular! lol

What I think is important to say is ... if we want to find a true love ... we can't make our search ALL ABOUT US. It HAS to be undertaken as a selfless search for someone to love rather than a selfish search for someone to be perfect and do everything for US.

I have never been attracted to a man who's agenda was, "What have you got to offer ME?" But I've lost my heart many times in my life to men who have approached ME with a plan to show me what he wants to do for ... me.

That's not something a "bad boy" would do. Only a nice guy would be so generous and romantic as to attempt to sweep me off my feet. What woman can resist a man showing her that he thinks she is beautiful and desirable and not just an orriface waiting to be plugged.

One approach is what we dream of, while the other is what we've been rejecting all our reproductive years.

Pampering, spoiling, foreplay and romance have appealed to women for centuries. Why not stick with a sure thing?



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Posted on Tue, Apr 18, 2006 20:21

katiegrl write:
Benefactor123 write:
Not with you or maybe 99% of women but 1% of 3 Billion is still 30 Million and that is enough for several lifetimes ...

It's not your finger that 3 billion of THOSE kinds of women are interested in seeing you raise. lol

But, it's a good thing you're rich, Benee. A dozen roses (if you're romantic)or a couple of $10 bills tucked in a G-string (if you're not) still make "getting some" (in the most fundamental understanding of that expression) drain your wallet!



I tip a heck of a lot more than couple of $10 bills (wink, wink)!

And as the song goes "I'm in love with a tipper.."



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Posted on Mon, Apr 17, 2006 02:26

Benefactor123 write:
So let me get this straight - you claim beyond any doubt that you know how much I am going to get without following a courtship ritual?

And how would you know about that? You know exactly the way every woman is because you are one?

You can only speak about yourself and not anyone else. For some women a courtship ritual is the sight of a guys Ferrari and they are ready to "get it on".

I am not saying that this is right (or that it is wrong for that matter), I am just saying that this is the way it is and I know it as a certainty and you may or may not know it too.

So, sorry, but if I want to "get some" in the most fundamental understanding of that expression, I can without as much as lifting a finger. Not with you or maybe 99% of women but 1% of 3 Billion is still 30 Million and that is enough for several lifetimes ...

It's not your finger that 3 billion of THOSE kinds of women are interested in seeing you raise. lol

But, it's a good thing you're rich, Benee. A dozen roses (if you're romantic)or a couple of $10 bills tucked in a G-string (if you're not) still make "getting some" (in the most fundamental understanding of that expression) drain your wallet!

LOL

PS I NEVER claim beyond any doubt.



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Posted on Mon, Apr 17, 2006 02:21

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katiegrl write:
And yet, now I know you will come back with some romaticised notion of a peacock strutting around or some almost extinct species of bird that does have an elaborate courtship ritual.
Have you wondered why that species is almost extinct?


Well, I know you'd like to THINK you know what I'm going to say next Benee - but you'd be wrong!
My response is:
Sorry I ruffled your feathers, but animal behavior and NG episodes aside, the important point here is ... you aren't going to "get any" if you DON'T strut around and follow a courtship ritual ... and you sho'nuff AIN'T gonna live long if you even TRY to just "get on!!!!"


So let me get this straight - you claim beyond any doubt that you know how much I am going to get without following a courtship ritual?

And how would you know about that? You know exactly the way every woman is because you are one?

Okay, Benee. You've got me there.

I cannot say, within a shadow of a doubt, that all the skanks, crack hoes, porn stars, strippers, lap-dancers, hookers and trailer-trash barflies in the world would protest if you just approached them and tried to "get on" one. I suppose things are looking up for you then!

Good luck with that.



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Posted on Sun, Apr 16, 2006 15:57

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You must be kidding right? Have you watched National Geographic movies ever? Have you seen the monkeys and the elephants?

The "romatic" output of a rooster constitutes of one, being in close proximity to a hen and two, chasing all the other roosters away. Beyond that, there is no courtship, he just gets on ...

And yet, now I know you will come back with some romaticised notion of a peacock strutting around or some almost extinct species of bird that does have an elaborate courtship ritual.

Have you wondered why that species is almost extinct?


Well, I know you'd like to THINK you know what I'm going to say next Benee - but you'd be wrong!

My response is:
Sorry I ruffled your feathers, but animal behavior and NG episodes aside, the important point here is ... you aren't going to "get any" if you DON'T strut around and follow a courtship ritual ... and you sho'nuff AIN'T gonna live long if you even TRY to just "get on!!!!"


So let me get this straight - you claim beyond any doubt that you know how much I am going to get without following a courtship ritual?

And how would you know about that? You know exactly the way every woman is because you are one?

You can only speak about yourself and not anyone else. For some women a courtship ritual is the sight of a guys Ferrari and they are ready to "get it on".

I am not saying that this is right (or that it is wrong for that matter), I am just saying that this is the way it is and I know it as a certainty and you may or may not know it too.

