dude the only way for you to recover is to have no contact at all. She is in you and will torment you for as long as you let her. You will not be able to love another until you allow yourself to heal from her destuction. Remember no contact!
I have this on again off again girlfriend that I believe is BPD...certainly PD of some type. Anyway, she constantly barges into ones life and ping pongs back and forth with her ex. Joke is - he's not her ex anymore...for the 50th time. I've gotten to the stage of numbness to this. Problem is, I meet someone interesting or nice, and I end up losing that girlfriend for good (my choice - I don't want to be with two women at once which is not fair) for a week or two of BPD heaven (which then turns into BPD hell). Everyone thinks she is a joke now, and some people have now said to me that they will no longer associate with me if I take her back. I feel like I'm addicted to this destructive behaviour...for a short period of a fairy tale life, followed by the BPD hammer - false accusations of conspiracy and cheating, lieing/deceit, to achieve and manipulate towards a goal of chaos and repetitive self destruction...followed by my angry uncharacteristic outbursts. I find myself, yet again, in a position of being with an amazing woman that everyone around me really, really likes...but without enough time to really get captured by her, I fear that my mentally ill GF will simply jump into the fray, for the 50th time, and take over. Moreover, my new GF keeps her boat on my docks, and the next episode could make for an interesting new PD drama...
DUDE are you kidding me? BPD is a serious illness that needs compassion and attention. Women with this dis-order need help and meds to fly right. Bringing on the BPD offer is a sick mockery of a serious illness. I had the experience of being with one for a year. Yes the sex is great when its available but the cost is huge to the bpd. They always feel like they will be dumped, have a bottomless pit of need and you can never really make them happy. What do you desire about that? Sex is so mental and you want to take advantage of a mentaly challenged girl. Shame on you dude.
The biggest personality disorder.....is Envy.....
The in ability to look at oneself and right what is wrong.
People having to totally ignore the fact that....they need help......but think that everyone else is wrong......and they are right!.
got your email requesting a picture- I took you for an adventurous one- I guess there are always safety measures-I think I am way to normal for you-too old, but younger than most 38 out there. I thought I would get bonus points for being able to drive a 4 wheeler and snowmobile (bobcat, tractor and a few other things also)
bobsthename write: Because there ain't no finer women out there than BPD women. How exciting they are to be with! I guess I'm addicted...
You cannot be serious?
Are you saying this because you also may exhibit the same personalty traits?...Kidding
Bob you should not take light of such a condition trust me. My heart goes to people that have to deal with loved ones with such a condition...There is no fun to gain living or partaking in that lifestyle.