Playmate, there seems to be a lot of sharks here in a frenzy,..prejudgemental and not understanding that traditions and slang languages used in different geographic localities. You will see this in the forums. If you get any direct messages, just block them out....
Don't worry about what other say...I will give you a quote from the book of Mel.
Don't take anything personally
Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.