So, sorry, but if I want to "get some" in the most fundamental understanding of that expression, I can without as much as lifting a finger. Not with you or maybe 99% of women but 1% of 3 Billion is still 30 Million and that is enough for several lifetimes ...



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Posted on Sun, Apr 16, 2006 15:49

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Benefactor123 write:
You must be kidding right? Have you watched National Geographic movies ever? Have you seen the monkeys and the elephants?

The "romatic" output of a rooster constitutes of one, being in close proximity to a hen and two, chasing all the other roosters away. Beyond that, there is no courtship, he just gets on ...

And yet, now I know you will come back with some romaticised notion of a peacock strutting around or some almost extinct species of bird that does have an elaborate courtship ritual.

Have you wondered why that species is almost extinct?

I don't know of any animals other than humans who act romantically towards each other. There are certain species of animals whose males compete for females by sparring or vocally challenging each other, or gathering in groups to dance or display physical characteristics such as plumage. The dominant male wins, or the female chooses the one she likes best, but that's where it ends. Then they mate, no romance involved, plain and simple. Sometimes doing the deed without all of the vying for attention or emotional aura beforehand is better, isn't it?


Amen.



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Posted on Thu, Apr 13, 2006 23:10

Benefactor123 write:
You must be kidding right? Have you watched National Geographic movies ever? Have you seen the monkeys and the elephants?

The "romatic" output of a rooster constitutes of one, being in close proximity to a hen and two, chasing all the other roosters away. Beyond that, there is no courtship, he just gets on ...

And yet, now I know you will come back with some romaticised notion of a peacock strutting around or some almost extinct species of bird that does have an elaborate courtship ritual.

Have you wondered why that species is almost extinct?


Well, I know you'd like to THINK you know what I'm going to say next Benee - but you'd be wrong!

My response is:
Sorry I ruffled your feathers, but animal behavior and NG episodes aside, the important point here is ... you aren't going to "get any" if you DON'T strut around and follow a courtship ritual ... and you sho'nuff AIN'T gonna live long if you even TRY to just "get on!!!!"

cockadoodle-DON'T!
lol



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Posted on Thu, Apr 13, 2006 23:08

sharp1 write:
Angyson write:
We're getting off topic on orgasms again.

Hey Angy...can you read? Cause the topic of this thread reads as:
"MEN > Men who have been burnt"

They have 1-900 numbers for what you are looking for! lol


Touche, SharpBabe!!!!



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Posted on Thu, Apr 13, 2006 12:27

katiegrl write:
robtest write:
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Angyson write:
What does all this stuff about orgasms have to do with the topic at hand? Move on ladies.

Are we feeling a bit uncomfortable? :)
That's the turn your topic took. Would you rather we discuss the male orgasm?



Actually Angy made a simple statement, so the topic was fairly open to wander. Perhaps the female orgasm is a contributing factor to why we "men" have been burned??? Can't you guys speed it up? I mean it only takes us guys 3 minutes. Must men spend their whole life waiting on women to get ready??? ROFL... :o)


I know you're joking Rob, but if you weren't, I'd have to say..... what part of "romance" are you guys not getting?????"


That's not to say we don't also enjoy each other's needs, but isn't it a no-brainer? If men want sex from us, they have to be romantic!! If they are romantic, then we find them sexy, then we give the sex! What's so difficult about that??? Birds and animals understand it! Are men not as intelligent as a ruffed grouse? lol



You must be kidding right? Have you watched National Geographic movies ever? Have you seen the monkeys and the elephants?

The "romatic" output of a rooster constitutes of one, being in close proximity to a hen and two, chasing all the other roosters away. Beyond that, there is no courtship, he just gets on ...

And yet, now I know you will come back with some romaticised notion of a peacock strutting around or some almost extinct species of bird that does have an elaborate courtship ritual.

Have you wondered why that species is almost extinct?



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Posted on Thu, Apr 13, 2006 10:18

Angyson write:
I've moved on already.

Really? Could have fooled me, cause you're still here, and still posting! lol



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Posted on Thu, Apr 13, 2006 10:16

Angyson write:
I like intelligent dogs and women.

If they were that intelligent they'd see you coming a mile away and would be running the other direction! lol



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Posted on Thu, Apr 13, 2006 10:13

Angyson write:
We're getting off topic on orgasms again.

Hey Angy...can you read? Cause the topic of this thread reads as:
"MEN > Men who have been burnt"

They have 1-900 numbers for what you are looking for! lol



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Posted on Wed, Apr 12, 2006 20:52

Angyson write:
If a woman is not good in bed, I kick her out of bed.


Now THIS is disappointing. I thought he was capable of behaving seriously. Obviously, he's not.

DON'T FORGET YOUR LOL's AND HAPPY EMOTICONS, SONNY! THAT IS ... IF YOU'RE TRYING TO BE FUNNY.



