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  • View author's info Author Posted on Sep 18, 2005 at 05:39 PM


    Hello
    I am a 22 year old. I live in Stone Mountain Ga and I have never had sex with a male. I spent most of my teenage years as a lesbian. I know my names says that I am BI. But recently I have changed that. I want to meet a man and start a relationship. I don?t want the relationship to be based of superficial values so there will be no sex involved until marriage. I am not afraid of the experience I just really value my body and I want my husband to respect me. I am not saying that women who aren?t virgins aren?t respectable. But when my mother told me to save myself for my husband I listened. If your looking for an honest, fun, funny, attractive intelligent, goal oriented woman, contact me. When it comes to race I am attracted to Caucasian, Indian and Latin men. I don?t discriminate towards black men I am just more attracted to Caucasian, Indian and Latin men. When it comes to age I don?t discriminate.

    If you would like to get to know more about me I have a website that explains more about me/ we can get to know more about each other through e-mail.

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  • View author's info Posted on Aug 02, 2006 at 07:53 PM


    You got my attention, it's not important if virgin or not to get married and reserve yourself. some still virgin but cheated ther bf before get married, so really its not base on virginity but yah i agree to you it's good to reserve yourself to your future husband but somes lost ther viginity becoz they wanted to do sex just for fun and some also lost ther viginity coz they fall inlove and guy promise to marry her next month so girl agree to have sex knowing after lost it boyfriend was running away. lol

    Oh well just be careful to some men or ur bf to be, you never know what gonna happen next but good for you hope u can reserve it, ur parents is right.

    God bless!

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  • View author's info Posted on Aug 01, 2006 at 09:42 AM


    Most people in this country, or say world say that they know what love is. What is love. Love cant be descibed in words. Love is a feeling. Its the things you do for your partner to make them happy. Its going that extra mile, wearing that stupid outfit, saying nice things. If you have never been with a man, I can see both ways that you are or are not a virgin. In the mind of some you are a virgin because you havent given your body to a man. you havent felt the feeling of sexual intercourse from that of a human body part(be it the male penis). But at the same time I can see ones point of you not being a virgin due to the fact that you were a lesbian. I would like to think that through your relatiopnships with that of a women, you had sexual intercourse. I guess all in all, I think that is really special that you are saving yourself for your man, your husband. But before you give in to that, make sure that the love you give is given back to you. Being a virgin is a special thing. Not to many people are anymore, and not to many people will say that they are, if in reality they are. A relationship has to work with two people. It cant just be one person saying and doing it all and trying to make something out of nothing. Its 50 50. Remember to always have hope. Hope is a good thing and a good thing never dies. And when you find that good man, and you think hes the one, take a step back and look. does he look at you when your walking away. when hes talking to someone does he look for you then. does he send you smiles, or call you just to say hello. and if hes not the right one, then you didnt give up yourself. Good luck to you.

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  • View author's info Posted on May 30, 2006 at 04:12 PM


    Okay, maybe I'm just in a feisty mood tonight, but HELLLOOOOOOOOO...if you've been a lesbian, you're not a virgin. Okay, maybe technically your hymen is still in tact, but you've still experienced sex -unless you subscribe to the Bill Clinton theory of what does and does not constitute sex. You have given your body/temple to another.

    If you're that intent on waiting for intercourse then you may be on the wrong singles site. You should be very careful of men you meet as a result of this post, especially if they are not in your immediate age range and clearly state in their profile their similar goal. Oh, for example, the 43 yo who's interested in you (below)...beware. There are sharks in the waters.

    Lombard: On behalf of all the 'bidders', thank goodness you're not interested in a 23 yo "virgin". It would just ruin your entire aura.
  • View author's info Posted on May 07, 2006 at 11:51 AM


    Leggz4dayz write:



    Alright already.......Is the girl a virgin or not....We seem to be going astray here....Personally, I dont give a rat's azz one way or the other that she is TOTALLY CONFUSED....but some of you guys make reading these forums worth getting up for........oh wait...I have to get up for work anyway...oh well..........Happy 2006 EVERYONE...

    i don't get it why women save them selfs for 1 man and then the man messes around on them how stupid
  • View author's info Posted on May 07, 2006 at 11:48 AM


