Im looking for a playmate. Yes It sounds rude but I think becoming an item takes a little time. Im looking to do things Ive never done before. If we fall in love so be it but thats what online dating is about getting to know eachother mentally before physically. Email the heck out of eachother than meet on a nice getaway. In the end everyone wants the same thing so have fun and youll learn more if you slow down.