Just joined the site, no views ... which (given my age) doesn't really surprise me but reading comments on the forums does. It raises the question in my mind as to whether it's just another 'waste of time' dating site ?. I've read quite a few posts by extremely attractive young women who never seem to get beyond the initial view that I find myself questioning the essence of the site. Is there anyone out there that has a positive experience of this site...recently ???