Why don't the wealthy/millionaire men want black women? Dating Wealthy Men / Women

  • View author's info Author posted on Feb 15, 2006 13:25


    I am a black woman with great potential and goal oriented too. I have searched many profile and none of the men check the box for a black woman. Every other ethnicity was checked but not that one. I dont understand how a man can chose a skinny white/asian/latina girl from any type of family but not a good black woman. I hope I can get an answer from a few of the wealty men here so that I can understand what the hell is going on. I know Im a catch and am A good woman but yet I only get men who want to experience something freaky or have a sex buddy. How can I meet my good man?

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  • View author's info posted on Aug 02, 2015 20:24


    I've never had a problem. I've always desired.....

  • View author's info posted on Aug 20, 2011 01:56


    That is not true. There are wealthy men that would love to date or even marry a black woman. People date and marry who they chose. Everyone has their own preference. Me on the other hand, I am a female and I would date a guy regardless of his status and regardless of his race.

    Stop worrying about why you haven't found a wealthy man. You can love a man who is not wealthy just as equally the same. Look for someone you can have fun with and where both of you can enjoy each other's company. If you do this everything will fall into place.
  • View author's info posted on Jul 18, 2011 19:41


    I love all women, color means nothing !
  • View author's info posted on Jan 19, 2011 18:55


    I LOVE THAT STATEMENT LADY!!!!

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  • View author's info posted on Aug 26, 2010 10:36


    Just don´t focuse on racist people. There are sayings for Latin americans, for blonds, for asians, for tall, for short, for thin, for fat, etc... That don't worth expressing. So just focuse in the people with higher values who see what worths in life. If you want to find racism, you will find it. Just focuse on the people who use words that mean values and good will. The others just ignore them.
    Also thnik that there'll be poeple who won´t be attracted to you eventhough you are attracted to them. There is no racism in this. Just flow and continue with your search ;)
    Do not keep in mind ugly events or words from others. Be responsile for what you give, you are not responsible of what you receive.
  • View author's info posted on Mar 05, 2010 09:31


    This subject is crazy. I feel like all races like what they like it dont have to be prejudice involve. To the one that started this question: You should be saying {I am a strong African American that wants A strong man that can love me. Who ever responds to you then you go from there dont worry about race not to mention god but god puts who he feel is right in your life.

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  • View author's info posted on Mar 03, 2010 18:34


    Everyone keeps saying that it preference,race,relgion and so on I don't look at it that a way my personal view is that most Afican American women don't know how to carry themselves in public or in general, you have to know when to have manners and know when not to. Look how she starts her statement I am black women that strret talk, she should of said I AM AN AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMEN. Why would a successful rich men want to take any women around their company that talks like she came from the streets have some class about yourself. Let it show that you are a BBW women with class or for that matter all ladies should have class about them and you might find that gentalmen that your looking for. by the way iam a gay man who is African American/French/German and iam not trying to put anyone down or talk bad about African Americans. Just Have A little class w/manners

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  • View author's info posted on Feb 13, 2010 00:31


    since this post is so old im wondering if you found what you are looking for yet I hope so and wish nothing but the best peace love and happiness for you but its funny that before I found your post I was about to ask where are all the black men that are looking for real black women I shouldnt have to ask if he's rich this since this site claims to have milliionares looking for women?  Im not begging for attention but since i paid to be on this site I obviously want at least a pen pal but I'm not desperate so I dont really have to ask any questions here but rather just let the cards fall where they may because I have something thats better than money. And its something that not even billions can buy and that's the Love of God. I wish that you too knew that love. Because He is love and when you have it you won't have to beg for anyone else's. You are a beautiful woman  dont ever think that youre not and many black women have something good to offer, But it might just take a little longer for some good men to really figure that one out. Peace and love and I hoped it all worked out for you. Gbu

  • View author's info posted on Oct 17, 2009 17:21


    I totaly agree with Topkatt. People shouldnt look at race or religion they should look at people for whats inside not on the outside.

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  • View author's info posted on Jun 17, 2008 13:36


    Quoting blackrose421965:

    It's all in the delivery. My dear, first of all your question should have been, Are there any Men on this site interested in African American woman? Then perhaps you would have received replies from those who are. Never start off with a negative statement such as yours; even if that is what you think. You well never know the truth about anything in life if you come across poorly and are therefore deemed to be problematic with issues concerning low self-esteem. The men on this site are successful and they are not about to hook up with someone with issues about themselves. Be careful how you phrase your statements and you may find what you are seeking.
    Smart woman! VERY smart woman!

