Rose2009 write: Having been accused of being a "gold digger" by my ex mother-in-law, one thing I would definately advise all ladies here is to make sure all his friends like you and especially his family otherwise it can be a living hell. I was never interested in his money, or his family money and when they cut him off with nothing I stuck by him,because I wanted to be with him. Sad thing was he didn't stick with me, he eventually decided he liked money better!
Sorry he left you, and it hurts. He came from money, but obviously had no clue how to make it for himself in order to sustain the lifestyle he was accustomed to. Someone more worthy of you will come along, and he will either know how to make his money, or he will prioritize better. Money doesn't buy happiness.
Sharp1 has the personality of a retired citizen old man. Quit pretending you're a woman.
oh pleeeeze it's already been said by you on another thread by yet ANOTHER of your false profiles!! It's becoming boring now!
Most women do want men with money. But most of them want someone that will listen to them. I know I would like to have a man that is going to spoil me rotten and listen, make me laugh and enjoy life at the same time. If he can do that then he's a winner in my book.
AndreaRose write: I'm sure no woman puts "dirt poor" on the top of their list either. Women tend to be more "sensitive" to money matters, especially when they don't have any! When you have never had much money (like myself) it's very difficult to ask someone else for money because it feels as though you're asking them for something that THEY need as much as you do. See what I'm getting at? I'm here because I want to find a "sugardaddy" so to say, but more than that I'm looking for someone who'll talk to me. I'm looking for someone who is educated and open-minded. I'm not meaning to stereotype, but it seems that the most educated and sophisticated people are wealthy. The "rich" people are the ones who can afford such luxuries as adult education (college) or travel. These things expand a person's point of view as well as understanding the world. I'm looking for someone willing to give me the opportunity to have those same luxuries... in exchange for some great conversations!!
Try working for some 'escort' service but insist that it is only conversation and no sex or go work for a millionaires casino /club..or be an air stewardess only in first class cabin..or work in conference organisations where u meet all the professionals..but you sure need to polish up on your 'conversation skills'..and flirting skills...and invest in your assets whatever they maybe..go to the beauty tips site here..lots of well groomed ladies dispensing lots of vital tips for the makeover of a lifetime..good luck and hope you find that catch...
blink182hottiegirl write: I'm sexy, I'm cute, I'm popular to boot. I'm b*tchin, great hair, the boys all love to stare,. I'm wanted i'm hot, i'm everything your not. You hate us cause we're beautifull well we dont like you either, we're cheerleaders!!! HAHA just had to add this in for laughs, srry if i've offended anyone. Cute pic very sexy girl.. XOXO, LC
I agree with you. I came on this site to find a man that will spoil and pamper me. Someone to show me things that I may never experience with someone that is not wealthy. I love the finer things in life.
I'm sexy, I'm cute, I'm popular to boot. I'm b*tchin, great hair, the boys all love to stare,. I'm wanted i'm hot, i'm everything your not. You hate us cause we're beautifull well we dont like you either, we're cheerleaders!!! HAHA just had to add this in for laughs, srry if i've offended anyone. Cute pic very sexy girl.. XOXO, LC
I'm sure no woman puts "dirt poor" on the top of their list either. Women tend to be more "sensitive" to money matters, especially when they don't have any! When you have never had much money (like myself) it's very difficult to ask someone else for money because it feels as though you're asking them for something that THEY need as much as you do. See what I'm getting at? I'm here because I want to find a "sugardaddy" so to say, but more than that I'm looking for someone who'll talk to me. I'm looking for someone who is educated and open-minded. I'm not meaning to stereotype, but it seems that the most educated and sophisticated people are wealthy. The "rich" people are the ones who can afford such luxuries as adult education (college) or travel. These things expand a person's point of view as well as understanding the world. I'm looking for someone willing to give me the opportunity to have those same luxuries... in exchange for some great conversations!!
I think most women do want a man who has money, but many men find this offensive in some cases. I am would love to have a man that is wealthy and I have chemistry with them also. I have so serious problems with finding the right mix. Sometimes they are very nice, good looking, but stingy. Or very giving, but I am not attracted to them. As rule I do not take money or gifts from men that I have know intentions of making good on making him feel good about giving it to me.
Yes, money is high on the list, but only because it allows the freedom to expore the other finer options a good relationship can offer. The desire to play, pamper, spoil and get treated well to name a few. I think honesty right up front is the healthy way to start.
Very good topic for sure and bullwinkle60061 (to funny) and katiegirl (right on). As for me well my reasoning for being here is very simple CONTACTS and meeting new and exciting people and maybe finding the man of my dreams.But I do not live in a dillusional reality either. I find this site very exciting,intelligent and yes humorous.As I have said I am a writer and singer and a computer engineer but I have stories to tell and songs to sing and maybe just maybe I could make a millioniare into a billioniare if they took a chance with me. That's my opinion. Thanks for the topic. Jesse
Well....'gold digger' is a relative term. My ex called me a 'gold digger' because he was sending 40 pounds a week (that's $80 to my friends on the other side of the pond) for his daughter.
That would barely keep her alive, considering he spent almost the equivalent on cigarettes.
