Is it a deal breaker that I am a single mother? Long Distance Relationship

  • View author's info Author posted on May 16, 2011 17:15


    So many interest and winks. But nothing much after.
    Actually I believe it's more the location.

    Anyway. When my months up, I am off. Been great fun though
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  • View author's info posted on Jul 17, 2011 23:05


    I'm a single mom and I think, more then a deal breaker the kids are a filter for thos goofy guy....
  • View author's info Recommended posted on Jul 12, 2011 22:05


    I like the idea of dating a mother.  I have two young boys and they would definitely understand the commitment issues, time, etc. involved.  Moms also are very nurturing and more other-centered.  There are guys out there who don't mind if you are a mom.

  • View author's info posted on Jun 22, 2011 11:49


    Quoting Conyersguy:

    Depends on where the guy is. But for a guy in the US, China is quite a distance to overcome. Not to say it can't be done; but it's a lot tougher.

    Yes, a young child is a deal breaker for some. I know, because I have a couple, too. But as long as you and any prospective suitors are honest about it, so what? You don't need to waste your time on someone who doesn't want kids. So, wish them well and look for one who will welcome your child, too. There are lots of men who would open their heart for that.

    Good luck.

    -CG-



    I agree. I have two kids myself, and at this point I would not spend any time with someone that would welcome them into his life, no matter how much chemistry there is between us.
  • View author's info posted on May 26, 2011 06:53


    You are right. Pretty as you are, If you lived in the US, you would have no problem.

    regards, John

  • View author's info posted on May 22, 2011 08:13


    Quoting bluelulu:

    yeah of course. I would never let anyone near my son if he hasn't shwn that he wants to be part of his life. he's my baby !!!

     

    so its the damn location then. As I suspected. But what can I do, my career and reputation within my industry is here. I can travel but for me to relocate, it'll need to take some kind of millionaire.

     

    but hey, china's the THE emerging market, and everybody wants a piece of that pie. come before it's too late



    blue,
    I understand the China market I deal with many in my business. The problem for me personally and I'm sure alot of men like myself, is the same issue you have. Most of us can or won't relocate for the same reasons.
  • View author's info posted on May 18, 2011 08:35


    yeah of course. I would never let anyone near my son if he hasn't shwn that he wants to be part of his life. he's my baby !!!

     

    so its the damn location then. As I suspected. But what can I do, my career and reputation within my industry is here. I can travel but for me to relocate, it'll need to take some kind of millionaire.

     

    but hey, china's the THE emerging market, and everybody wants a piece of that pie. come before it's too late

  • View author's info posted on May 17, 2011 17:53


    no it's not a deal breaker at all.
    I agree it's more about your location.
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