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Posted on Thu, Apr 04, 2013 11:28

As William Shakespeare said,,,,Love looks not from the eyes ..but from the mind..
I love this quote as I think this is so very true in my experience.I know I am always drawn to someone of a similar mindset to myself....regardless to a great extent of age or looks.and it has worked vica versa
However...I have to admit I have also attracted my fair share of clowns!  haha  : ))
..altho none on this site yet  thankfully!..



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Posted on Wed, Apr 03, 2013 13:47

i think i disagree. if people are too much alike i think things might be a little mundane. shouldnt we learn and maybe take with us the good qualities that we "adopt"  or learn from others close to us that we admire and / or respect?



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Posted on Tue, Feb 19, 2013 09:07

I disagree, we do not attract what we are at all. For example if youre a beautiful person , do you always attract beautiful people ? not all the time, you end up attracting the wrong attention in retrospect. The weirdos, the geiks , people the totally opposite of yourself. I wish I did attract what I really wanted.
Thats just how I feel about that sayin.
Lexus



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Posted on Tue, Jan 22, 2013 18:55

Might be true in some circumstances like smile and the world will smile back..i also agree that we also can attract what we might need at a certain moment anddisattract what we dont...but they also say opposites attract for a reason meaning sometimes opposites complete eachother while the same can get into a fuzz...so i would say its relative..as stated...an innocent lamb will definately attract a vicious wolfe etc...the human mind is very complex and there are many sensoric strings floating which either get picked up or picks up...waves..hence attraction is somewhat unexplanable to a precise point.



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Posted on Wed, Dec 26, 2012 21:03

I dont agree, Ive been on  a few dating cites and I never attract someone like me, I have a degree and am always looking for someone who is educated but I always attract the opposite, I am very positive and some of these men just tell me sad or negative stories no matter how I try to turn the conversation around Or I will try to chat about meaningful things and they just want to talk about " your cute " or "what are you doing tonight"



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Posted on Sun, Dec 09, 2012 16:24

I really disagree with that quote!



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Posted on Sat, Oct 06, 2012 15:31

true



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Posted on Mon, Sep 17, 2012 17:20

I don't think we attract who we are.  We attract who we need.  Our needs change after a while, as do the person we attract, so we grow apart.  Thus, monogamy is not natural in this respect.  But that is another story.



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Posted on Fri, Aug 31, 2012 18:35

I absolutely agree...whole premise behind law of attraction



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Posted on Fri, Aug 31, 2012 18:31

I think that's absolutely true... hence the old saying: birds of a feather flock together.

But if not what you are, certainly what you need... and the two usually aren't two far apart.



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Posted on Mon, Aug 27, 2012 21:58

I agree, we feel more comfortable with people like us.