I promptly kicked him to the curb and decided getting nothing was better than dealing with his insanity.
So this time round, I need a man with ambition and who's financially secure for one reason really. I'm extremely ambitious and make a lot of money for myself even now as a single parent and I don't want to have to deal with a man whose ego can't handle the fact that I'll never be a damsel in distress.
I agree with the other women on this site. I do want financial security. They don't have to be a Millionaire though. I've worked hard most my life and raised my two sons. I have my home and my goals. I plan on writting software for that special niche on the Internet and other projects.
I been on other sites also and just not getting anywhere. I was in a relationship and I'd encouraged him with his career. When he got frustrated, I was there to tell him not to give up. He is doing great. Of course, we parted last year as friends. I have meet men with a high school education and they were nice looking. Yet, I couldn't carry on a conversation with them. Like someone stated on here, the men on here are of better quality, educated, intelligent and with that comes financial security. I want love and to give love, passion and give passion back and receive affection as I in return give in back and the money is just extra, like icing on the cake.
bunnybiz write: Like someone stated on here, the men are better quality, educated, intelligent and with that comes financial security. I want love and to give love, passion and affection and the money is just extra, like icing on the cake.
well im a 30 yrs old woman and i've had some bad luck looking for mister right. im looking for a man who is willing to show me the better things in life. want a man to spoil me with luxuries.im not a gold digger is just my experiences with life and relationships has taught me diffrent.any man who is willing to enjoy the company of a beautiful latin mami just let me know
Hmm...well...sometimes we get alittle jaded wondering if the men who want to meet have been lying the whole time...and let's not forget LOVE is LOVE doesn't matter how much money they have. Doesn't mean wouldn't want a man with money...means there has to be MORE than that.
Then some of us would LIKE to be with someone with money...but have a bit of fear wondering what they REALLY want...so cautious
Others don't want to be perceived as a gold digger.
Myself was very well off when I was growing up but Dad had grown up poor in Boston, so he taught us a healthy respect that money isn't everything, learn to take care of our belongings not just treat it poorly or throw things away instead of repairing, and buying Goodwill clothes not a bad thing if still a good deal and looks good...but we still traveled alot during summer breaks, never wanted for brand new clothes or joining sport teams, but still took us camping, fishing and learned how to survive alone in the woods...then he would take us to expensive resteraunt...then greasy spoons...then I bumped elbows with lawyers, doctors and policians had step mother made me go to Barbazon for proper behavior so would not embarrass them with 'high society'. Never needed to know which fork or plate to use, and like escargot but not cavier ick: )
I have also been very poor. When I moved back to Texas and my job was not there as promised...lost my car and had to take the Metro, had to eat Ramen even though loved Chinese. Learned alot about life and how to take care of myself which gave my a self sufficency...paid my own way through school or got student loans...
Sure would like someone to help 'take care of me' so that I won't have to constantly worry about money and how to survive paycheck to paycheck...go travel, never want for anything...but at what cost? And need to know a person well enough to trust them in a foreign country LOL. I am a very...strong willed woman...dominate when at work, have to be...bit more submissive during other relationships ;)
This is my opinion, and my reply getting a bit long...
Some Millionaires have a reputation of love them and leave them, or controling of their signifs because of money
Money is nothing if you don't have happiness and love. But at the same time, I want to maintain a certain level of lifestyle. It doesn't have to be extravagant but I don't want to work for the rest of my life either. I am financially stable and want to meet a man that is also finacially stable. BUT, love first, everything else will follow.
Hello--r u guys blind?? This question is the dumbest... What woman wouldn't want financial stability? They'd be a fool to turn that down. The difference between a gold digger and a person that just wants someone financially fit--is the fact that feelings are involved with the person who wants someone well off. A gold digger doesn't care and it's like she has radar for the rich.
A man does it all the time--they are constantly concerned with what a woman has going for herself. The tables are turning...Men want to be taken care of now. Where as before it was the man's job to provide for a lady--now--if you ask for a drink--you are out for a man's wallet!!?? That's insane.
I don't know about you ladies but I've worked hard all my life and have barely been treated like a woman by a man. I never got,"Oh! do you need anything?" "Oh! you make music? Let me help you get toward your dreams?" "Oh! you need to get in the studio? How much does it cost? You need help paying for it?" I am dreaming of the day that a man sees me for more than a person that wants to take from them--and look at me for what I can do for them with their help..
It might be Canada is a big enough place to leave town together. The UK is small and no matter where you go, you meet people who know you or people you know.........
Actually having said that, when I visited Pretoria, in South Africa, I stayed in a guest house. One evening a man booked in, and for the next two days I kept thinking I know him, and he kept thinking I know her, but we both thought so far from home that it was not possible. Eventually we did speak. Turns out he was from the nearest town to the village I live in! He even attended the same college as my youngest daughter.
It is a small world..... and getting smaller by the minute it seems!
As to his friends liking you, another thought is make sure he is polite to your friends, however much he may disagree with your friends. Somebody I know enjoys hunting shooting fishing etc.. his OH was against these activities. So when his friends came round she would always "debate", to the point of arguing the pros/cons of these activities with them and eventually nobody wanted to come and visit him.