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Posted on Wed, Apr 12, 2006 15:06

katiegrl write:
Angyson write:
If you ladies wonder why we are reluctant to meet you, we don't really know what we want. We do know however what we do not want--our ex-wives,other bad relationships,other men's children.
So we are here to see what is available,cautiously.


Angy ... just because we have children doesn't mean we want YOU to be their father. Many women find a babysitter for their bairns (that's "babies" in Gaelic) so they can pursue a relationship, and don't present the children unless they are certain they can trust you won't molest them or sell them to an adoption agency when their back is turned.

You disrespect MANY women by citing "children" as an undesirable trait to have.

Katie, I don't know whther or not you aware that there are Men who get disqualified for the same reason. Women often assume that if a man has a child that she'll have to deal with "Baby Mama Drama" I personally have experienced it and hate to hear that term, but hey to each his/her own.
I agree with sharp wholeheatedly, besides, kids are sensitive and can't be fooled by imposters anyhow.



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Posted on Wed, Apr 12, 2006 14:35

katiegrl write:
robtest write:
whisperinocean write:
Angyson write:
What does all this stuff about orgasms have to do with the topic at hand? Move on ladies.

Are we feeling a bit uncomfortable? :)
That's the turn your topic took. Would you rather we discuss the male orgasm?



Actually Angy made a simple statement, so the topic was fairly open to wander. Perhaps the female orgasm is a contributing factor to why we "men" have been burned??? Can't you guys speed it up? I mean it only takes us guys 3 minutes. Must men spend their whole life waiting on women to get ready??? ROFL... :o)


I know you're joking Rob, but if you weren't, I'd have to say..... what part of "romance" are you guys not getting?????"

We've already established, on this Forum, that men need sex and women need romance. Men are dominated by their member and often, women are influenced by their favourite romance novels and chick flicks. lol

That's not to say we don't also enjoy each other's needs, but isn't it a no-brainer? If men want sex from us, they have to be romantic!! If they are romantic, then we find them sexy, then we give the sex! What's so difficult about that??? Birds and animals understand it! Are men not as intelligent as a ruffed grouse? lol

When men take us out for dinner, or buy us flowers or hold our hand or just start nibbling on our necks with their arms around our waists... it's all romantic foreplay to us! We find that extremely sexy! It turns us on! Foreplay is NOT twiddling this, flicking that and swirling all over the other thing! It's being romantic while making love to us! Don't you get that???

And what's with the lecture on frigidity and self-exploration? We aren't a bunch of 40 year old practically-virgins who don't know how to feel pleasure and need men to tell us to get our mojos working so we're good to go for them!!! How condescending and irresponsible is that?

If women are faking it, don't be naive! It's because you suck in bed (at the moment) and we're afraid to hurt your feelings! Or we pity you for the twenty minutes you've dedicated to poking and probing us until we're physically irritated so we mercifully call an end to the torture by performing the Meg Ryan orgasm howl. That's not a bad thing! That's women cutting men some slack! That's not frigidity, that's us just not being into your "technique" tonight!

It's because some men's interpretation of foreplay is squeezing a boob or smacking a rump. That's NOT romantic! lol

Women don't need a freaking toy to feel pleasure! Most women knew from age four how to make themselves feel good! But while men think it's funny being referred to as a penis with a man attached .... women are NOT just body parts with the girl stuck on! We aren't a bunch of warm, moist orrifices! We are human beings who want to know we are loved and appreciated totally, not just vaginally.

If men can't understand that by now, after all these excellent forum debates, well ...... there's always room-temperature watermelons and warm apple pies. lol

Okay katie, so are you saying that if women want sex from a man, then they have to be romantic also? sure romance is great, but great sex is greater. thats only my opinion. i like romance, but its not an everyday neccessity...sex is.



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Posted on Wed, Apr 12, 2006 11:00

katiegrl write:
Angyson write:
If you ladies wonder why we are reluctant to meet you, we don't really know what we want. We do know however what we do not want--our ex-wives,other bad relationships,other men's children.
So we are here to see what is available,cautiously.


Angy ... just because we have children doesn't mean we want YOU to be their father. Many women find a babysitter for their bairns (that's "babies" in Gaelic) so they can pursue a relationship, and don't present the children unless they are certain they can trust you won't molest them or sell them to an adoption agency when their back is turned.

You disrespect MANY women by citing "children" as an undesirable trait to have.


I disagree katie...I think Angy does women a favor by disclosing that information...they can nix him right away. Think about it katie...if a man really liked children, he wouldn't care if he met a woman with children. My children are grown, but I've already told my kids I expect grandchildren! So it is VERY IMPORTANT to me that anyone I meet MUST LOVE children and be able to connect and get along with children of all ages, just like me!
I wouldn't want someone who feels as Angy does in my life. He would be a misfit.