Chat Manners.... Message Board

  • View author's info Author posted on Nov 03, 2011 at 07:37


    What amazes me is how beautiful women get so irate when you do not respond to their instant messages in chat, or opt to use the website response; "Sorry, I'm busy." In trying to understand their perspective, I suppose they are accustomed to being bombarded by men who show them all sorts of adoration. So, it must be quite a shock to them when a man is NOT interested. I'm thinking their behavior shows true colors?? I do not believe it is reason to get enraged and send ugly emails to someone. Perhaps those women are new on this site, just out of a bad relationship and looking for a connection which boosts their self-esteem. Either way, why can't the beautiful ones walk away with a little dignity??

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  • View author's info posted on Mar 02, 2012 at 13:13


    Hi Real,

    I actually laugh at such immature behaviour - and like most people have posted on here - that behaviour is neither specific to beautiful people nor is it gender specific, my dear.

    When next you come across such behaviour just ignore or respond with a cheeky "Thanks, Your Royal Stroppiness!" Lol. I find humour in situations such as this. Just laugh it off and move on. You're better rid of such nuisance. The earlier, the better.

    Regards,

    Liv.
  • View author's info Recommended posted on Mar 01, 2012 at 06:41


    I agree Real.......I have had some nasty emails too but come to find out they were scammers.   They must have a quota or something for daily contacts...haha.  Dont be discouraged, there are some very nice people on this site and you are weeding out the rude ones.  Just block them and go on.  Good luck in your quest for happiness and joy in your life.
  • View author's info posted on Dec 09, 2011 at 21:48


    Well if I'm not interested I will at least click I'm busy! :)
  • View author's info posted on Nov 11, 2011 at 09:43


    I think this person was just looking for a quick response maybe because she was very interested? Either way women do not take rejection well at all!!! Beautiful or not or maybe she was just nuts haha:)
  • View author's info posted on Nov 05, 2011 at 23:19


    I don't know that it woud be fair to say only the "beautiful ones" act this way.. I think women and men, regardless of physical appearance, can assume rude behavior.. and I truly feel if a woman (or man) writes a nasty email to someone they do not even know or ever talked to...
    CONSIDER YOURSELF LUCKY!! You found out right away!
    For me... it's kind of like when I go out to dinner w/ a man. I watch to see if he opens doors for other women.. (like rushing 10 feet ahead to get the door for the lady coming from other end..) THAT is a true sign of "class".. and I observe how he reacts to the servers, and how he responds if something doesn't go right... etc...These are huge neon signs for me!!
    But unfortunately... Some people are just RUDE period!
  • View author's info posted on Nov 04, 2011 at 13:24


    Quoting REALNTN:

    What amazes me is how beautiful women get so irate when you do not respond to their instant messages in chat, or opt to use the website response; "Sorry, I'm busy." In trying to understand their perspective, I suppose they are accustomed to being bombarded by men who show them all sorts of adoration. So, it must be quite a shock to them when a man is NOT interested. I'm thinking their behavior shows true colors?? I do not believe it is reason to get enraged and send ugly emails to someone. Perhaps those women are new on this site, just out of a bad relationship and looking for a connection which boosts their self-esteem. Either way, why can't the beautiful ones walk away with a little dignity??



     
    You could look at it a different way.  It could be that you are the 20th guy who ignored  them in one way or another.  They brushed it off 19 times but couldn't be passive anymore and chose you to be aggressive with.

    I know this is the internet but it isn't an excuse to not have manners and that goes for everyone.  I have been guilty too but it is usually because it is too time consuming to get back to everyone.  It is interesting how people's true colors come out sometimes or how they cater to someone.  "Do u like football?" , "ohhh I love football"  , yada, yada.   The reality is she has never watched a whole game in her life.
  • View author's info posted on Nov 04, 2011 at 12:19


    I haven't been on the site in a very, very long time, but I do recall men acting in a similar fashion. Impatient, rude and the like.

    Doesn't matter what sex you are, these qualities make you a bad match, and I think you'd agree, not one you'd personally be interested in.

    As for myself, I'm happy when they show this kind of behaviour up front, it lets me know who I need to avoid.

    Happy hunting!
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