The word "LOVE" has true meaning only to the one that says it. You can never know exactly what the person saying it means.
I love steak.
I love my mother.
I love all people.
I love you like a brother.
I love you both.
I love you so much.
I love her but I'm not in love with her.
I love her but I don't like her.
Anything said during the passion of arousal doesn't count. I can honestly say I have loved every women I have ever had sex with.
During the sex.
Love is sometimes about how we feel at the moment it is said. I love her. Then I found out what she did and I knew I did not love her any more. I knew I could never love her again. Then I found out I was wrong and she was innocent. I love her. You see?
It's really not big deal if you're in love and on dating sites. Some people are on for love and get off whereas some are not on for love. Some just enjoying other people's insight on certain issues or enjoying providing insight of their own, some look for travel partners, etc.. It's only a big deal to the person it's a big deal to.
Depends on your relationship and whether you've both made a commitment to each other exclusively.
Or we could revisit the Nightmyst issue - that is a member who is quite happily married, yet she chooses to stay here with all of us, give her input on certain topics, and stay in touch with her friends here.