still wondering how men tell a string of lies about their lives,do they know that really drives women away?any suggestions or advice accepted or you can email me directly at (c.jantschgi@ymail.com)

First of all, assume everything that they say is not true until you find out for yourself.
Men know most women will fall for anything and they know how to get us with their nice cars and money. Most of them are in debt up to their behind. Most are married or in a relationship, most have some type of personality issue. I know this sounds strange, but in this day and time, you need to do a criminal background check and credit check on anyone you date.

That may be the case, but check them out anyway. You will feel better in the long run.

So true!!

I guess some men (and some women too to be fair) think you don't know what you need. So they try to attract you with what you are looking for and then hope to keep you with whatever they think you need. Such a waste of time!

Men who lie are liars.  It is that simple.  But not all men lie.  Not all men are players.  Not all men are trying to sell themselves.  This is not meant to be personal, but the common denominator of "men who lie" is YOU.  You may want to ask yourself how is it you are attracting these type of men.  I promise you there are women on this site who have positive experiences with men who are upstanding and good men.  Food for thought.