I am young, beautiful with a great head over my sholders. I have a wonderful job in Finance which is not very stressful because I work for a Museum. I attend a lot of different functions and I am a social butterfly, but I have a big problem! MEN NEVER COME UP TO SPEAK TO ME!!
My mother always complains about me never being able to find a guy. She always tells me you work in a museum how in the hell can't you find some guy! LOL I don't know why this is happening to me!!! HELPPP PLEASE!
No one approaches me either. I think I am relatively approachable; smile when spoken too, speak in full sentences lol. Im on this site for a total of one month, I dont figure Ill spend more money on that if its not going to work. I think this site allows for people to really concentrate on reading a book by its cover and making immediate judgement calls. That being said, I guess we all do that in our day to day lives too, would you hit on someone you werent physically attracted to? So, Im here to give it a shot. But, like you Euroexchange I dont think I look like chopped liver but Im not making any progress either! All I can say is that when its meant to be it will happen :)
You're a fantastic woman - both good looking and from your profile you seem smart, witty and engaging. To be honest I would probably not approach someone like you because I'm not good at reading cues and don't like rejection. But if you asked me for the time, I would view that as a cue.
dont know how it's going for you on this site. My sense is this site is great if you are living in a top tier city bit otherwise the pool of potential matches may be too small. I would certainly write to you if you were Miami based.
No one approaches me either. I think I am relatively approachable; smile when spoken too, speak in full sentences lol. Im on this site for a total of one month, I dont figure Ill spend more money on that if its not going to work. I think this site allows for people to really concentrate on reading a book by its cover and making immediate judgement calls. That being said, I guess we all do that in our day to day lives too, would you hit on someone you werent physically attracted to? So, Im here to give it a shot. But, like you Euroexchange I dont think I look like chopped liver but Im not making any progress either! All I can say is that when its meant to be it will happen :)
hey there! I am not far. Live in NNJ but hang out in NYC. I have the opposite problem, I can't go out and not get hit on by both men and women. I think a lot of it is posture as well as just having an open personality. btw- my boyfriend who I share the profile with is very much ok with this and encourages me to be a flirt. If you want to hang out some time- girls nite out, let me know and I am sure you will meet plenty of guys.
1) stop smoking... I won't tell you the sayings that men have about women who smoke, just suffice it to say, none are flattering and, personally, that alone would kill it for me.
2) learn about body language and practice open body posture, in the picture above you are closed off and essentially unapproachable
3) fill in your profile... I would never in a million write to a woman who had a blank profile and a few pretty pictures, real men (God I hate that term) expect more substance in a woman... let me see your heart.
If I had to connect the dots I'd say you're not sending the right signals... If I knew what you did before I approached you, I would probably "get you" and not be put off as I know all those accounting courses make you more practicle (I've never met a flirty CPA) but if I just saw you out, my guess is that I'd look and think "wow! too bad she not available" and keep on walking.
You are beautiful! That is the issue. Most (I didn't say ALL) men are uncomfortable approaching a beautiful woman. The potential for rejection is a powerful force!
Forget about THEM. Start flirting. Not for them, for YOURSELF!...It is really helps.
When you flirting, it is shows your friendly approach to the World...
Start with children-( they are alwaus gratful) or dogs, or even with flowers...
I alwaus flirting with gogs- with my bodylanguage and face expression..People love it and it makes them SMILE!
Try it!
Good luck!
EuroExchange, You are a beautiful woman and very intelligent you're in a place where the possibilities are endless to find the right person and right (or at least to make good friends :))).
It is a matter of time do not worry (I think there are many men willing to be your soul mate)
You are beautiful, smart, and with a great job. How would you describe your personality? Sometimes it all comes down to "charm". Attractive personality traits includes approachability. Are you generous with your smiles? Are you geniune and confident? Do you have good positive conversation? These things are many times more valuable than looks and a great job.
Girl you are absolutely beautiful BUT is that a cigarette in your hand? Kick that habit VERY QUICKLY, I personally think more and more guys turn their cheak to cigarette smoking women. Other than than, maybe they just feel intimidated cause you are so beautiful or they just assume you're taken.
Next time you see a man at a function that you think might be someone you want to get to know, make sure he notices that your looking his way, do a hair flip, smile, wink, something that'll let him know your interested. Also make sure hes not taken before you do it (look at his ring finger, take note to see if anyone is with him) and make sure he's noticing you too.
I know a lot of people have been telling me this!!!!! SUCKS SOOO MUCH BC I AM VERY DOWN TO EARTH AND A VERY SWEET AND SIMPLE GIRL :(
THANKS FOR YOUR INPUT
You're very pretty, so that instantly puts men on their guard. The nice, sweet guys think, "She's high-maintenance, or she's got an NFL linebacker for a boyfriend." This leaves the jerks who have little to lose.
You may also get men who wish to rack up experiences with beautiful women out a sense of hurt or bitterness. Those are the worst!
I've been there. All that's left to do is keep trying. I know - it sucks. But, that's that.
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