    I dont recall which ethnicities I checked or didnt check as I really dont care if "she's" green with purple polka dots. What matters is that I am attracted to her. I am attracted to Halle Berry but I'm not attracted to Martha Stewart or Rachel Raye... but then Emily Procter is the exact polar opposite of Halle Berry and I am attracted to her...
  • View author's info posted on Dec 10, 2007 16:29


    I am new here.. I have not searched any profiles of men listed in this site.. But, my beliefs are what you are saying is true..
    Some men are just not ready to deal with societies pressues from interracial dating..( maybe some people's friends wouldn't understand it)

    On the other end... just because the man doesn't check your racial box..doesn't mean he is ruling you out... It is only a preference..

    I also believe there is always an acception to the rule...

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  • View author's info posted on Mar 13, 2007 15:53


    latinoforever2007 write:
    I really think its just a preference thing, I really dint agree with starting something like this but to be honest it comes down to what a man finds attractive I'm not been racist or anti any race, but I do think most well off men (financially and physically) would want a good looking girl myself I'm not into BBW but that's just me ... I guess others must think the same ... But its about personal taste and opinion ... end of the day I do think this is a pointless topic and I also might think the reason many men on here do not like or are into BBW or Black women is because of so many scamers from Africa that really does give everyone black a unfortunate bad name and reputation ...


    Just my personal view and dont take it the wrong way ...


    Best regards & Happy 2007

    Alex

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    That is the most stereotypical and racist statement I ever heard. She is in U.S. Thats like me saying wealthy people have mental problems and try to attempt to hide it by going to mental hospitals or a psychartrist. No amount of money can hide that. I am black, i might not be big. By the statement you made you seriously have some inner issues to resolve.
  • View author's info posted on Mar 13, 2007 15:49


    OpenArms81 write:
    I am a black woman with great potential and goal oriented too. I have searched many profile and none of the men check the box for a black woman. Every other ethnicity was checked but not that one. I dont understand how a man can chose a skinny white/asian/latina girl from any type of family but not a good black woman. I hope I can get an answer from a few of the wealty men here so that I can understand what the hell is going on. I know Im a catch and am A good woman but yet I only get men who want to experience something freaky or have a sex buddy. How can I meet my good man?

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    Maybe because is not only preference, but it can be a race thing. I just lurk. but that is the best conclusion I can come up with.
  • View author's info posted on Nov 01, 2006 20:23


    'I am sure you must have friends that share that same preference. Why is that?"

    Actually no, my friend have other preferences, just because mine is for black/ebony doesn't mean that I my friends consist of men who have the same preference.
  • View author's info posted on Nov 01, 2006 06:33


    I have a question for you.

    In the profiles when I was given a choice and it really didn't matter to me I check "no preference". How does that differ from checking all the boxes?

    When I read a profile and I see something other than "no preference" I assume that some choice is being excluded. I don't go back to the menu to see which one.
  • View author's info posted on Oct 07, 2006 11:55


    There are many black men who have great confidence and the comment made by dormavirg, is very reflective of the lack of intelligence by most whites toward cultural diversity and also toward acceptance that most black men are not chasing white women. Most black men who are successful , often are in business surroundings where their are limited contact with other black who are successful depending on the field and circle. So your remarks are clearly not very accepting of some situations and this reflects a growing denial of prejudice that exist in America. Not necessarily other countries, even in the islands there is much more diversity in men and women and its not even an issue of whethre this is accpetable. its an issue or being accepte. White folksin american need to get our of the box and into the basket, to get a life?
  • View author's info posted on Oct 02, 2006 11:01


    Why not? Surrounding yourself around prominent people allow room for growth. You don't necessarily have to walk down the aisle but if there was something that you could learn from the experience to enhance yourself, then go for it!
  • View author's info posted on Oct 02, 2006 10:57


    I like your positive attitude and that you are not afraid to speak your mind. I agree, it is how the woman holds herself and keeps herself up. There is someone out there for everybody. You just have to find that special someone.
  • View author's info posted on Oct 02, 2006 09:49


    Yes, that would count if there were more of you. So do you have the answer to the question, why don't the wealthy/millionaire men want black women? I am sure you must have friends that share that same preference. Why is that?
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