    Womnaftrsuccess write:
    Hello
    I am a 22 year old. I live in Stone Mountain Ga and I have never had sex with a male. I spent most of my teenage years as a lesbian. I know my names says that I am BI. But recently I have changed that. I want to meet a man and start a relationship. I don?t want the relationship to be based of superficial values so there will be no sex involved until marriage. I am not afraid of the experience I just really value my body and I want my husband to respect me. I am not saying that women who aren?t virgins aren?t respectable. But when my mother told me to save myself for my husband I listened. If your looking for an honest, fun, funny, attractive intelligent, goal oriented woman, contact me. When it comes to race I am attracted to Caucasian, Indian and Latin men. I don?t discriminate towards black men I am just more attracted to Caucasian, Indian and Latin men. When it comes to age I don?t discriminate.

    If you would like to get to know more about me I have a website that explains more about me/ we can get to know more about each other through e-mail.

    would you like to meet mr cajun then hahahahahahahah
  • View author's info Posted on Jan 01, 2006 at 05:54 PM


    Wow! What a bunch of sexy babes. I don't know who started this topic, but if you're female, drop me an email please ;) Roger
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 31, 2005 at 03:26 PM


    robtest write:


    Now certainly if it is your preference you can take something simple and convolute it up as it suits you, but I have to differ on the word origins of Namaste. Quite simply, it means the inner light in me bows to the inner light in you. The word itself comes from Hindi San Scrit and probably predates by eons the religious zealots that you mention... I mean just because someone else steals a word and redefines it doesn't mean it looses it's original meaning for all of us. For example, I don't think they have rewritten the history books to now mean that Everyone in the "gay 90's" was not happy but simply homosexual...

    I guess it would certainly give new meaning to the song we learned as children called "When Johnny comes marching home again"...

    But if that is your opinion on what the word means, you are welcome to it...




    Alright already.......Is the girl a virgin or not....We seem to be going astray here....Personally, I dont give a rat's azz one way or the other that she is TOTALLY CONFUSED....but some of you guys make reading these forums worth getting up for........oh wait...I have to get up for work anyway...oh well..........Happy 2006 EVERYONE...
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 31, 2005 at 03:25 PM


    tanamaria write:
    well, i am not a virgin. but it has been awhile. for me, i have just realized how important it is to hold back on sex for a more meaningful relationship. casual sex just seems to take the love out of it. and isnt that what sex is supposed to represent?? love?? two people, together, showing their love for one another?? i just wish i could find more people who wold agree on that with me.




    "Casual Sex" and "Love"........Now what's wrong with THAT picture...
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 29, 2005 at 06:21 PM


    well, i am not a virgin. but it has been awhile. for me, i have just realized how important it is to hold back on sex for a more meaningful relationship. casual sex just seems to take the love out of it. and isnt that what sex is supposed to represent?? love?? two people, together, showing their love for one another?? i just wish i could find more people who wold agree on that with me.
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 29, 2005 at 05:15 AM


    blondeindian write:
    are we in church, or what?


    BlondeIndian,

    I thought you said you are Christian, Rob is just pointing some truth to make us think and reflect on the matter; that is all. I admired his comment as he made a good point. " Grin"

    BQ
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 27, 2005 at 09:31 AM


    BLACKHOLE:
    No one here cast the first stone at you. It was you whom cast the first stone and at me by calling me lame and disgusting because I differentiated between abstinence(being a virgin) and the technicality of having an intact body tissue/hymen. It was also you that turned this thread into a debate about homosexuality for all I commented upon was that sex is sex regardless of which sex one choses to practice it with.

    However, having introduced the debate, you are now miffed and ready to cast into hell fire anyone that disagrees with you. You will also climb up any pole you can find to justify your beliefs. Muslims do not accept female homosexuality, hence if you are claiming to be in favor of it because you are a muslim, there is no truth in you. Muhammed the prophet/founder of Islam condemned both male and female homosexuality and referred to female homosexuality as "Zani"(a/d/u/l/t/e/r/y). If married the penalty he prescibed for it was death by burning;if unwed the penalty was lashing. Muslims are even more strict about sexuality than Christians-the only exception being polygamy.

