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R there any white men here who are interested in dating me?
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Posted on Wed, Jul 21, 2010 20:26

I'm 18 and black, smart and I consider myself attractive but I'm never approached by any white men and that's who I'm particularly interested in dating so my question is..."Are there any white males here interested in dating me"?



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Posted on Sat, Jan 14, 2012 20:50

I think some black women feel a complex about dating black men because they don't have any confidence about their own self worthiness. History have taught them that they can do better outside of their race and they can be more successful if they dated outside of their own race.
In the time of slavery, the house master have taught the black women that they can achieve more in society if they address and pampher him more (the house master).
Hence: "The Willy Lynch Law." Slavery had devided the race in a way to allow the families of blacks to not find the confidence to sustain any kind of relationship among each other. We were often seperated, devided and often killed to satisfy our masters.
The "Masters" often seduced their black slave women to the degree where their white women wanted to seduce the black men, out of jealousy. The Slave masters disrepected the Black men to the degree where our black women felt that we could not protect them physically, financialy or mentally. Todays economy is a factor. Money speaks to them(women) today. They have no faith in their own kind or their own self. So they look for the white man to assist in their needs. Color doesn't make a difference. But don't deny us, for money reason. There are alot of us "good ones" out here.
I love my black women. In my past, I heard a black woman say she did not want a man darker than her, because she did not want a child to be dark. Black, White, Latino and etc... is beautiful. But, we seem to not recognize that.
I'm rich, but I don't think many of my sisters, understand or acknowledge what I am saying. GREEN, is their color, at least to some. When we find each other in trouble, at times that are bad, we can't stick by each other. I am a strong black man, when I'm down will you help? Will you be there? In my experience, I say, no. Black women, would rather run, at least those I'd became to know.
I rather have a white woman, because my sisters do not appreciate their "Black." The Darkman.



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Posted on Thu, Jul 21, 2011 05:22

White men are more shy about hitting on you than black guys are. You might need to approach them. If they do it.. It's going to be subtle



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Posted on Sat, Apr 30, 2011 18:57

Quoting bluelulu:

girl you are only 18. concentrate on your studies instead of boys. you will find it far more rewarding.



Amen! Best advice to give an 18 year old.



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Posted on Thu, Apr 21, 2011 09:13

girl you are only 18. concentrate on your studies instead of boys. you will find it far more rewarding.



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Posted on Fri, Dec 24, 2010 17:57

If you find someone you are interested in, send them an email. They might respond. Don't wait for someone to find you.



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