Non-attractive black women Interracial Relationship

  • View author's info posted on Apr 10, 2015 at 08:39


    Quoting TimeKillah:

    How does this post relate to non-attractive black women? Which I interpret as ugly black women. I'm really confused. The only mention of it was when you wrote:
    "Seeing as most guys on this site (& other dating sites) don't like black women either, the only way to get what I want, is to become rich and pamper myself."
    The only time you will really see a majority of white men who prefer black women is on an interracial dating site. It is what it is, this is America and the reality is there's a large percentage of white men who don't like black women for whatever reason(s) As a black women who has a preference for white men, (but no prejudice against non-white men) I like the ones who like me lol and don't focus on the ones who don't. 

    I will tell you what none of the other guys will... 

     

    For rich white guys, it's not the color of your skin... we're not interested because of this attitude right here:

     

    "Seeing as most guys on this site (& other dating sites) don't like black women either, the only way to get what I want, is to become rich and pamper myself."

     

    Do you know how many women think they are so special that they deserve to have a rich man to spoil them? There's enough of them that they're a dime a dozen and most of us can spot them a mile a way and trust me, because there are so many of you, there is nothing special about you!

     

    Let me tell you how it works... those rich men without much experience (newly rich or newly divorced and made their money while married) will test the waters but as soon as they find out that you're more trouble than they have the time or patience for, they move along and look for someone easier and it doesn't take them long to figure out how to play the game.

     

    Those of us who have experience know exactly how to use our money to "spoil" someone and we know exactly who to spoil and its never someone with a sense of entitlement.

     

    Your entire post is about getting someone to do something for you but if you want to use race as the reason for your rejection, then by all means do... just know, that's not the reason!

     

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  • View author's info posted on Feb 23, 2015 at 00:14


    Thinking this way only hinders oneself. Not everyone will like you despite your race, and for those that do have a racial "issue" creating such a topic gives them a platform to voice unnecessary opinions. Love yourself and block out negativity no matter who/what you are. 

  • View author's info posted on Jul 10, 2014 at 15:11


    I don't think that a black woman is unattractive because a white man decides to date within his race.  There are different reasons why people like to date within their race and it is not always appearance.  I will have to agree with you as far as finding a mentor, I am also looking for someone to mentor me, even if there is no attraction.  I think networking is very important and opens a lot of doors, you get to meet different people.  Before you know it, you will have friends from all over!

  • View author's info posted on Feb 08, 2014 at 15:53


    So Mr Denmark is great,

              When did Denmark elect a non white to president ? Scandinavian men are more racist & bigoted than the worst American. You all (I met quite a few of you) seem to think you poop ice cream.

              Since the world is trying to emmigrate to America chances are we wont have room for people like you who dont care for America. 

              As for dating black women, since I dont eat vanilla ice cream but love chocolate, does that make me a vanilla ice cream racist?

              You will have to find another reason why you are so jealous of American exceptionalism! 

                

  • View author's info posted on Dec 23, 2013 at 17:55


    @Hopingforlove2000. Your reply was spot on ma'am. I felt like I was at a football game & you just made a touch down. I'm high fiving ya!!  You tell em!

     

     

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  • View author's info posted on Aug 28, 2013 at 08:56


    I hate to see people putting down America.

    The truth is a lot of counties are having racical problems.

    I know this because I know people in and visit many counties.  In my job I must study such

    matters and I can tell you that news of racical problems of other counties will be hitting the fan

    soon.

    Where it does, I won't say that I told you so

  • View author's info posted on Jul 21, 2013 at 19:52


    No Black Woman is ugly; that is brainwashed education. Give what you call an unattractive black woman and in a month you will see what I will produce. No black woma has a mistake.
  • View author's info posted on Jul 21, 2013 at 15:22


    Go to Scandinavia, Denmark they treat all equal it can be black or white people dont look or say stupid things it is like i dont know why, but america they can tell people how to shit eat walk and talk, but clean up in own back yeard no way racism will always be there i hate it.
  • View author's info posted on Jul 13, 2013 at 11:03