    As for your convoluted argument that those that stand in jesus'word would recognize you,Jesus did not preach women having sex with women and he did not preach judgment. You came in here preaching lesbianism and filled with judgments against me, anyone that disagrees with you and even those that practice homosexual behavior so long as they are not females.

    Lots of men fantasize about lesbians and or about being in a threesome with two lesbians. The fantasy is as common as rain, but they do not try to make it a religion or preach it is G_d's will to validate their sexuality. They simply accept themselves and their sexuality for what they are. No one here or elsewhere, needs you to validate theirs or stand up for their free will. People have done that for themselves for much longer than anyone on this board has been alive and you are not some kind of modern day liberator. You are just an average guy with an incredibly enormous ego that will scare away even those that he proposes to protect/defend /stand up for. I can only hope that your attitude is the result of being only 25 and still feeling as though you need to justify your sexuality as younger people sometimes do. You do not. You are who you are and you like what you like. That is enough and requires no justification. It is only when you try to be something you are not or when you try to validate yourself through religion and particularly at someone else's expense (with a painfully obvious lack of knowledge of the doctrines which you claim to preach) that you come across as a hole and I don't mean a blackhole sun.

    You can't memorize a few verses of scripture, quote them out of context and have others quake in fear of hell and damnation. To do so is reminiscent of the spell casters in the Bible that invoked the demons to come out of a possesed person invoking Jesus' name. The demons said we know Jesus but we don't know you and attacked the spell casters. Anyone can,for a fee, obtain credentials as an ordained minister. So called psychics do it all the time and boast of being ministers on their sites, but to be a true minister requires knowledge and a sincere desire to understand the doctrines and the history behind them. Anything else is ego, pride, and vanity,the very opposite of the fruits of the spirit.
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 21, 2005 at 08:32 AM


    BLONDEINDIAN AND LOPIN:
    Thank you :-)
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 20, 2005 at 07:57 PM


    Cutieful write:
    LOPING:
    What a funny card. I love the "Maxine" cartoon :-)

    Thanks, I do too! :) She is great and too the point.

    I have to say though, your posts were very good and correct.
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 20, 2005 at 07:18 PM


    Cutieful write:
    LOPING:

    What a funny card. I love the "Maxine" cartoon :-)

    cutieful, you got me beat on brains girl, you are one smart cookie, i love you and bcgirls, views, wow, gurls, it is nice to know that so many smart ladies do exsist to take these men for a run with words, hats off to you both...god is my way to lifes answers always...
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 20, 2005 at 03:56 PM


    LOPING:

    What a funny card. I love the "Maxine" cartoon :-)
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 17, 2005 at 09:00 PM


    BlackholeSun write:
    Hey, the bible never said anything about girls being with girls, its actually encouraged in a lot of religious scriptures bible included.

    Please stop telling people that you are spreading God's Word as you are just a wolf in sheep's clothing.

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  • View author's info Posted on Nov 17, 2005 at 08:55 PM


    You are definitely a virgin if you haven't been with a man...

    Technically, the OP is nota virgin, BUT God can make us clean again, and THAT is what counts...

    Vir?gin Pronunciation (v?rjn)
    n.
    1. A person who has not experienced sexual intercourse.
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 17, 2005 at 08:54 PM


    a born again virgin for years...

    Glad I am not the only one!
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 16, 2005 at 07:08 PM


    ROBTEST:
    You are correct about the original meaning of the word Namaste but do you really think Blackhole here is ascribing to it the san scrit meaning? Do you think he practices Hinduism? I personally do not think he does and the only other usage I have heard for that word is within the circles of new age spiritualism.

    I was explaining the origin of its usage by some (not all) new age spiritual circles and the possible history of that particular interpretation - not the origins of the word per se. Language evolves with usage. Take the word chill as an example. It was originally intended to convey cooling an object's temperature but it is now being used to convey relaxation or the need to calm down. One meaning does not detract from the other, though. I am with you on that.

    For a better understanding of the history I discussed in my post and why the meaning of the word is being altered in some (again not all) spiritual circles, you may wish to read some of the works published by Elaine Pagels. She is an excellent historian and considered an authority in religious studies at Princeton University where she is also a professor.

    BC -You are too funny. You really have a delightful way of ligtening things up. Thanks for the laugh.
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