Men always looking for younger women. Romance

  • View author's info posted on Jan 28, 2013 at 05:49


    you talk good english honey! good spellings too!
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  • View author's info posted on Jan 22, 2013 at 19:20


    interesting...feels like "men like younger women" is becoming somewgat an old saying...replaced by "older women like younger men"...its no longer as taboo..as many celebrity women have broken that and as we live in a more individualistic society..our pleasurable and egodriven choices can many times top natural flow...just as a lady here mentioned...men might seek younger women due to the fact that men are fertile longer than women hence they can wait longer to have a child and naturally it has to be a younger woman..ie natural selection...
  • View author's info posted on Dec 30, 2011 at 16:45


    I think its just a matter of becoming more mellow with age.
    I sure I have.

    On the other hand, American women are Tigers, we're just tired training LOL
  • View author's info posted on Dec 11, 2011 at 06:59


    I must say I have dated men only older then me. My ex husband was 2 years older while the oldest I ever dated was 13 years older. I found that in some ways my ex is more mature and in other ways the older gentleman was more mature. I did notice the older gentleman looked at me as if were the same age. Over all i did enjoy the drama free attitude of the older gentleman.

    I think its more of what qualities your willing to deal with at that particular point in your life. And yes folks they change as we do when we get older, there is nothing wrong with this it is part of our psychological makeup.
  • View author's info posted on Nov 21, 2011 at 10:38


    Quoting machevilli:

    Quoting CallMeOrlando:



    An interesting study by Bram P. Buunk and his colleagues in the journal "Evolution and Human Behavior" titled "Age preferences for mates as related to gender, own age, and involvement level" found that women preferred partners of their own age regardless of the level of relationship involvement.  Men, on the other hand, preferred younger women for sexual relationships but preferred women closer to their age (but slightly younger) for long-term relationships. 




    This may help to answer your question. 




    Cheers... Orlando






    It seems to me based on this study an important question would be whether you are in a long term relationship. However, it has been my experience that both men and women have commitment issues, regardless of the status of their relationship.

    At the end of the day the best we could hope for is that a person means what they say and has earned our trust. Our hearts should remain open to the possibility of finding someone deserving of our love.



    Well said... trust is more important than age.
  • View author's info posted on Aug 20, 2011 at 00:49


    It could have something to do with biology. Men may look for more fertile women.

    You could probably conduct scientific research on the impact of natural selection on males and females. The research will probably show findings of majority of men choosing younger females or females within a certain age range. It may also show measurements, human scent and appearance somehow play a role in attractiveness and fertility. Younger women may perhaps more closely fit the criteria as being more fertile.

    Or they could just be more exciting.
  • View author's info posted on Aug 12, 2011 at 10:36


    Quoting CallMeOrlando:



    An interesting study by Bram P. Buunk and his colleagues in the journal "Evolution and Human Behavior" titled "Age preferences for mates as related to gender, own age, and involvement level" found that women preferred partners of their own age regardless of the level of relationship involvement.  Men, on the other hand, preferred younger women for sexual relationships but preferred women closer to their age (but slightly younger) for long-term relationships. 




    This may help to answer your question. 




    Cheers... Orlando







    It seems to me based on this study an important question would be whether you are in a long term relationship. However, it has been my experience that both men and women have commitment issues, regardless of the status of their relationship.

    At the end of the day the best we could hope for is that a person means what they say and has earned our trust. Our hearts should remain open to the possibility of finding someone deserving of our love.
  • View author's info posted on Aug 10, 2011 at 17:05


    I think you hit the nail on the head. My last relationship (A senior VP with a global company, engineering and MBA) stated that he sometimes feels dumb around me. I was shocked, thought he had more self esteem than that! Didn't help that his company stock went down considerably three days after I told he was being greedy and should have sold it on the day of it's 52 week high ;-)
  • View author's info posted on Aug 06, 2011 at 00:42


    Actually....in fact to me age is a thing of number,I'm more comfortable dating older woman than my age...they are more matured and well experienced.
    Younger one's seems to have this complication of what they really want in life....they are not well relaxed yet...they always want to do many things at the same time!!!

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  • View author's info posted on Aug 02, 2011 at 21:05


    how old would suit you??
  • View author's info posted on Jul 15, 2011 at 04:12


    not all men go for younger women, hmmm is there not something calming about meeting someone older and usually wiser.. works for me.. well should correct that it did unitll that fatefull day in the supermaker..buy hey thats another story..

  • View author's info posted on Jul 09, 2011 at 09:34


    Men hit their peak in their mid twenties.
    Women hit their peak in their mid thirties.
    So, I guess that makes the best match.
  • View author's info posted on May 16, 2011 at 00:07


    Quoting njgemlady:

    I tend to prefer older men to assoicate with..but I'm finding that difficult now because they're married :-/



    I am on the same boat as you are. All man around my age are married or divorce with with kids and no interest to get married again.
  • View author's info posted on May 01, 2011 at 21:26


    I agree
  • View author's info posted on Apr 28, 2011 at 06:46




    An interesting study by Bram P. Buunk and his colleagues in the journal "Evolution and Human Behavior" titled "Age preferences for mates as related to gender, own age, and involvement level" found that women preferred partners of their own age regardless of the level of relationship involvement.  Men, on the other hand, preferred younger women for sexual relationships but preferred women closer to their age (but slightly younger) for long-term relationships. 




    This may help to answer your question. 




    Cheers... Orlando

  • View author's info posted on Apr 27, 2011 at 14:37


    I'm young and i know that I always get everyone's attention...
  • View author's info posted on Apr 17, 2011 at 19:56


    I don't see that. 90% of the men that ask me out are 18 to 25. Unfortunately I have no use for them.
  • View author's info posted on Apr 04, 2011 at 08:03


    I'd date younger or older women.  It depends on the woman.  Some are so beautiful, some so charming, and other so graceful that the age is irrelavent.  It is more about attitude, intelligence, and sexiness.  With that said, men are visual creatures.  So, I imgaine younger women have an advantage in that respect, but I have seen some stunning older women on this site.

  • View author's info posted on Mar 18, 2011 at 22:52


    I personnally think that narrowing my focus to one certain age group, or one particular eye color, or breast size or a certian hair color is setting myself up for failure. It's the entire package that counts.

    I like blue eyes, but if I meet a woman who has green eyes, and I turn away what would be a likely match over her eye color, then I have just defeated myself over something with little relevance.

    I have seen attractive women that are in their 20s', 30s', 40s', 50s' and 60s'.

    Heck, there's a woman that lives a few houses down from me that any 20y/o would love to have. She's 63 years old...

    I don't experience tunnel vision when looking for a friend or a lover. I look at the entire spectrum. 

    Compatability is first on my list. But that's just me I guess.

  • View author's info posted on Mar 18, 2011 at 11:19


    yeah,and I like younger men, for all the same reasons, and some are very smart and don't like the immatureness of a girl there age,so men don't have it all, and Im not a cougar,younger men, prefer me...
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