Hello all new MM members! I'm just popping to tell you to feel free to post in any thread in the forum cuz we subscribe to the theory "the more, the merrier!" Not that we aren't merry enough! (and don't let the catfight thread scare yuh. It was started by SweetAimee who was making fun of two fake members who were hurling dirt right & left & she wanted to lighten the tension a bit.) But we collect senses of humour & we assume, uh, you have some! LOL So please, bring it!
Sometimes people get testy in MM & post things like "the regulars are tyrants who think they own the forums & won't let anyone else join in." No. That's not true.
We recognise sometimes there's animosity among members who may say things like, "You're totally wrong & don't know what you're talking about."
Most of the time we read that & think, "Oh no. Whose-Its and Whats-Its are at it again!" & then we visit often to see how it turns out. We do not butt in & gang up on people just for disagreeing with us & others.
But, let's say someone posts their opinion & somebody else writes, "You're full of crap & a mutt-faced idiot too!" THEN we'll pay closer attention & some of us "regulars" might step in & say, "Hey! Low blow!"
And therein lies the problem where we get blamed for bullying other members. It's the bullies who start hurling dirt who hate to be told to stop it. We "stick up" for all who are being treated like crap. We dislike name-callers. It's disrespectful & screws up the ambiance of the forums.
There's a member right now who's gone psycho & is calling women "lesbos" & "morons" just for disagreeing with him! Imagine how the poor women feel! He's whining now about "MM bullies" like me. I'm no bully, I just hate rude pigs. And I told him off. He's still here, so I'm not so scary as a "pompous regular." Name-callers are so jeuvenile.
But we need more civilized, funny input, especially from men! Please, join the party. Don't be shy! LOL
In the non lesbian way? you actually think guys would assume that you are a lesbian if you're telling another girl that she looks good or whatever? Most women dress and compare with other women, not with the hairy back crowd don't they?
Thoughit may not have been earth-shattering, I thought the topic was a good idea!
Swedish woman with both brains and a sunny disposition (handy thing in a snow storm) checking and. I'm looking forward to what this may brng, and friendships are as welcome as flirts ;) (though I AM single and looking)
Much more info in the profile, for any one with the time to read it. Take care, all!