    Hey,

    Off topic, I am looking to adventure out into Japan myself in a few years with a small business.
    Their really are no differences in people whether they are wealthy, rich, middle-class, or flat out broke when you consider their core values as a person. Most share the same core values about their families, goals, etc. If you talk to a person who is worth $50mil or $5,000 about what they would like to see their children accomplish, then you will technically hear the same responses. Most will tell you they want their kids to finish college, earn enough to be self-sufficient, and to surpass them with accomplishments. A man who is worth $50mil and a man who is worth $5,000 both worry about their kids who have addiction problems and want to see them get treatment. One is just able to send their kid on the addiction world tour, as I call it, and the other one wish their kid could take the addiction world tour but settles within their mean to help get treatment for their child. I guess the difference is if you value material B.S. the most. If you want to ride in an Aston Martin or Bentley instead of a Toyota or Acura, then there is a difference. Wealthy, rich, or broke all put on their clothes the same. They all spend time on a toilet and can stink it up. They all sleep at some point. It's a matter of what materialistic stuff you want if you are not a self-sufficient woman who will go out and try to get all that you want on your own.
    American men are so far behind that it is a joke to try to compare. Either you love them or not. If you judge an American man by the terms of will he date a black woman, then is it really disappointing to find out that they will not date a black woman. The country was built on race divisions. I still remember a few years ago reading a story about how a Louisiana official would not marry an interracial couple, because in his warped out mind he feared for any children they would have in the future. I have never heard anything remotely close to that in other parts of the world based on the race.
    It's not as if other areas of the world are without their own issues. If you have ever spent any extended time in Latin America or parts of Asia (I'm visualizing India) then you would notice they have a little complexion deal going on with some geographical areas. Other countries have their drama, but it's about what town or village someone is from, what religion a person identify with, etc. Money or not, there are some international people who may do business with you as an American and even date you, but they will not marry you because you are an American. 
    I always live by just dating a man because we share common interests. Dating someone just because they are a certain race, or you think they will save you out of financial hardship will be a big disappointment over time.  I know that I joined this site, because I'm not going to get carjacked or drive through a drug addict paradise to visit a man I wish to date.  I also don't want to have someone left with an impression that I'm rich and an easy target to have my bank acount drained because of where I choose to live since I'm far from earning seven figures a year.
  • View author's info posted on Jul 09, 2013 at 03:19


    Quoting TimeKillah:

    How does this post relate to non-attractive black women? Which I interpret as ugly black women. I'm really confused. The only mention of it was when you wrote:
    "Seeing as most guys on this site (& other dating sites) don't like black women either, the only way to get what I want, is to become rich and pamper myself."
    The only time you will really see a majority of white men who prefer black women is on an interracial dating site. It is what it is, this is America and the reality is there's a large percentage of white men who don't like black women for whatever reason(s) As a black women who has a preference for white men, (but no prejudice against non-white men) I like the ones who like me lol and don't focus on the ones who don't. 

    @Time,,  focus on who likes us. great advise !
    we all have preferences, and we all need to understand that. ( and it's not a prejudice,, hopefully in 2013)
  • View author's info posted on Jul 08, 2013 at 22:20


    WELL STATED TIMEKILLAH!!

    I am sooooo SICK of hearing the stupid "race card" thrown out... 

    Guess what to the WHINERS????

    There are white men who don't date BLONDES or REDS or BRUNETTES, or women without degrees or women with tats, or women with children or women without children!!

    There are black men who don't date blondes or white girls period, or yada, yada, yada!!

    Jeez..... Some people act like it's a personal dig on them!!

    GROW UP!!! 

    I have a few black women friends who ONLY date white men and guess what? THEY HAVE NO ISSUE FINDING A MAN.. IT'S CALLED ATTITUDE!! 

    When you start showing GRATITUDE for WHO you are and quit focusing on the colour of your skin, MEN WILL FLOCK TO YOU!!

    But when you complain about "Oh wo is me..." Well, guess what? MEN LIKE A WOMAN WITH CONFIDENCE! Who wants some woman who WHINES?? 

    I didn't even allow my children to whine when they were little! 

    And yes, AMERICA is BEHIND the times FOR SURE!!
    13.1% are BLACK, while 77.9% are WHITE (2012 US Census Bureau)
    BUT WE HAVE A BLACK PRESIDENT??? TWICE!!!
    HMmmmm...

    Thanks TIMEKILLAH! Great to see someone w/ COMMON SENSE!  ;)
  • View author's info posted on Jul 08, 2013 at 13:59


    How does this post relate to non-attractive black women? Which I interpret as ugly black women. I'm really confused. The only mention of it was when you wrote:
    "Seeing as most guys on this site (& other dating sites) don't like black women either, the only way to get what I want, is to become rich and pamper myself."
    The only time you will really see a majority of white men who prefer black women is on an interracial dating site. It is what it is, this is America and the reality is there's a large percentage of white men who don't like black women for whatever reason(s) As a black women who has a preference for white men, (but no prejudice against non-white men) I like the ones who like me lol and don't focus on the ones who don't. 
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