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Posted on Thu, Oct 11, 2012 15:54

Just saw this bluefinch... emailing it to you now...



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Posted on Sat, Oct 06, 2012 06:02

Referring to easyman to love...I would like to know in what publication you read this article?



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Posted on Sun, Sep 30, 2012 15:50

There is no love in either blame or lying are both tools of cowards.

I read a great article the other day that said that blame is one of the hallmark signs of a Passive/Agressive personality and that PAs are essentially incapable of love.



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Posted on Sat, Aug 25, 2012 18:01

PRINCESS TO QUEEN! PRINCESS TO QUEEN! LOL...
hey lady Just saw this response..
I think we would ge along very well too. And Yes, my humor has become my own form of entertainment! ;) 
Been trying to catch up on here.. But forget where I post! Esp here in forum.. I am more in blogs..
Hope you are doing well! I enjoy strong women who say it like it is.. so looking fwd to reading more from you! ;)



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Posted on Sun, Aug 19, 2012 09:50


When I'm good I'm very very good, but when I'm bad I'm better. Mae West



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Posted on Sun, Aug 19, 2012 09:49

Love is the answer, but while you wait, sex raises some pretty interesting vaprosi.Udi Allen



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Posted on Sun, Aug 19, 2012 03:08

"We all want to fall in love Why Because that experience makes us feel completely alive. When every sense is heightened every emotion increases our everyday reality is shattered and flying in the sky. It may last only a moment, time, afternoon. But this does not diminish its value. Because we are left with memories that we treasure for the rest of our lives. "

"When love is not madness is not love"

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Posted on Sun, Aug 19, 2012 02:41

"In the confusion we stay with each other, happy to be together, to speak without saying a word." (Walt Whitman)

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Posted on Sat, Aug 18, 2012 10:52

"The best and most beautiful things in the world can not be seen, nor touched ... but are felt in the heart." (Helen Keller



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Posted on Sat, Aug 11, 2012 23:24

PS.. LOVE is NEVER about BLAME...
LOVE is regarding ACCEPTANCE.. in the same manner Christians feel "JESUS.. "ACCEPTS ALL... regardless of failures...etc.."
Hence..... GOD for Christians..... is LOVE...
The fact you are so willing to "accept" others behaviors reflects a "Loving Spirit".. yet in your quest, you may as well be accepting of "abuse"... 
DRAW THE LINE..... 
"Emotional neglect" is a form of abuse... 
Carry that with you in all relationships... 
From my heart sweetie.... cuz that's how a Princess rolls...



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Posted on Sat, Aug 11, 2012 23:17

Sweetie,... I will tell you, as someone who has worked in life coaching, in the relationship end... and saved and dismantled relationships... 
I sense you feel a strong amount of guilt for something not working out.. I sense this "guilt" stems from previous matters which are still a bit unresolved.. in your heart...
Childhood? Marriage? Self-Esteem???? Not sure.. BUT!! 
I DO sense it is NOT with this particular individual who must step up and take responsibility for his own actions.. (or lack thereof) YOUR issue LIES DEEPER.. 
Find THAT/THOSE issues... and address them emotionally... 
What a Life Coach does is simply "guide" one in the area they see the party need to be directed in... The rest is up to YOU... The Seeker.... 
In the same realm... Your last 3 year relationship... HE must step up .. and he HASN'T.. 
So it is MUTE...
ONE CANNOT HELP ONE WHO WON'T HELP THEMSELVES... 
Sounds as if he is in denial... and you are still brunting the blame... 
RELEASE IT... 
A relationship is only as "healthy" as the two people in it...



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