Well, I'm relatively discouraged. Are there ANY men alive who are looking for something more substantive than the proverbial eye/arm candy kind of woman? Given that there is no short supply of young, nubile females on this site, I guess I can't blame you all. Why opt for a 47 year old when there are plenty of 20-somethings with bodies that just don't quit. Guess maturity, intelligence, and the ability to articulate two complete sentences in a row just can't compete with great legs.
It's a sad fact, but our eyes all fail, or bosoms don't sit as high and proud, our skin is no longer flawless, and the men -- well apparently they just join MM and start searching for the next youngest age group with a pretty face and still firm body.
My face and body, while certainly not perfect, has the wonderful beauty of real life etched on it, and who I truly am radiates from within with a warm glow.
Pity that seemingly matters not.
Former Hard Body Who Had a Few Birthdays and a Couple Children, Worked Too Many Hours, Got Not Enough Sleep, And Ended Up Looking Like This.
Reinman write: Well, After reading the post from Usendme2 I have to say that putting all men in that category is like saying all women are the same. I for one am not looking for the arm show trophy woman. But rather one of compatibility, substance, experience, integrity and pleasing to my eye not everyone elses and if other people find her attractive that's great for her because I already see it.In my option the women in our age group are more independent and some men find that very intimidating, I for one do not. So don't give up, you have to look in the corners of the room, not the center, we tend to be soft spoken and don't need to be the center of attention. We are confident in ourselves with out having to be arrogant, and a few of us believe in integrity is is the cornerstone of our life.So hang in there and keep searchin.
After personally knowing this lad I'd have to take a lil chuckle to this comment!
Well, After reading the post from Usendme2 I have to say that putting all men in that category is like saying all women are the same. I for one am not looking for the arm show trophy woman. But rather one of compatibility, substance, experience, integrity and pleasing to my eye not everyone elses and if other people find her attractive that's great for her because I already see it.In my option the women in our age group are more independent and some men find that very intimidating, I for one do not. So don't give up, you have to look in the corners of the room, not the center, we tend to be soft spoken and don't need to be the center of attention. We are confident in ourselves with out having to be arrogant, and a few of us believe in integrity is is the cornerstone of our life.So hang in there and keep searchin.
I never thought about it like that, lol. You are funny, but right about using them teeth for opening bottles of beer or soda, LMAO. So that is why rednecks and hillybillies have their teeth like that, RLMAO. Thanks for the clarification, still lol. I saw ARrednecks dad too, he must have broken off a tooth on one too many bottle caps, lol. Talk to you soon.
I don't do White Lightning, I am the Blonde Lightning guy, lol. That shine makes your kids look like the baby below, lol. Care for a glass/bottle of some fine wine, lol. See I have a jug too- Wine Jug, LMAO! It will get you there too, just not as fast, lol.
Redneck chillins is bred genetikalicly like that. While they is teethin they can open beer bottles or cans. Cums n mighty handly. Thar permnant tooths come in like normal mostly...
I don't do White Lightning, I am the Blonde Lightning guy, lol. That shine makes your kids look like the baby below, lol. Care for a glass/bottle of some fine wine, lol. See I have a jug too- Wine Jug, LMAO! It will get you there too, just not as fast, lol. Talk to you soon darling.
I feel lonely now Beauty and Gigi, lol. You two are leaving me for Billy Bob. What will I do now? If I get myself a truck like Billy Bob's, will you two stay and hang with me also, lol. I will even build myself a still too, LMAO. I can buy some of those Sunday best britches he wears and get all dressed up like him if that makes you two happy, RLMAO now. Hang on there, I have to buckle my seat belt on my chair so I don't fall out. Whew what a ride, lol. Ok, talk to you soon sweethearts!
lexusdriverkj write: I do state in the profile that she has to be my equal and does not have to be a "10". Quite honestly, my "10" may be another man's 5. She has to look good to me. So, none of us can deny that their partner has to look good in their eyes. An attractive woman to me does have to have brains, a sense of humor and confidence. But even a woman with all of the above that I am not physically attracted to is not someone I would date. It is actually very simple.
touche' and much better stated than your original post, lexus.
Say, what kind of car do you drive? And in NY, do you really get to drive it?!
Hey, These guys don't really believe they are going to find a girl riding a whale do they? Am i really going to be solarized in real life? Then again, am i going to only show photos of what i look like when i wake up, or the glam shot I had taken in a studio 20 years ago, or can they see thru all that, and see the artist, the intelligence, the humor, the essence of my being? Lets hope they aren't all shallow and looking for that perfect hardbody youngster. I wouldn't want him if he was looking for that anyway so i'm not too concerned about that type of man. If he doesnt want a real woman, then who wants him?
We are simpletons, lol. It goes with the Mars vs. Venus thing, still lol. And would you want it any other way? Could you imagine us (Men) taking hours to get ready- Hair, Nails, Dressing, or worrying about color coordinating, or accessorising, lol. The ladies would never go anywhere with us if we did, RLMAO. Talk to you soon.
I had to add to the arm candy comments, there are some about arm candy women using up money to "buy" looks or they couldn't possibly be working on a full load upstairs. I have been called "arm candy". It's not always a pleasant phrase to be called. Because of the same things that are posted here. None of my looks were bought(zero), my sister and mother look just like me. I am working on my third degree; going through shool with a 4.0. I actually have to fight for the right to prove I have a brain in my head. I think my aging is helping that sterotype placed on me. It is an odd thing, being the arm candy and trying to fight to be a normal girl or being a normal girl and not liking arm candy....by the way all the women that posted on here are very good looking. (non-lesbian here also)
lexusdriverkj write: I for one do like arm candy. But that does not mean she has to be 20 y/o. But if she is in her 20's and arm candy, she still has to have all of the qualities you state. Now- let me make an observation. A woman that is on a site called millionaire match should not be throwing stones...why not give the poor guys a chance as well. I am sure there is a gas station attendant that is smart, funny and a good man to be with.
Gee, that's not what your profile says.
I believe it says something about a woman who is your equal, doesn't have to be a "10" and has a dynamic personality.....so which is more accurate?
Your observation is more of an assumption. You assume the women on this site are here for men with lots of money. Granted, there are those for whom that it priority 1. It does not hold, however, for most of the women (at least for those who play on the forum). Successful men often have many other traits that successful women find attractive. And suddenly the question comes to mind: A lot of men throw this assumption out to women and yet are rarely asked why they are on this particular site.
So what say you, lexus, why are you on this particular site?
Mochalioness write: Hi USendMe2, Let me say, of course in a non-lesbian way (LOL) that you are STUNNING!! And ladies, we know that as most men age, like women, they begin to lose some of their "youthfulness" also. To compensate for this, they go in search of faster - you know, faster cars, faster women, faster ways to achieve erections, etc. Nonetheless, women like ourselves, (35 ) must believe that there are men out there that are not in search of faster. That there are those that welcome intelligence, natural beauty, grace. We may have to kiss a lot of toads along the way in our search for them, but let's do it with grace, style and intelligence! Because, in the end, once that novelty of having "eye candy" has worn off and the ant bites have healed, it is us they will seek. WOMEN with grace, intelligence, style, etc.
So Jada, that means we need one other quality! Patience.