Why is it so hard for a hot woman to find a normal guy. Long Distance Relationship

  • View author's info Author posted on May 08, 2011 21:22

    Most guy's will stare but become nervous .What is the reason for this behavior?Hourglass52
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  • View author's info posted on Mar 29, 2014 05:13

    Well good looking girls are more picky - wanting more fun, smart, good looking man... and prefer to be alone than lose their standarts.

  • View author's info posted on Mar 04, 2014 05:20

    Mens priorities are in this order:

    1.) A great personality.

    2.) Is fun to be with.

    3.) Good looking (in the individual mans opinion).

    4.) Is mentally and physically available.


    5.) Is clean and tidy.

    6.) Good dresser (not outstanding), can dress up or down.


    Men's turn off's are:

    1.) A woman who flirts with too many men.

    2.) A snob.

    3.) Obsession with social climbing.

    4.) Women who think they are much better looking than they really are. (If you have a pretty face but your butt occupies two airline seats - well guess what).

  • View author's info posted on Mar 01, 2014 13:32

    I impress people easily. I have all good qualities but it seems like successful men want big tits instead of intelligent nice girl. Am i wrong?  How I can find a family-oriented man who wouldn't be interested in just hooters?

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  • View author's info posted on Jan 09, 2014 12:46

    The reason men are scared is cause more times then not the hot girls are superficial!  If you are not as hot as them "your not in their league" and society make us believe that just like everything in life, dating is also "class/League" related.  

    The "normal" guys are usually the nice guys and well to get the girl you need to be the big mouth show off arse to get noticed.  The "normal" guy won't be seeking the attention of everyone and try to entertain everyone to be noticed and in doing so the woman never notice him either.

    Yes I might have generalised a bit but well that is generally the reason and outcome.

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  • View author's info posted on Jan 01, 2014 14:06

    Sometimes men are assholes when they realize they don't want the relationship between him and the woman. If he doesn't want it to go any further  he cuts it off . Normally he's classified as a asshole.

    Myself I'm use to woman with more wealth and who are independent. I would say I'm pretty good looking and never have a problem dating however to find the right girl all I look for is a few simple things and its actually tough to find, the more rich they are i noticed the more lazy in the kitchen.

    I look for a woman Who is fun and likes to try new things. Same taste in music , likes to dance (swing, cha cha) , can cook and has a very good career. I've even dated a very wealthy young beautiful woman but because of my goals I had to move away and let her go. We had everything in common it broke my heart to leave but I had to because of my goals. 


    Btw even white guys like big butts :) 

  • View author's info posted on Dec 25, 2013 16:12

    goes both ways    Women wait for the men to take the initiative and if he doesn't then she has lost out.  when is the lat time, you as a woman, told some man  I LIKE YOU

  • View author's info posted on Oct 20, 2013 16:07

    What Tarkin1 said. Nicely said

  • View author's info posted on Sep 22, 2013 18:58

    For me the key is the word normal.   There is no such thing.  There is the famous line about having 2.6 children.  That is an average, but obviously no one has 2.6 children. The truth is you are not looking for a normal person.  Everyone has specific things they are looking for.

    Most people I know are shallow.  Men clearly want beauty.  But women are just as shallow.   Check the URL we are using.

    That's OK.   Nothing wrong with being a bit shallow, we all are.  Me, you, your parents, your pastor, everyone.  Even Ghandi and Martin Luther King Jr. were a little bit shallow.   (Martin, god bless his peaceful soul, was very shallow).

    The problem happens when people do not realize they are being shallow.  They set up incrediblly difficult barriers and say "All I want is a Supermodel".

    The original poster's profile specifies 5'9" or taller.   That's the average height for the US.  So she has already thrown out half the US male population.  Thats OK.  But she also apparently wants someone at least in the top 10% wealth of the population.    (honestly, real wealth starts at 1%, but I am assuming she is not greedy).  So now she is looking for 5% of the population.

    But guess what, she's not the only one looking for that 5%.  Most women want men over 5'9" and most women want a wealthy husband.  This means that if you are a nice guy. 5'9" or taller, and wealthy than you are FAR more likely to be taken.  

    So what ends up happening is she ignores the nice, average, normal guys and waits around for the rich, tall men to ask her out and to also be single and pleasant.

    She isn't looking for a 'normal' guy.  She wants someone above average and has not yet realized it.  

    That is the problem.  I took me a long time to realize that I had high standards and that was what was keeping me single.   Nothing wrong with that - as long as you know that is what you are doing.

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  • View author's info Recommended posted on Aug 15, 2012 19:07

    Some men are intimidated by a beautiful women.  They get nervous.  It is a lack of confidence on their part.
  • View author's info posted on Aug 11, 2012 23:46

    lol at normal guys part.. every guy is normal- yes some stare..some play around n some act like assholes bt thats probly a part of who they r. its easy to find bt sometimes we js tend to look at d wrong aspect. i do agree it might be a bit difficult 2 find a guy bcz most men go by what they see...bt trust me once they r willing 2 settle consider ur self lucky lol
  • View author's info posted on Aug 10, 2012 12:42

    It's your lucky day handsome, here I am
  • View author's info posted on Aug 08, 2012 20:29

    Hey a very hot and intelligent woman!
  • View author's info posted on Feb 28, 2012 01:26

    From my experience, hot women usually want normal men, coz they are fed up of hot men, who think no end of themself...and its a big challange for a women to get a normal man to her, coz she thinks, ahh there is one guy who is normal, maybe does not want to come straightward and ask.....here I think this is then like an adventure for a women.
    I like quiet, shy, normal guys.....my mind just goes bonkers, and its a big challange for me to break thru him...
    Normal guys may think, aah this women is definately looking out for some hot guys, since she looks hot...not all the time right...
    so guys if you want something go get it....
  • View author's info posted on Feb 20, 2012 09:33

    Honest nice woman writes to a new man about plans together while he is confused does he needs more than 16mo. to start dating after his ex kicked him out. When a new woman with patience waits 8days for his email he tells people here his email adress & he forgets who is who. So does he needs a psychiatrist? What does he needs to move on? why when there is a very deserving woman he still can't trust anyone? What if there is no other man to date but this one? Is it possible for him to put himself together & be a good match for the best girl?What to expect from somebody like him? How it all gonna end up?
  • View author's info posted on Jan 16, 2012 20:28

    Define normal. Men, aren't we all normal?
    Most "hot" women are about themselves just saying they're hot
    is a clue. If a "hot" woman speaks and shows some personality without being all
    ego will no doubt get asked for a date.
  • View author's info posted on Jan 10, 2012 14:57

    Men have to realize that if they don't ask, they will never know..if you like someone let them know. If they reject you just say next..
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