By communicating for a long time in chat, i've noticed
that we are all equal, at least in expectations for love , romance and friendship.Though the value of love reationships is a bit different in US. Too much freedom has made women independent in everything, thus making both genders unhappier.As men dont know how to behave with such ladies, who are independent in everything.All topics are about sex, so men have no choice in that matter , and they do suffer from missunderstanding from ladies.They seek for soulmate but find only oline webcams with sexshow.They want sincerity but get fake.We've got to think of it seriously!:)
Locally our public schools are so bad, they have 2 bumper stickers that sums it all up: 1) my son beat up your honor roll student 2) my kid is: inmate of the month at the county jail.
This points out the degree of decline in society, civility and decency is readily apparent. Many men here where I am at do not even want to think of a woman from here in this area to date or marry or anything else. Why? so many for a line of coke would do anyone or anything. Many have an attitude or idea of what their "man" should be, but at the same time try to make a man they are with into something he is not. An example of this was a few months ago at a mall here locally. A man was with his family in a mall's resturant and some young punks got rude and forward with his very beautiful wife. He did the only thing a smart man could do here, he did not escalate the situation by standing up and being mouthy (one thing was he was white and they being black). He kept his family together and away from them. After the punks left, he ridiculed him there for being "chicken" yet not even thinking that he was outnumbered 5 to 1 and had no weapon to use. Times and societal pressures here has changed. IF that white man had fought, himself against the blacks, the media would have had a field day making him out to be a racist, etc. Not to mention the police that would arrest him and leave the blacks alone.
I have a tendancy to attract wealthy men, or those with a powerful position - who at first I thought were strong and know what they want emotionally...and it seems this area is often their vulnerability. I have known some really lovely guys in my life...as platonic friends. More recently I realised I was actually in control with what I wanted - we all are able to make this choice. I do not usually make demands... I have never been in the position where I wanted more than friendship with a friend. The only thing is if you want to keep them as a friend..another woman might feel threatened by a close female presence. But I guess if you care enough - you let them go wishing them every happiness....It does hurt sometimes.
Then there are the ones who realise afterwards they love you........Lets not go there! If a man really loved us they would not look elsewhere..or be tempted by someone else..surely?
Maybe this is where we have to speak out and say how we really feel. If someone just wants to be your friend..all well and good. But if there is more, that risk might be worth taking.