What are you here for? Are you looking for:
- your one true soul mate,
- a roll in the hay,
- your best friend forever,
- an occasional date,
- tell death do you part,
- or just a body to use or abuse.
What are you here for? Are you looking for: - your one true soul mate, - a roll in the hay, - your best friend forever, - an occasional date, - tell death do you part, - or just a body to use or abuse.
I'm looking for a relationship with woman and have own family.
Please excuse the swim suit pic. (My MALE friend took it - q'uelle suprise, he forgot my face!)
I'm trying to make a point in the "Mad as HELL" thread, but this photo shows up EVERYWHERE. I'll remove it soon.
I agree Sharp,
My Ex never proposed to me but he did ask, one day when we were walking past a jewellery store ... "So, like, are we gonna get married or something? We could go in there and look at some of that stuff."
I didn't have a real wedding either because my parents weren't happy with my choice and told me they could only afford XXXX amount for my wedding and that didn't include a wedding gown.
Then, my ex needed to pay his student loan and gave all our honeymoon money toward his loan and we could only afford to go camping for our honeymoon.
I dated a guy who only ever wanted to go to movies and/or dinner. He never took me anywhere else except his office Christmas party, he only talked about movies and didn't have much to say about anything else. He was an intelligent guy, but not highly motivated. He had been divorced three times and had a sort of jaded opinion of women, yet he kept asking me out.
Finally, one night, he drove me home after a movie and I gave him a big, long kiss. He looked at me like he was stoned ... actually, he may have been ... and said, "Wow. Some kiss!"
I sat there a minute. He did too, just looking at me, and I left and went into my house.
We dated a year! He never tried to move it to a new level. He was a bit out of shape, but men don't care about that! Finally, I caught a cold and the next time we went out for dinner, when he drove me home, I gave him a little kiss, he caught my cold, he was bed-ridden for two and a half weeks.... and then we just stopped seeing each other.
That was the most odd relationship.
Can you imagine anybody in existence saying, "I do... yes. Hugs ... yes. Sex ....no way?"
Maybe if they were proposed to by .... what were the names .....uh....... decomposedandputrid ..... and I forget the guy's name with the extremely frightening photo of his surplus of gums and teeth and random, erupting zits. Not that I miss them but ... I wonder where they went! Maybe they're wooing Edwina. lol
(For those of you who are newer members ..... these are names and faux-members from the new year.)
Something somebody said in another thread sparked a memory.
When I was still married, it occurred to me the perfect arrangement would be if a man and a woman each had their own bedroom so they could decorate it and mess it up or tidy it up however they wanted to. Then, when they wanted to rendez-vous .... they'd have either king-sized bed to writhe on. lol
I remember, after my divorce, I used to say, "There is no GOOD reason to get married unless you're religious." I still don't see the advantage of marriage, if it doesn't have the legal or spiritual power to keep two people together, but if I was presented with a very convincing argument in favour of marriage,..... I may reconsider.
Living together is a good idea for me. I don't think a relationship can grow if two people live long distances apart for an extended period. I don't even think it can last if you just live across town.
I'm looking for someone to love, but not necessarily marry. I have a ton of "pen pals" now, but I'm waiting for one of them to "claim me" and decide he wants more than a daily account of how my day went. I want hugs and intimacy. And I want it last week.