Men have always loved beautiful women.It is only within the confines of this site that it may seem like worship.It is dangerous for women to buy into that no matter how true.Our looks fade,it's a fact.Men seem to age better,another fact.What we choose to do about it is what counts.If a 40ish man wants a 20ish hardbody more power to him.But I have spoken to many men here who really would be happy with someone their own age.I don't beat my brains out over a mid-age man wanting something young.I wish,if the truth were known,I had my 20ish looks back.Since that isn't going to happen I just looked till I met men who were just as glad as I was to meet someone their own age.I don't see why everyone has such a continual tantrum on this subject.I have had several 30ish men wanting to talk to me.To each his/her own.Personally I wouldn't know what to do with a much younger man,lol.I couldn't keep up with him.Laugh people it's good for you.
Moblog....Moblog?...anyway...you might want to take your moral issues about married people on this site to the dozens upon dozens of married men here.I can give you several names....a good start and you can begin mailing them notes as to why only single people should be on a dating site...it would keep you very,very busy...
I wasn't around when nightmyst's huband propsed to her on MM. But nightmyst recently emailed me and told me the story...exactly how you just put it...how bravely romantic and sweet of him...we should all be so lucky. She sounds very happy, and is a lady with compassion & lots of words of wisdom.
Ok leave Nightmyst alone, think that has been done to death, and if you want the full story, email her she'll be happy to explain the reasons to you. Suffice to say, she's her, her husband knows and it's ok with them, it's none of our business.
To the original topic, female worshipping......I agree with Babeat, I am a better person now, and in alot of ways better looking than when in my 20's, because there is more personality there. Sure I had the hot to trot body more then however I was also very shallow and vain then. Now I find beauty in all shapes and sizes, male and female, and judge the person on who they are, not how they look or what they have.
A blonde was flying to S.F. When the plan took off she moved from economy class to first class. No matter what the flight attendant said to her the blonde wouldn't move back. So the attendant told the captain. He said, I will deal with this, I speak blonde. He went back and wispered in her ear and she immediately got up and move back to economy. The attendant was amazed and asked him what he said. Oh, he said I just told her first class wasn't going to S.F.
EuropeanQT (Female , 69)
What a wonderful age for the men on this site to get a great impression. Your attack on Mysty is based on your own insecuriteies. I have heard numerous people on this site complain about you and your nastiness. Is this how you live your life? Wow!
Well I don't see what the problem is. If she wants to be here she more than welcome. She has made if perfectly clear thats she not available. Why it should be said that it isn't is beyond me. And repeating your self so many times only made it redundant.
The one thing I have noticed on this site is everyone is always ready to attack and hurt other people without even getting to know the person. So before passing judgement on a person take the time to get to know them first. At least then you can be more well informed.
Nightmyst -- I AM curious why you couldn't simply get your friends e-mail addresses if you wanted to maintain contact with them.
And why post your photograph? If you are simply maintaining friends, who know what you look like...why post a pic?
Making new friends perhaps? Why not establish contact and send your pic as an attachment?
Not an attack on you - simple curiosity on my part. I was a cat in a previous life.
Nightmyst is not here to cheat. If you are going to pick on someone go pick on the other thousands of women that are your competition. Mysty is beautiful but she is not here to break up her marriage. People that know her, know that about her. Euro, you formed an opinoin and posted it but what was your point, to hurt her? That wasn't very nice.
Fact: 75% of men leave their wives when they get terminal cancer.
I agree. Individuals will do different things. I would like to think that I would stick by my woman - I know I would.
I agree with the fact that most women can look smoking hot. My ex would spend almost 30 minutes every morning putting on makeup and showering. Honestly, she looked just as good without it as with it. But it sure made me feel good to be with someone who took such pride in their appearance every day. I used to love watching her get ready...
"In the end, looks don't matter."
Do you wish to be happy at the end or along the way? Looks matter to some people. For me personally, I tried it with a woman I loved dearly but was not attracted to, thus no lust and less than great sex life.
I want a friend AND lover and sex is best when it combines both love AND lust. For some, and the truth may hurt, lust requires physical attraction. The good news is that with proper packaging and presentation, the right attitude and gestures, diet, excercize, hair, clothes, ... most anybody can be smokin' hot at least some of the time.
So if you haven't done what it takes for you partner to think you are, do it now and be surprised at how life gets even better. At least they won't ask if you have to make that sound. You know. Breathing.
Life is about the journey, not the destination. Call it shallow. No guilt here. We don't decide what we like, we just do. I like slim with a perky C-cup myself. And there is a lot of room for variance too.
It's easy to downplay it when you don't have it, or be humble when you do. But how many would not change to a perfect body if they could do it with a finger snap. Oh, how SHallow!