Why is pursuing a man who is wealthy considered gold digging Dating Wealthy Men / Women

  • View author's info Author Posted on Apr 04, 2014 at 12:33 PM

    It strikes me that having money or being very attractive are are both desirable qualities in a man. Why is it ok to pursue very good looking men but considered gold digging to be attracted to wealthy men? I think money is everything but it does beat a sharp stick in the eye. Any thoughts?

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  • View author's info Posted on Jun 14, 2014 at 01:51 PM

    All about the motive. Older less attractive wealthy men and young sexy females, how do you explain that.

    I must say, however, there are some young attractive women who may have true feelings for older wealthy men, not many, but a few.  I admire any relationship when both people are on the same page about the relationship.


  • View author's info Posted on Apr 20, 2014 at 11:23 AM

    Quoting Adrienne2017:

    Oh boy did I hit a sore spot with these two. I am speaking for myself, to say that a women doesnt find stability a trait that is important to both genders is ridiculous. By stabilty I am not simply referring to only a mans financial status. There are many other factors to the term. The fact that you two assumed I meant fiancial stability gives me a pretty clear idea of where your mind is. So if you both are on Millionaire match but financial stability (to which both of you automatically went in your feedback and stated that is not important to you) why did you join a site called Millionaire Match? A bit contridictory if you ask me but Im only speaking for myelf. Open your mind a bit and you will realize that stability encompasses much more than financials.

    For the record, I did not join a site called MillionaireMatch. I joined a website that goes by another name, Classy-Dating -Site. Why did you assume?  Regardless of the name, should I be bias against someone who is more wealthy instead of poor?  Did I pass your open mind test?



    If you were referring to stability in another context with the forum thread having the title;"Why is pursuing a man who is wealthy considered gold digging ", you should have made it more clear with your first post.  Most people would come to the conclusion you meant stability in financial terms in this blog, especially since your exact words were "finacial stable". lol  When you attempt to defend yourself, it may be a good idea to read your previous posts first.

  • View author's info Posted on Apr 11, 2014 at 03:41 PM

    Quoting Adrienne2017:

    I agree with you completely. Women's most important thing they seek is security. So a gentlemen that is financial stable is a huge advantage amounst the masses .


    I disagree with Adrienne. Security is absolutely NOT the most important thing that women seek.  She is speaking for a minority of women, you could call them Golddiggers or materialistic or a few other not good terms.  The only thing most women want is feel secure that their partner loves them, nothing more.  The guy I married 20 some years ago was not just broke, he was in debt with a very bad credit score among other things.


    Some females here are only perpetuating lies and a certain stereotype. Speak for yourself, Adrienne!!

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