I have heard of the G-spot but not the A-spot. What and where is the A-spot?
The entire body of a woman can for some women or for various ones at various times and in various places be erogenous zones.
I rather think some women can have an orgasm when they are kissing. The lips are very sensitive to touch. Just very lightly drag your fingertip across your own lips barely touching your lips and you will see. Personally it almost feels electric to me, I can hardly stand it.
Orgasms allow you to produce oxytocin and, interestingly enough, makes all of the other hormones work better. It's good for mental health. Maybe the saying should be, an orgasm a day keeps the doctor away, which would not be a good thing for me ...lol.
In this age of rampant STDs and AIDs , perhaps DIY sex or plain celibacy is no bad thing...
SEx only occupies a tiny fraction of our lifespan and yet it occupies a large percentage of our time thinking and lusting for it..
...Procreation is an activity that sure has a lifetime's consequence that is often overbearing...