After few days on this site, feel like sharing a story with you - whoever could read it ( hope someone is real here at least..)
With the very basic and clear wish : find new people, men in particular, outside my large circle of international friends ( large but sometimes it seems small, you may know) - I selected few dating web sites, got few recent decent photos and took some time to create my profiles.
To be honest, I was quite disappointed: few russian and international sites brought hunderds of messages from men, but almost all were " Hi How are you" type and no photo/ strange photo ( strange i Mean ugly, half-cut face, dirty hair, photos with no head, just stomach.. best ones were photo of a guy behind the barrels in prison and another man was doing the splits. I laughed like crazy -))
THis Millionaire site was at least with decent photos. Fake ones, I guess , for most of them..
Then I had a chat with a friend of mine. A real millionaire from Miami. Russian man, my age, quite young and successful, happy family and 3 kids. HE told me "You must be nuts! Never look for millionaires in US.. or elsewhere! All they need are 18-years- young top models with silicone lips and breasts.. Do not waste the time..WHY , WHY did you go to look for millionaires?!"
He was wondering, as he knows I am not a 18-old model and no silicone lips. So not a right match for a millionaire-)
I thought then : "Why, really, I am on this site?
Not about money : of course money is something you never refuse, but I have a decent income and own some property, so far from being desperate..
Why - Because I believe that money, and millionaires is about Success.
And Success is about being 1) well educated and intelligent 2) healthy - body,, mind and spirit 3) talented - and realizing talents 4) courageous to take risks and stand out 5) responsible, as money also about responsibility and ability to take it 6) generousity : cash flow is something that comes and goes, and it should be spent (wisely) to generate new flow..
I beleive people who are well-off, are healthier inside ( and outside, eventually). Not because having money make them healthier, but vice versa: their inner health ( call it cleanness, sincerity, opennness) make them succesful, and success is measured in money (at leat in the West).
So to resume, I am here in a hope to find healthy, educated people. Friends or who knows - a man of my life; do they have millions or not , not as important as they could tell something more then a mere "hi how are u" and got their faces straight in the camera.. And ideally with clean clothes and hair -)