Why have I still not found anyone? :( Long Term Relationship Forward to friends

  • View author's info Author Posted on Apr 14, 2013 at 09:37 PM

    Ive been on here for a loooong time and still havnt found someone lovely!
    where are you hiding!
    please email! :(

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  • View author's info Posted on Jul 06, 2013 at 04:54 PM

    FINALLY, a pretty young lady who hasn't tossed ebonics and "text abbreviations" in her profile!!
    WHO are you trying to attract?
    Your profile "reads" as a sincere, laid back, goal-oriented young lady seeking a genuine relationship.
    Your photos, however, are all "sexy" type photos which could "visualise" a Sugar Baby seeking a Daddy. You are only showing the "sexy side" to yourself and nothing for one to gauge your "personality." Additionally, you also have a man's age ranging up to 38 for a mate when you are barely of baby making years. That leaves a perception of "Sugar Daddy." 
    I do not see a problem with either, but make your profile reflect what you seek.  
    I dated a 33 year old man when I was 17, so I realise young ladies enjoy "older men." (Athough NOW I would shoot a man that old wanting to date my daughters!) And more recently, (when I was 44) I dated a man who was 61; and despite my age, that is still just a few years older than me. ;)
    But you should be aware, "Random Mutation" occurs when men age effecting their biological clock. YES, MEN HAVE BIOLOGICAL CLOCKS TOO! LOL... Once MEN hit 40, risk of birth defects in children rise. The older the man, the more link they have to autism, schizophrenia, bone and spine disorders, etc.. Most people are NOT aware of this and you still have almost 14 years to determine whether or not you desire children, WITHOUT any high risks ON YOUR END.
    I read the other ladies reviews and I agree with adding more photos. MORE PHOTOS that is, if you make them show WHO you are, other than a sexy young lady. I do not however, sense you seek an "old man," as you have your cut off age at 38. I can also attest to the fact most women seem to think older men want "bimbo's." I have not found this to be the norm. Most of the men I have dated recently, and in the past, desire a woman with a brain, and you my dear, appear to have one, so use it! 

    I recommend you place your cut off date to about 29. This leaves you with him having 10 years before HIS risk increases birth defects, and also allows you to "Celebrate" the big "3-0" with him!! And add more photos of the fun things you like to do. (Not partying with drinks in your hand, but fun stuff! Museums, movies, cooking, etc. whatever you enjoy!) 
    I hope this helps. You seem sincere in the asking. 
    Best Wishes, 
    Former Advertising Exec...
  • View author's info Posted on Jul 02, 2013 at 10:29 PM

    LOL . you are lovely.. depends on if you want hookup or friends first..?
  • View author's info Posted on Jul 02, 2013 at 02:41 AM

    You are trying too hard.  Be yourself.   Again - you are trying to be a fake person that you are not.   You are a lovely looking girl.  But stop trying to be some extra hot sex pot for the older men who want the bimbos.  You don't look like a bimbo.
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 26, 2013 at 07:56 PM

    You are young and beautiful.  Time really is on your side.  Best of luck in your search.
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 19, 2013 at 11:19 PM

    would i be on here if I wasn't?????
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 18, 2013 at 05:51 AM

    You are single ?
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