Hey everyone....I'm an attractive (check the pic), down to earth, and fun-loving young woman (25) who can't seem to find the guy I want. I used to always chop it up as "I'm just too Picky" but that one's getting old. I meet these successful and attractive men and it seems to never work out (and of course the guys that I'm not really into adore me) and a lot of these men have gone through really bad relationships (in which they claim it was the other person's fault of course). These men range from ages 27-38 and they have these great careers, they are trust fund babies, nice houses, great cars and it seems like they have always experienced a previous woman who have either used them for what they have, cheated on them, etc. and they were in love with these silly women, whom they moved into their gorgeous homes, have taken care of them and in return these women screwed them over. The women they were previously with have always had these tragic stories (i.e. they were being kicked out their apartments, they were in bad relationships, etc.)....on the other hand, I'm a graduate student and have never depended on a man to take care of me, but yet I never get the invitation to stay in their houses and all the help I need financially. Not saying that I'm totally looking for that, but why not give to someone who will appreciate it and give in return...Why not give to someone who likes/loves YOU for YOU. I guess my question here is not that I can't attract them but I just can't hold on to them. I need to be someone's protege....LOL....b/c I obviously have lots to learn about dating and successful men. So any men or women who have any advice.....PLEASE ASSIST! I would prefer it be someone who is older and can understand my situation, not a bunch of young women or women my age because personally they may be as clueless as me...LOL.
Thanks for the advice. I really appreciate and agree with it. I remember when there was a time when I wouldn't even worry about finding something "serious" and now it seems like my life is consumed with finding "The One".....I've got to get a grip....LOL
If your truly looking for love..then it sounds like your looking in the wrong place. Men without money are just as loving dear and at that age 27-38 and if they are goal oriented the money will come, sounds like your looking for the quick fix as you stated the "trust fund men", they dont seem to be working for you. Your educated try hanging out at Barnes and Noble.