Saying The L Word And Staying On The Site? Romance

  • View author's info Author posted on Feb 08, 2005 06:48


    Do these two items actually go together? Am I crazy but doesn't it mean shopping is over after these 3 little words are exchanged? Need some input on this topic because I am very confused!
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  • View author's info posted on Feb 13, 2005 14:51


    The word "LOVE" has true meaning only to the one that says it. You can never know exactly what the person saying it means.

    I love steak.
    I love my mother.
    I love all people.
    I love you like a brother.
    I love you both.
    I love you so much.
    I love her but I'm not in love with her.
    I love her but I don't like her.

    Anything said during the passion of arousal doesn't count. I can honestly say I have loved every women I have ever had sex with.

    During the sex.

    After, not.always.

    Love is sometimes about how we feel at the moment it is said. I love her. Then I found out what she did and I knew I did not love her any more. I knew I could never love her again. Then I found out I was wrong and she was innocent. I love her. You see?
  • View author's info posted on Feb 10, 2005 15:48


    It's really not big deal if you're in love and on dating sites. Some people are on for love and get off whereas some are not on for love. Some just enjoying other people's insight on certain issues or enjoying providing insight of their own, some look for travel partners, etc.. It's only a big deal to the person it's a big deal to.
  • View author's info posted on Feb 09, 2005 12:47


    Depends on your relationship and whether you've both made a commitment to each other exclusively.

    Or we could revisit the Nightmyst issue - that is a member who is quite happily married, yet she chooses to stay here with all of us, give her input on certain topics, and stay in touch with her friends here.

    So really - it's what the two of you agree to.
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